Ungapheli nje kuphela, okungukuthi ulale kakhulu, okungukuthi ujabulele. Futhi, uma isigamu somndeni sikusiza ekulungiseleleni imikhosi, khona-ke kuyinto yomuntu siqu, kodwa kungabalulekile. Ngokusho kobuchwepheshe bezengqondo kusukela endleleni ebusweni bomshado, kudlula ubudlelwane obuseduze nokuqonda phakathi nokuphila komuntu.
Ngakho-ke, phakathi kwakho konke ukushada ngaphambi komshado udinga ukuthola isikhathi esincane sendawo eseduzane. Into ongayicabangela kusengaphambili, ukuze ungahlehlise yonke into ngomzuzu wokugcina.
Isibonelo, ukuya ezitolo nge-linens bese uthola uMoya Othandekayo Nakho Umoya ongcwelisiwe futhi okhangayo. Kulezi zinto ngokuvamile kuba nesihawu semali - noma kunjalo kukhona icala elikhethekile futhi kunoma yikuphi akunakwenzeka ukuba skimp. Ngakho-ke, njengoba ungakwazi ngendlela kuyoba amasitokisi, i-lace, isilikhi ne-satin. Qaphela ukuthi into yakho entsha akumele ikhawulwe kwesethi eyodwa. Uma ufuna ukuphoqa ngokuphelele othandekayo wakho, khona-ke ungaqala ubusuku e-corset eguquguqukayo (uzokunikeza isibalo esincane kanye nomkhuba wokukhohlisa).
Ngemuva kokuthi "kanjani ukuphefumula ikhala" endlini yokugezela, buyela ngesibindi kubathandekayo bakho ngesithombe esisha somlobokazi okhohlisa. Isibonelo - ku-negligee kanye namasitokisi. Futhi emva kwezingilazi ezingu-2-3 ze-champagne - vele uphenduke inganekwane inganekwane kusukela emshadweni womshado emlenzeni (ngalesi sigaba, imininingwane engadingekile ayifanele).
Izambatho zangaphansi zakho zokukhohlisa zithinta kuphela okuncane kokuthokozisa ngobusuku bokuqala bothando. Nakani ilineni lokulala. Kungabuye kubhekwe ngaphambili, ukuze ezinsukwini zokugcina awukwazi ukuthenga okwakungokuqala ezandleni zakho. Indwangu ethandwayo kakhulu "yezingubo zombhede wakho" i-cambric ne-satin. Ngenxa yokuthi zenziwe ngekotoni, ziyamnandi ekuthinteni futhi ziphefumula kahle. Othanda amashidi esilikhi, gcina engqondweni ukuthi ayashesha ngempela. Ngakho-ke, kungcono ukuthenga ingxube yesolika nekotini.
Imfashini yakamuva yesikhwama iyimbhede yomshini eyenziwe ngokukhethekile nge-oda yakho, ehlotshiswe ngendwangu futhi ehlotshiswe nge-embroidered yakho ehlotshisiwe eyenziwe ngezifiso. Uma ucela usizo lwabachwepheshe embonini yomshado, kholwa kimi, bayonikeza izeluleko zobuchwepheshe ekuklanyeni, umhlobiso nombala. Ngakho-ke, ngisho noma wena nomthandi wakho uhlangane isikhathi eside ngaphambi komshado, qiniseka ukuthi imizamo yakho ukummangaza izokwazi ngokugcwele.
Isinyathelo esilandelayo ekuphekeni kumele sikhethe indawo yalobu busuku obukhethekile. Uma kwenzeka uhlala nabazali bakho, bese ugoba lobo busuku empilweni yangempela yezimzwelo akunakwenzeka, ungakwazi yini ukukhuluma ngokuhlekisayo futhi uhambe nge-tiptoe? Nokho, lokhu akunjalo. Indlela engcono kakhulu ukuqasha igumbi lehhotela. Lapho ungahle uhlele, isibonelo, ibhodlela lewayini noma i-champagne enhle, izithelo nokunye okulula okungajwayelekile. Ngandlela-thile, emahoreni amanye ngisho nalawo akhona amakamelo abashadile abathola umklomelo njengesipho - isidlo esikhethekile noma ibhodlela lesiphuzo esihle. Like and trifle, kodwa ezimnandi.
Into kuphela ongathembela kumngane ukufafaza umbhede wakho kanye nendlela esuka emnyango nge-rose petals. Kulokhu, umzuzu wokumangala uzoba ngowakho. Wena kuze kube umzuzwana wokugcina ngeke ukwazi ukuthi konke kubukeka kanjani ekugcineni kokugcina. Kodwa uma ufuna ukwenza wonke amalungiselelo ngokwakho, vele uhlele izimbali zakho ozithandayo bese uzibeka njengoba uthanda wena.
Ngezinye izikhathi abashadile basebenayo indawo yabo yokuhlala. Ngakho-ke, ungayiguqula ngokuphephile ibe yindlu yothando emini yomshado. Uma umoya omuhle kuwo uzohlala isikhashana. Phela, akudingeki ukususa zonke izimfanelo zeholidi ngosuku olulandelayo.
Zama ukukhumbula izingoma zakho ozithandayo ezizithandayo. Ungakhetha into entsha ngokuphelele, kodwa yothando. Umculo othakazelisayo yingxenye ebalulekile yesenzo ebusuku.
Ungakhohlwa ngamakhandlela. Kufanele kube khona abaningi futhi yonke indawo. (Uma ufuna ukubamba izinhlamvu ezimbili ngesikhathi esisodwa, amakhandlela angaba mnandi.) Uma upheka yonke into ngokucophelela, emininingwaneni yokugcina - khetha iphunga elijabulisayo ukukhanga okwemvelo.) Rose, jasmine kanye i-lavender - kunciphisa ukukhathala nokukhathazeka , kunika amandla futhi kuvuselele ukukhangwa ngokocansi.Lezi zindlela zihlolwe hhayi iminyaka, kodwa kunamakhulu eminyaka. Qinisekisa ukuthi ngisho nangemva kwedili lomshado elimazayo, awuqapheli umlingani wakho.
Ukudala isimo sesilingo nokuziphendulela, ungasebenzisa futhi amafutha abalulekile noma ama-aromas abalulekile e-basil, ylang-ylang, e-orange kanye nanoma yiziphi izithelo ze-citrus ezibangela ekukhiqizeni i-hormone oxytocin. Ivuselela isifiso socansi.
Uma usuqedile wonke amalungiselelo wangaphambilini, khumbula imithetho embalwa eyisisekelo.
Ngosuku lokugcina ngaphambi komkhosi, kufanele ulale ubusuku obuhle. Phela, ngisho nezimonyo ezinhle kakhulu ngeke zifihle ubuso bakho obukhathele. Uma kukhona okuhlala kungapheli - ungayinaki. Ushada kuphela kanye, ngakho-ke zonke izinto ezincane azizinenani elinjalo ukuphazamisa isimo sengqondo.
Ngesikhathi sedili, zama ukuhlukumeza ukudla nokuphuza utshwala. (Lokhu kumele kulandiswe futhi kuthandeke), ungazama ukujabula ngosuku olulandelayo. Konke okufanayo, konke akunakudliwa. Kungani ukhulula umzimba.
Umshado wakho nobusuku bomshado kungamahora angu-24 wokubusa kwakho. Izwe libhekene kuphela nabashadile, ngakho-ke ezinye izinkinga ziya ngemuva. Ngendlela, ukuzixazulula usenompilo omude omndeni ozayo.
Ungaphuthelwa umzuzwana wakho oqhakazile wenjabulo nenjabulo, uthando nethemba, imidlalo yezocansi nokuvuma okuqotho kothando. Kwakungeyona izehlakalo uL. Tolstoy ayibhala ngomunye wemisebenzi yakhe: "Thatha isikhashana senjabulo. Zenze uzithande ngokwakho futhi uthandane ngokwakho. Phela, uthando luwukuphela kwento efanelekile ukuhlala kuleli zwe. "