Ukuqaphela ukuthi inkinga enkulu yomndeni yizingane ezingakahleleki, futhi abazali balindele ukuthi iseluleko somsizi wezokwelapha sizobasiza ngaso leso sikhathi, okokuqala, isazi sezokwelapha sizokwazisa ukuba ujwayele izitayela ezahlukene, nokunquma ukuthi iyiphi ingane yakho eyayiyo. Isiqondiso esingakahleleki umqondo ongeke unomphela, njalo uguquke ngesikhatsi, imithombo emisha nemisha ivela, kodwa kuze kube manje siyazi ukuthi yiyona ebanzi kakhulu futhi isakazeke kakhulu kubo. Esikhathini ngasinye isiko sawo, imithetho yayo nemithetho, izici. Ngokuvamile okwamanje kuhlobene ngokuqondile nesitayela somculo noma umholi owusungulile.
I-subculture yokuqala esiyicabangayo cishe izoba yiGoths, enye yezinto ezindala kakhulu futhi ezibonakala kalula. Ukulungele ukuheha izinto zasendulo, amathuna nezinto ezisabekayo, izinto ezimbi kakhulu. Balalela umculo we-classic, i-electro emnyama noma insimbi ye-gothic. Gqoka ama-Goth ngezambatho ezimnyama, umbala ofanayo udonsa amehlo, izipikili nezindebe. I-goth yangempela ngumuntu ovuthayo oncibilikisayo othanda ukukhuluma ngokufa, ukukhubazeka kokuba, ukuzibulala nokudabuka. Naphezu kwazo zonke lezi zingxoxo, ingozi yokuzibulala ifana neyabo bonke abanye abantu, futhi amacala afanayo ayatholakalanga. Nakuba, ngeshwa, i-punk yangaphambili nayo yayilungele ukungena ngaphansi kwesimiso esincane, okuletha izindlela zokulwa nomphakathi lapho.
I-Emo, mhlawumbe evame kakhulu phakathi kwentsha encane, ikakhulukazi amantombazane, nayo iyindlela ede kakhulu kusuka ekulungeni. Zingabonwa ngenani elikhulu lamabheji nezigqoko, izingubo ezimnyama nezibomvu, ezifanekisela injabulo nokudabuka. Futhi i-emo njengokugqoka ama-sneakers nama-bandana ngephethini esitokisini, eminseni nokufanekisa emnyama. Ngokombono, ukuhlukahluka kwezembatho kungase kube okuhlukile, kodwa imibala iyaqhubeka ifana: abamnyama nabomhlophe, abafana banabluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka. U-Emo uthanda ukushaya isikhumba sakhe ebusweni nokubhoboza: ekhaleni, ulimi, izindebe, amashiya. Izinwele zabo ziyafana - izinwele ezimnyama kanye nebanga elide elimboza ubuso. Ifanekisela ukuthi banesigamu sobuso babo obuvamile, nengxenye yesigamu-mnyama, njengobumnyama. Balalela idwala lomculo, kanye neyabo, ekhethekile, ebizwa nge-emo-kor. Isici esiyinhloko se-emo ukutholwa okuphezulu nokuzwela, ngakho igama labo, lifinyelelwe "emoyeni". Bakholelwa ukuthi i-emoyeni yangempela iphendula ngokubuhlungu kunoma yikuphi ukuhluleka, iwele ezinhlakeni nasezintweni, futhi ingathola nokuthokoza kwangempela. Kuwo wonke ama-subcultures, i-emo mhlawumbe ingenacala kakhulu. Futhi nakuba bethanda amaGoth, bathanda ukucabanga ngokufa, badonsa izinhliziyo ezikhukhumezekile futhi bahlambalaze isikhumba sabo phezu kwemithanjeni, akufinyeleli imicimbi yokuzibulala e-subculture.
Omunye wendala kakhulu futhi, mhlawumbe, "ama-long-livers" amaningi kunazo zonke phakathi kwezimpondo kukhona i-punk nensimbi. Ama-Punks nabasebenzi bezinsimbi bahlukile ekuqondeni kwabo, kodwa babumbene nento eyodwa - ngayinye yalezi ziko zavela emculweni, futhi isici esibaluleke kakhulu kula maqembu akuzona izingubo nesitayela, imizwelo noma ukucabanga okukhethekile, kodwa, okuthandwa komculo othile. Abasebenzi bezensimbi bangomunye wemifudlana embalwa engavamile kubantu abasha, kodwa kubantu abadala, umlutha kuleli qembu ungahlala kulo lonke ukuphila. Ayikho imithetho ekhethekile kanye nezitayela - nje uthando lomculo ovelele kakhulu.
Abazali abanjengalo mculo bangabonakala bengenakubekezelelwa, bekhala futhi behlukumeza. Amazwi wezingoma ezinjalo ayenesihluku, nakuba kunemibhalo ejulile yefilosofi, kuma-themes ezenhlalakahle, amaqiniso omlando. Lapha yonke inzondo yesikhombisi sensimbi lapho umbhalo ungowakho. Sekuyisikhathi eside kube khona izingxabano mayelana nomculo onjalo, kanti wena-ke, kungase kubonakale kuyingozi, kuyingozi nakakhulu ukuvuma izingane ezisencane ezindaweni ezinjalo. Ngempela, kukhona ukuhlukumezeka nobudlova phakathi kwabo, okungaba nomthelela omubi kwengqondo yengane, izingoma lapho kuhlaziywa khona ngezimiso ezingekho emthethweni ... Kubonakala sengathi umculo onjalo uyisimangaliso esibi, futhi lowo owulalelayo, ngokufanele, akaqondi lutho ngalokhu.
Kodwa lokhu akunjalo, futhi ososayensi baye bafakazela ukuthi intsha elalele umculo onzima kangaka iphikisana kakhulu kunontanga yabo. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi umculo onjalo, ngokuphambene nalokho, uyasiza ekubhekaneni nezinkinga zonyaka wesikhashana, ukuphonsela kuwo izinsalela zokuhlukunyezwa ezivame ukubonakala ezinganeni, kusiza ukulinganisa imiphumela yokulahlwa komphakathi emphakathini. Ngakho-ke, akukho okumele ukwesabe, kodwa ngokuphambene nalokho, ungaba nokuzola ngokuphelele.
Kodwa ama-currents ahlukile, futhi amanye awo angamukeleki ngempela futhi ayingozi. Yini-ke okufanele yenziwe? Yini isazi sezengqondo eselulekayo mayelana nezingane ezingahlelekile? Okokuqala: ungesabi, uhlale uphelile, ngoba iqiniso lokuthi ingane yakho ingowokugcina, empeleni, akukho lutho olwesabekayo.
Lena uhlobo lokuziveza, ubuntu bakho, umzamo wokuthola indima yomphakathi futhi uthathe indawo kuleli zwe. Ukubiza ukuziphatha nokubukeka kungenye indlela yokuziveza, futhi lokhu akufanele ukwesatshwe. Emva kwakho konke, ukukhulelwa kubonisa kakhulu futhi kukhulu kakhulu, konke okushiwo ngenhla kubonakala kuyo. Izinto ezimbi ezizibeka phezu kwabo, uphawu lokufa kuyindlela yokunqoba ukwesaba kwabo, ngokuzithoba bawakhiphe ngaphandle futhi besabe ukwesaba. Ngaphezu kwalokho, qaphela amaqembu ehlukene ahlukene: izitayela ezingahlelekile kanye nezinkulumo ezifanayo ezifanayo zijwayelekile ekukhuleni, kubantu abadala nakwabantu abavuthiwe lokhu kuziphatha akuphelelanga neze.
Ngakho-ke, izingane ezingakahleleki - iseluleko sengqondo kubazali, zini? Izazi zengqondo zeluleka ukulawula indlela yokuziphatha kwengane, futhi ungamchazela nokuthi ukuziphatha kwakhe kubheka kanjani ngaphandle. Kodwa empeleni, izingane ezingakahleleki aziyona ingozi, ngakho-ke ulinde kuze kube yilapho ingane ikhula, futhi imvumele ukuba adlale imidlalo yakhe, alungise ingozi yawo.