Ukuhamba
Ukuhamba kungukuphila! Futhi ngomntwana - lokhu kuyimvelo yemvelo yomzimba. Ngesikhathi ubukela amathonti / ukuthutha, uhlelo lwamisipha lungesimo se-static (efriziwe). Futhi ihlala kuyo kuze kube yilapho ingane ihlezi ngaphambi kwesikrini esihlaza okwesibhakabhaka. Kusukela kulokhu, izicathulo zemisipha nezithiyo zingase zivele, futhi uma ingane ibukela ngokusakaza i-TV ekuthumeni okungalungile noma i-TV "nesihlalo" esesimweni esingenasimo somzimba, ingane ibeka ingozi ekuthuthukiseni nasekuthuthukiseni okujwayelekile kwesistimu ye-osseous. Futhi ungamangaleli ngaleso sikhathi ngenxa ye-scoliosis yindlalifa yakho uthisha wesikole, owamfaka egumbini elingalungile. Umphumela wesibili wesigamu wokubukwa okwesikhathi eside yisimo esingaba khona sokukhathazeka nokucasula. Ngakho isimiso sezinzwa senza umsebenzi wokunyusa ophoqelelwe. Noma, ngokuphambene, emva kwe-telesession eyathatha isikhathi eside, ingane ivinjelwe ukusabela - lokhu kungenxa yenguquko ekuqapheliseni, isithwathwa.
Yini okufanele ngiyenze? Uma ukudluliselwa, ngempela, okuthakazelisayo, ukuphumula okuvamile ekukhangiseni (kuthatha ingxenye yesine yokusakazwa!) Kungasetshenziswa njengesimiso sezimoto. Dlala kanye nengane noma umnike ezinye izinto zendlu. Lokhu kuzokwenza kube nzima ukucindezeleka kwemisipha.
Inkulumo
Isikhathi esiningi esinikezwe "ebhokisini", kancane kusele ukuxhumana nabazali, abangane, izilwane. Izingane ezichitha isikhathi esingaphezu kwamahora amathathu ngosuku eduze kwe-TV, odokotela bathi ukubambezeleka kokuthuthukiswa kwenkulumo. Isizathu siwukuthi, bakholelwa, ukuthi ingqondo yengane lapho ibheka ukusakazwa ihloselwe ukubonakala ngaphandle kokusakaza. Ucwaningo lwamuva luye lwafakazela ukuthi kulula ukuba izingane zibuyele lokho azizwa kunalokho abakubonayo. Uma ingane yengane yasenkulisa ibukela i-TV ngehora elilodwa nsuku zonke, ingozi yokukhunjulwa kwenkumbulo ikhuphuka ngo-10%, kusho izingane zaseMelika. Ngokwezibalo, izingane eziningi ezineminyaka emibili zichitha i-TV ngaphezu kwamahora angu-10 ngesonto! Ezingu-20% ezihlolwe iziqu ezineminyaka engu-9 ubudala, abazali babo abasebenzisa i-TV njengomntwana, odokotela bathola ukubambezeleka ekuthuthukiseni ngokomzimba. Uma i-TV ingawehli, iningi lezingane ezineminyaka engama-3 lihlehlela emuva ekuthuthukiseni kwabo unyaka wonke, okungukuthi, zikhulunywe njengabantwana abaneminyaka emibili ubudala, futhi ukuthuthukiswa kwabo okunye kuyasongelwa.
Yini okufanele ngiyenze? Uma ubheka, bese usebenzisa kahle. Isikhathi ngasinye, cela ingane ukuthi iphinde iphinde ilandise okuqukethwe kwe-movie bese ixoxisana nalokho abakuthandayo nokuthi yini engayithandi. Uma umntwana ephinda izichazamazwi zokukhangisa, ungawuphazamisi - lokhu kunomthelela ekwakhiweni kwezixhobo zokukhuluma. Kodwa qiniseka ukuthi uchaza ukuthi kusho ukuthini: "I-pussy yakho ingayithenga i-Whiskas, futhi uma ikhona ngempela."
Umbono
Uma sibheka into yangempela, imisipha yamehlo iqeqeshwa njalo, njengokungathi "ukuzwa" into. Nge-TV, kungenye indlela ezungeze. Ukuphazamiseka kokubona kwe-telephoto: isithombe esibukweni sihamba, futhi imisipha yehlo - cha! E-telescopes, ososayensi babona ukwehla okuphawulekayo emisebenzini yamehlo.
Yini okufanele ngiyenze? Fundisa izingane ukuba zilandise lokho abakubonayo esikrinini sethelevishini ukuba zibe yiqiniso. Uma ingane ibona ibhola esibukweni, mnikeze yangempela, masihlole futhi azizwe ekuthuthukiseni umbono wakhe wendawo kanye nombala. Thatha ingane esekisini noma i-zoo ngemva kokubukela ukusakazwa mayelana nezilwane, ukuze ingqondo yengane ibhajwe, ukuthi ihlosi liyilo ngempela nokuthi yimiphi imibala eyayigcwele imvelo.
Ukugaya
Uma ubukela ukudluliselwa okuthakazelisayo kwengane, izinqubo zokusebenzisa umzimba zihamba kancane ngo-90%. Yingakho izingane "zithelevishini" zivame ukubhekana nokuphazamiseka emsebenzini wezinambuzane zomzimba. Ezingeni lezingqondo, ukuphazamiseka kwemithi ukuphazanyiswa kokuxhumana nomhlaba wangaphandle, ngakho ungamangazi uma i-TV inenkinga yokuxhumana. " Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngenkathi ibukela i-TV, izikhungo ezibizwa ngokuthi indlala zivuliwe, ezivusa ukudla. Kodwa! Ukuze udle okuthile umbukeli odlayo, kanye nezikhungo zobuchopho, obhekene nomzwelo we-saturation, i-doze (thina emva kwayo sonke sigxile kwi-TV), ngenxa yalokho umuntu udla izikhathi ezintathu ngaphezulu. Ukukhokha okungaphezulu kwe-kilo yokuhlanganiswa kwamamenyu amabili: umbukeli nokudla.
Yini okufanele ngiyenze? Vimbela izingane ukuba zidle phambi kwe-TV. Futhi ungabeki isibonelo esihle. Chaza ingane ukuthi uhlobo luni "alukwazi."
Amandla okwenza izinqumo
Empilweni yangempela, umuntu omncane ufunda lokhu emdlalweni - ukhetha udokotela noma unina, ubaba noma umama, ufanisa izimo zokuphila futhi uthola izixazululo. Ngethelevishini kuhlukile: ingane ibuka ubuhlobo bezinhlamvu zefilimu noma i-cartoon, kodwa inqatshelwe ithuba lokukhetha - konke sekuvele kunqume futhi kunikeze umkhiqizo ophelile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kusukela kusikrini ngesimo sezinhlayizi ezingenabungozi, izingane zingakwazi ukuhlanganisa futhi zishintshe izindinganiso zangempela zabantu. Ukuhlaziya izimo ezithandwayo zakwaSkyrek, ososayensi bathi leli cartoon lenza izingane zibe nezinkolelo ezingalungile zokuziphatha kwamadoda nabesifazane. Umbusi, okumele abe yiqhawe njalo, obuthakathaka futhi obuthakathaka ku-cartoon, ububele nobufazi balindele indodakazi yenkosikazi, futhi uphenduka waba namandla futhi abe nesibindi (khumbula isimo lapho inkosikazi iphonsa izitha ngakwesokudla nangakwesobunxele).
Yini okufanele ngiyenze? Ngokuvamile unikeza ingane ithuba lokuxhumana "ngokuphila" okuningi. Ukunikela ukudlala egcekeni noma ukutshela isimo ayenaso nabangani, cela ngesinqumo sakhe. Hlaziya nomntwana, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi amaqhawe angamaqhawe enza kahle nokuthi kungani.
Ukwesaba nokucindezelwa
Ngisho noma umndeni ugcina irekhodi lokubukwa kwethelevishini, qaphela abangenacala, ababonisa amafilimu. Ngokwezibalo, lesi sithombe sibonisa ngaphezulu kwengxenye yazo zonke izigcawu zobudlova (57%). Uma ingane ibona njalo ku-TV, ukuthuthukiswa kwakhe ngokomzwelo kuphulwa, futhi ikhono lobubele nokuzwela alitholakali. Izingane ezinjalo esikoleni zivame ukubhekwa njengama-hooligans, futhi eminyakeni yabo esemusha zibeka engozini yokuwela emlandweni wezobugebengu. Njalo umfundi wesithathu obone isenzakalo esincane esesabekayo kuTV, ukuzwa ukwesaba (akubonakali ngaso sonke isikhathi!) Amaminithi amaminithi amaningana, ngisho namahora - ingane enjalo ingabhekana ne-neuroses, ukulala, ukukhathazeka okwandayo.
Yini okufanele ngiyenze? Buka i-TV kusengaphambili ukuvikela ingane ezinhlelweni ezingadingeki. Okufanelekile, izingane ezingaphansi kweminyaka engu-7-8 zingcono ekubukeni izinhlelo ezitshela ngezenzakalo ezimbi. Kodwa uma ingane isayibona lokhu, yakha umuzwa wokulondeka: hlala eceleni kwakho, khumba. Lapho uxoxa ngalokho okwakubonwe, chaza ukuthi kwenzekani esibukweni, gcizelela ukuthi kwenzekani ukugcina abantu.
Ukuzwa isikhathi
Imiphumela yocwaningo olwenziwe ngokuhlola lwabonisa ukuthi uma ingane ichitha isikhathi esiningi phambi kwe-TV, umbono wakhe wesikhathi sokunciphisa kancane kancane - umzuzu wakhe wokuzithoba ungaphezu kwamasekhondi angu-60 kuze kube yilapho ukulahlekelwa umuzwa wesikhathi nokulahleka kweqiniso. Ngaphezu kwalokho, isikhathi sesithelevishini sicebile kakhulu, sishukumisayo, izenzakalo zilandelana ngejubane elikhulu, ngesikhathi esifushane siphila izimpilo eziningana - "ngokwazo nangalobo bantu." Ukubamba iqhaza embukisweni wezevishini ecacile kuyayilinga, futhi iqiniso libuhlungu uma liqhathaniswa nalo. Lokhu kungaholela ekuthembekeni kwefoni. EYurophu, manje izingane ezingu-5-6% ezingabhekwa njengama-tele-dependent, zichitha esikrinini esibuhlaza kusuka emahoreni amahlanu ngosuku.
Yini okufanele ngiyenze? Dose isikhathi esichitha ku-TV.
Izingane ezingaphansi kweminyaka engu-3 azivunyelwe ku-TV. Umonakalo obuka ekubukeni kule minyaka mkhulu! Izingane ezineminyaka engu-3-6 - ezingekho ngaphezu kwemizuzu engu-20 ngosuku. Ukuhlukanisa lapho okungokoqobo khona, futhi lapho kubonakala khona, izingane zinzima iminyaka engu-7. Izingane zesikole eminyakeni engu-6-11 - ezingekho ngaphezu kwemizuzu engama-40. Ngalesi sikhathi, isimo sengqondo salokho okubonwayo sakhiwe, ukubheka okubucayi abantu abathintekayo.
Xoxa nezingane izenzo zezintandokazi ze-movie. Intsha (iminyaka engu-11-14) - kuze kube ihora eli-1. 14-18 iminyaka ama--2. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhethwa kwamagesi. Vumela ingane ukuthi iphikisana nokukhetha uhlelo noma ifilimu, yabelane nabazali ukuthi yini eyamheha noma lokho akufundile ngokubukela. Isikhathi esichithwa ukubuka ngokuhlanganyela kanye nokuxoxisana ngalokho okubonwayo kubaluleke kakhulu.