Imfihlakalo emhlabeni wonke
Uhlobo olunolwazi olunolwazi oluningi olusakazwa yi "izifiso ezinhle" ngamahemuhemu. Ngesinye isikhathi ulwazi mayelana nawe lungadlala ngenzuzo yakho, ozakwabo abathandekayo, ukubonisa ukunakwa komuntu wakho nokuthuthukisa isithombe. Kodwa, ngeshwa, ngokuvamile baqamba amanga, babangele ukukhathazeka noma ukuphazamiseka. Amahemuhemu abonakala ngokungacacile nokungaqiniseki. Ukusabalalisa, abantu bavame ukusebenzisa amagama: "kubonakala sengathi", "mhlawumbe", "Angiqiniseki, kodwa." Nokho, akachazi isimo sengqondo esibi kumuntu "osisulu" samahemuhemu, kodwa nje uhlanganyela lokho akuzwa kwabanye. Umhlabathi ukungabi nolwazi. Ngisho noma ungajwayele ukungagwegwesi nabantu abangabazi futhi uthanda ukusebenza emsebenzini, kunokuba ujabule imininingwane yempilo yakho, kufanele ugcwalise ngesinye isikhathi isifiso sabanye. Bazise ngolwazi oluyisisekelo lomlando: mayelana nesimo somndeni, ukuba khona kwezingane, izithakazelo, njll Tshela ozakwabo ngezenzakalo ezincane empilweni yakho, bese ungathula ngokuthile okukhulu kakhulu. Akekho ocabanga ngisho nangokwazi okuncane ngokuphila kwakho.
Izinhlangothi ezimbili zemali efanayo
Ngokungafani namahemuhemu, inhlebo ngumbala omnyama ongokomzwelo omubi: ukugcoba, ukulahla, ukuthukuthela. Akukho ukuhleba okuvela ekuqaleni, njalo kunesisekelo sangempela solwazi. Kodwa, njengoba kuyaziwa, ukudluliselwa kwegama kusuka emlonyeni kuya emlonyeni kwanoma imuphi umkhiqizo womculo kunomphumela wefoni ephangiwe. Uma ujwayele ukuhlekwa ngeso lengqondo, lesi yisikhathi sokuzindla ngokuziphatha kwakho eqenjini. Abanye abantu basecala lokusakaza inhlebo ngabo. Isibonelo, ukuzithemba ngokweqile, isifiso sokuziqhenya ngempumelelo noma ukukhononda mayelana nesiphetho siphoqeleka ukuvula abantu abangabazi. Kodwa ngokuvamile ngeke uzuze "kuvuma" okunjalo, kunalokho - ngokuphambene nalokho, ukuvuleka kwakho nokuthembela kuyoba isisekelo samahemuhemu.
Konke mayelana nokuphendula kwakho
Kunezindlela eziningana zokuphendula ukuhleba. Omunye wabo ukuthula. Ukulula kwalo ukuthi akudingeki senze noma yini. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, lena yindlela enamandla kakhulu yokusebenzisa amangqamuzana omzimba. Ubuso bakho akumelwe bufinyeleleke, ngakho-ke akukho nhlobo emisipha yakhe ebonisa ukuthi ukhona ukuhleba. Abantu bafisa izidakamizwa, futhi uma ubazisa ukuthi "ngeke kube khona isihlobo," bazolahlekelwa yintshisekelo ngamahemuhemu ngokushesha. Ngakho-ke, kungcono ukusabela ekuhlekeleni okungenakukwazi ukukulimaza, ngaphandle kwemoya engcolile. Uma ungeke ukwazi ukuzola ngenkathi abanye abakuzungezile bethambekele egameni lakho lokugcina, futhi awunazo izinkinga ngomqondo wokuhleka usulu. Isibonelo, thola umbuthano wabalingani osebenza nabo ukukhuluma ngokuthi yiluhlobo luni lwe-bullshit olukhuluma ngawe ngabanye abantu, futhi unikele ukuhleka ndawonye ngakho. Uma kungenzeka ukubala ukuthi ubani oqeda inhlebo, sebenzisa inhlebo yakhe ngezinhloso zawo siqu. Phela, kunezimo lapho kufanelekile ukuqala "udada" ngolwazi oluphambene nenhlebo, njengoba amahemuhemu azolahlekelwa yizo zonke izincazelo futhi ayeke ukuthwala usongo kuwe.