Uyakhumbula i-cartoon lapho uhlanga lwalufuna ukuqonda ukuthi kungani i-dandelion yayinezihlathi ezinjengezifo ezinjalo kanye ne-stalk encane kangaka? Abantu bangaba okufanayo: amanye amafutha amaningi athola, endaweni ethile kancane. Futhi indima eyinhloko ekusatshalalisweni kwe-deposit excess idlalwa imizwelo kanye nezingxabano zangaphakathi. Izazi zezinkanyezi ziye zaqaphela isikhathi eside ukuthi ukutholakala kwamagugu ezitolo ngokuvamile kuhlotshaniswa nezici zomuntu siqu, futhi ngaphezu kwalokho, kungabonisa nezingxabano ezingaphendululwa. Uma uqonda ukuthi yini ngempela "ukusikisela" amafutha, ukulahlekelwa isisindo kuyoba lula.
Izintambo ezinkuluIzinzuzo : ilukuluku, ukubekezela, ukuhamba ngezinyawo, ukubekezela.
Umnakekeli : ukuvila, ubuhlungu, inkani, i-egocentrism.
Inkinga : iphuzu elikhulu lesihlanu lingabonisa ukwesaba ushintsho. Cabanga: awuboni yini ukuthi ukwesaba yizinto zonke ezintsha futhi ezingavamile? Mhlawumbe ukuthola kunzima ukwamukela ukuthi izingane sezikhulile noma umsebenzi wakho ungenziwa ngendlela ehluke ngokuphelele. Ngamanye amazwi, uzizwa ngezikhathi ezithile ukuhamba kwakho emigwaqweni yokuphila.
Isixazululo : Uma kufanele wenze uhlobo oluthile lwesenzo phakathi kwalabo ongawazi ukuthi yini, ukuthi yini oyikhathazayo ngokungenasici noma okuphikisanayo ngaphakathi, khumbula ukuthi amakhadi akho amakhulu amacilongo angakwazi ukufunda kahle nokusebenzisa kahle konke okusha. Futhi uma ukwazi ukuqonda okuthile okwakungasazi ngaphambili, ke uvumelane, akukho mqondo wokunciphisa ukujika - kungcono ukuqhubekela phambili! Ngakho-ke uzenzele, uhlanganyele ekuphakamisweni okuzenzakalelayo, futhi okuningi kuzofika.
Izindebe ezigcwele
Izinzuzo : ukwethembeka, ukusheshisa kokubona, ukuhleleka kokuxhumana.
Umnakekeli : Ukuphupha ngokweqile, ukwesaba ikusasa ngokujwayelekile kanye nokungaziwa ngokukhethekile.
Inkinga : umuntu onjalo ngombala unjenge-colossus ngezinyawo zobumba. Uma kwenzeka okuthile ngokuzumayo empilweni, kuwela njengengozi. Umthombo wazo zonke izinkinga uhlukaniswa nokuyiqiniso, ukungakwazi ukuhlala, ukungabi namntwana, ukungaqondakali kokuziphatha nokucabanga.
Isixazululo : sekuyisikhathi sokukhula nokukhipha izibuko ezinemibala, okuwukuthi, qala ukucabanga ngokucabangelayo, uthathe imithwalo yemfanelo ephelele futhi ubuke phambili ngesibindi - akusilo lutho abakushoyo ukuthi uDeveli akayena wesabe njengoba eqoshiwe. Qala okuncane: cabanga ngalokho obekufunayo njalo, kodwa manje, ungazitholi kuphela amaphupho. Yenza ngokuningiliziwe uhlelo lokusebenza ngangokunokwenzeka, ucabange ngezimo ezingenzeka, kodwa akukho cala kuxhomeke esigabeni sokuhlela. Uma nje sekucacile ukuthi nini nokuthi nini okumelwe ukwenze, shiya konke ukungabaza futhi wenze ngokushesha! Kuphela ngale ndlela uzothola lokho okufisayo.
Amafutha emahlombe nasemabunzini
Izinzuzo : ukusabela okusheshayo, okuhlangenwe nakho okuzwakalayo ngokomzwelo.
Umngane : ukubekezela, ubukhali, ukuqhuma.
Inkinga yukuthi umuntu onamahloni, uma kukhona okungahambi ngendlela ayifunayo, masinyane uyaqhubeka ekhamuluka futhi enokuthukuthela angasho izinto eziningi ezingenakuqhathaniswa, okuzobe sekudlule imizuzwana emihlanu emva kokuzisola. Uma ukuhlukunyezwa kungakhulumi ngokuqinile (isibonelo, phambi kweziphathimandla), khona-ke uqondisa intukuthelo yakhe ngaphakathi kwakhe, egcwele ukuphazamiseka kwemizwa nezifo.
Ikhambi : funda ukuzilawula nokuveza imizwelo ngendlela ephucukile. Ngesikhathi bekucindezela, zitshele ukuthi: "Ngizolile, ngiphelile ngokuphelele" noma ngibalelwa kukhulu. Indlela enhle yokuqeda ukucindezeleka kwengqondo ngumsebenzi womzimba. Hamba uzungeze indlu, wehla bese uvuka izikhathi eziningana ezitebhisini, yenza ukuvivinya umzimba.
Isisu esisodwa
Izinzuzo : umnotho, ukuhlakanipha, ikhono lokuhlela.
Umnumzane : ukukhathazeka, ukuhlukumezeka ngokweqile.
Inkinga : Amafutha amaningi kakhulu esiswini abonisa ukuhaha kanye nesifiso sokwenza izimali esikhathini esizayo - usuku lwemvula. Qoqa okuningi nokunye - imali, amandla, izinto, ukudla. Ngenxa yalokho, ukuhlala komuntu onjalo kuba yindawo yokugcina impahla, futhi umzimba uqala ukwakha isisu.
Isixazululo : zifundise uma kungenjalo ukupha, okungenani ikhono lokukwabelana. Isibonelo, thinta ingane yomunye umuntu nge candy, osebenza naye - apula, umphathi - bun, futhi unike abanye abahambayo esitimeleni igama elimnandi futhi ukumomotheka. Zama ukunqoba ukwesaba ukuthi into engeke ibe ngokwanele kuwe. Khumbula: ngisho nezinqolobane ezicebile ziphela ngokushesha noma kamuva ziwohloka noma zinciphise. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ingcebo nokuchuma kufinyelela lapho kukhona ukunyakaza, kunokuba ukuqhuma. Funda ukuphatha izinto kalula.
Izinyawo ze-Chubby
Izinzuzo : ukuzola, ukukhuthazela, ukubekezela, ukungathobeki.
I-Cons : ukuvilapha, ukuvilapha, ukukhiqiza okuphansi.
Inkinga : abanikazi bemilenze egcwele bafana nokubuyisela konke into. Futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo bavame ukuveza izizathu, okuba yisithiyo esenzweni esisebenzayo. Amajuba acabanga ukuthi: "Yilapho ... (lapha bavame ukubiza noma yisiphi isimo, futhi izimo zingaba cishe noma yikuphi okumangalisayo), khona-ke ngiya ..." Bese ulandela izinhlobo ezihlukahlukene, kodwa ngokuvamile izicabha ezingavamile: isibonelo, ngizozinakekela mina, ukwakha indlu, ukubhekana nengane, ukuya kudokotela, ukunciphisa isisindo, njll. Ngomzwelo onjalo, ungadonsela iminyaka, ngaphandle kokuvuka empilweni. Yiqiniso, lokhu kuphelisa isidingo sokuzikhandla wena, kodwa futhi akunikezi umphumela.
Isinqumo : ungalindeli isimo sezulu olwandle futhi ungalokothi ukopishe lokho okulindelekile: badluliselwa emafutheni amakhopho. Kungcono ngokushesha uqale ukwenza okufunayo nalokho okukude okukuphuphile.
Amafutha afakwa ezinhlangothini
Izinzuzo : isifiso, ukukhuphuka.
Umnumzane : isifiso sokuthola ukuqina, ukukhula.
Inkinga : Ladies abanezinhlangothi ezinamafutha ngokuvamile ayinakulawulwa kukho konke, kusuka ezifisweni nokuphela ngemicabango nemizwa. Abanalo umuzwa onempilo wokulinganisa kanye nokukwazi ukuma ngesikhathi esifanele. Mayelana nalaba bantu bathi: "Khona-ke u-Ostap wathwala ..."
Isixazululo : funda ukuzivimbela. Qonda ukuthi ufuna konke ngesikhathi esisodwa (ukugqoka okunethezeka, imoto entsha yemidlalo, inqaba eNgilandi, ikhekhe elikhulu, indima ebhayisikobho, ukuvakasha komhlaba kanye nenyanga kusukela esibhakabhakeni) akusizi ngalutho. Gxila ezintweni ezilodwa. Zitshele ukuthi: "Angisakwazi ukuhlukana, okusho ukuthi akukho phuzu ngesikhathi esifanayo esilwela esikhaleni, isikole samamodeli nesiqhingi esingasimi, ngakho-ke ngizokhetha into eyodwa namhlanje, ubone ukuthi izinto zihamba kanjani, bese unquma ukuthi yini okufanele uyenze ngokulandelayo ".
Ubuningi besibeletho
Izinzuzo : ukuthobeka, ukucabangela.
Ubumnandi : amahloni, ukuhlukunyezwa okuvelele, umona.
Inkinga : Amafutha afakwa esifubeni nasezintanjeni akhuluma ngokuhluleka ukwakha ubudlelwane nabantu kanye namakhono aphansi okuxhumana.
Isinqumo : cabanga, kunzima kuwe ukuthola ulimi oluvamile nabantu bonke noma nganoma yiluphi iqembu - amadoda, abesifazane, osebenza nabo? Uma ubunzima bevela kuphela kubambisene nabo, mhlawumbe unezinhlobo ezithile zezingxabano ezicacile noma ezifihlekile eqenjini futhi uma uxazulula, ubuhlobo buzophuthuma, bese kuthi amafutha azohamba. Uma ungeke ukwazi ukuxhumana namadoda, inkinga kungenzeka kakhulu ekuziphenduleni kwakho. Zama ukwandisa ukuzethemba. Uma ubudlelwane bungathuthuki nabesifazane, isizathu singase sibe mncintiswano. Zama ukuqaphela abanye abesifazane hhayi njengabaphikisana nabo, kodwa njengabangane, omakhelwane, abangane abalungile. Ubudlelwano nesikhathi buzothuthukisa.
Isikhumba sesibili
Izinzuzo : ukuzimisela, isibindi, ukuqonda, ukulula.
Ubumnandi : ubuqili, ukungacabangi, inkani.
Inkinga : Abantu abanjalo bavame ukuhlukaniswa nokucabanga okuncane, ukungacabangi kahle nesifiso sokwenza ngokushesha futhi ngaphandle kokungabaza okuningi. Bakhetha umzila wokuziphatha, abaqondiswa kuphela ngokwabo, njengomthetho, okuhlangenwe nakho okuncane kakhulu, ngaphandle kokuzama ukutadisha imininingwane yomsebenzi okuzoxazululwa noma ukungena esimweni. Ngokuvamile lokhu "isixha" sisekelwa yizimfanelo ezinjengokungacabangi nokungacabangi.
Isixazululo : yenza ukuzifundela nokuzithuthukisa, ngoba empilweni kunezinto eziningi ezithakazelisayo! Zama ukutadisha - okungenani esikhungweni, ngisho nokuqhuba izifundo noma ukubhalisa embuthanweni wokusika nokuthunga. Noma yikuphi ukutadisha kuyasiza, cabanga ngesiJapane, - mhlawumbe, yilokho okubavumela ukuba bahlale bevumelanisa futhi babheke ubuso obucacile kuze kube sesikhulile.