Inani eliqine kakhulu lamadoda kuqala liyabonga ukufudumala kwenduduzo yangemva nangokwethenjelwa ekhaya ngaphandle kwesifiso esivuthayo kodwa esifushane. Umsebenzi wakho awukona ukuguqula lokhu kube yizintambo. Kuphela lapho, lapho umhlaba ushiswa khona, ngifuna ukugijima ngaphandle kokubuka emuva.
Izazi zengqondo zithi: indoda ifuna inkosikazi kulowo oshade naye ngesikhathi esisodwa. Akuningi kakhulu "kohlobo" lwangaphandle njengokwokuqukethwe kwangaphakathi, izakhiwo zomlingisi owedlule eminyakeni ezishintshile, futhi wazibheka njengezihle.
NOKWENZA
Thola ukuthi yini ngaphandle kocansi oxhunyiwe futhi ulungele ukuyihlabela ngenxa yokuthula kokuziphatha. Uma ungacabangi ukuphula ubuhlobo, awucabangi ukuthi kungenzeka - ngoba lokhu akusikho isisekelo esingokwenyama, amandla angqondo (usalithanda) noma ukuzethemba (ukuthi uzothola omunye umyeni), uma izingane zingabangane nobaba futhi zimthanda, kufanele ulwele umshado. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, yeka ukuxoxa ngokukhanyela kwakhe futhi wenze isenzo esiqinisekisiwe.
ISIKHATHI ESIFUNDA
Amanoveli ohlangothini owedlule ahlala emadodeni ngokwesilinganiso kusukela ezinyangeni ezingu-8 (ngokujwayelekile, hhayi ngempela owesifazane oyedwa). Ingabe ufuna ukuphumelela empini engaziwa? Kufanele ugcine unyaka nonyaka noma amabili. Into esemqoka akumele uvumele indawo yakho efanele ifakwe omunye. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, konke kuvame ukuba ngcono. Izintshisekelo eziyisisekelo zalesi sikhathi, okumele uzikhuthaze wona: ungowesifazane omuhle futhi ungayithanda, awukho icala lokungathembeki komyeni wakho, ufanelwe uthando nobuhlobo obuqotho. Kodwa ungabe usengozini yokushintsha - lokhu kuyisizathu sokuhamba!
VULA UKUTHI
Qaphela iqiniso elilula: ukubukeka komunye wesifazane onayo akuxhunywanga neze. Akuzange kubangelwe ukuthi "uyesabeka", "akahlosi" noma "uyisiwula". Abaphikisi babonakala kumakhosikazi amahle kakhulu nabahle.
Kuthiwani uma umyeni wami engathola abangane bezinkosikazi? Kwenzeka uma abangane bengakaboni (futhi ikakhulukazi) banciphisa abayeni babo "ngakwesobunxele." Uma kungenzeka ukuthi ungabakhulumi embuthanweni wokuxhumana - yenzeni. Uma kungenjalo - bukela izenzo zabo ezengeziwe.
U-Sobry "ohlangothini" - ungashiya okwesikhashana umngane, kodwa ngaphandle kwezinto - bese uqala ukwenza. Akukho ukumkhiphela ngaphandle komnyango kanye nabangcweti! Lokhu kuyisiphukuphuku futhi akuholeli kunoma yini enhle.
UKUZIPHUMA
Amadoda angavamile ukushintsha ucansi ukuze aduduze, futhi lokhu kufanele kusetshenziswe. Kubalulekile ukuqinisa indlu: ukupheka okumnandi kakhulu, ukuletha ubuhle nokuhleleka, ukuzinakekela, ukuqala ukuhlangana nabangani. Ungabuyi phansi ukuqapha umyeni ngefoni bese uhlola i-imeyili yakhe. Zama ukuzivikela emizweni emibi. Uma ubudlelwane nenkosikazi yomyeni wakhe buboshwe maduzane, ekhaya, cishe, kuyoba yinto engabonakali. Uzogxeka konke: ukubukeka kwakho, ubuntu, umsebenzi. Qoqa intando yakho ibe yingqikithi futhi ungathuki, kodwa lalela ngangokunokwenzeka. Futhi thuthumela ikhanda lakho. Zonke "ukwehluleka kwakho" okusha kusho ukuthi iziphi izithandani zakho ezithandayo. Lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho akusona isono futhi samukela. Ngeke alahlekelwe nguwe, kodwa umyeni wakhe uzomangala ukuthola izinhlangothi ezintsha, ezimnandi ngawe.
KHULUMA, KHULUMA
Angakutshela ngomphikisi. Utshela - silalela esimweni 'somama okhathalelayo - futhi sikhumbule kahle. Into esemqoka akufanele ivuleke. Kubalulekile ukuqonda: yini enayo engingenayo? Mhlawumbe, kuvela: asikho izimfanelo ze "intombazane" kanye "nenkosikazi." "Intombazane" ithatha indoda njengoba ikhona - iyakuthanda njalo futhi ingalokothi igxeke. "Mfundisi" - unothando futhi awunakulinganiswa. Akakaze abe nokukhanda! Okubaluleke kakhulu - kuzo zonke lezi zikhathi aziphiki umyeni wakhe ngocansi. Ubulili kufanele buhlale njalo.
UKUKHETHA OKUQHELEKILE
Indoda enabelana ngayo ngokuthandayo, ayidabuli njalo. Qala ukumbandakanya kwizintambo zezindaba zomndeni. Izihlobo ezibandakanya futhi nje abantu abathandekayo nabadingekile kumbuthano wakho ovamile wokuxhumana. Beka umyeni wakho endaweni enkulu yezinqubo zonke, mazise ukuthi uyadingeka futhi uyathandwa. "Uhlangothi olungalungile", lapho bezwa okuthile okungahambi kahle, kuzoqala kancane ukuqala ama-scandals futhi besabe. Umsebenzi wakho ukuwuthola kuqala. Kumelwe uthethelele icala lomyeni wakho, ngaphandle kwalokho ngeke lisebenze! Ukuzindla nomqondo wokwaneliseka kuzokusiza. Zama it!
IBHIZINISI LOKUPHAKATHI NOMA ...
1. Unkosikazi unomphela futhi unomphela.
2. Ngeke ube nezingane, futhi umncintiswano uyakwazi ukuzala.
H. Awukaze ube abangane bangempela - abathandi nje, imizwa yabo ikhulile.
4. Ungaphezu kwalo ngesimo, ukuvikeleka kwempahla, endala, enamandla, eqinile.
5. Unesimo esinjalo sokuthi une "inkosikazi" yokuba nenkosikazi, futhi umyeni unenkosikazi kumgomo othi "kuyadingeka".