Uma konke kuhamba kahle empilweni yakho ebuseduze, futhi lo mlingani uyakwazi ukuletha injabulo encane kuneyokuqala, ungacabangi ukuthi kuyoba njalo. Ubulili buyisimo esiqhubekayo nokuhlolwa. Ukuzinza ebuhlotsheni obuseduze bugcwele noma "uhambo oluya ohlangothini" (futhi lobu bubi obuncane), noma ukuhlukana kobudlelwane.
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Abezi-sexologists emhlabeni wonke baxwayisa ngezingozi "zemikhuba" ebhedeni. Bayeluleka ukulahla imibono yobuzenzisi, ukuzithoba kwamanga futhi ngokuvamile babheke ezitolo ezinkulu, njenge-RussianSexShop.com. Kodwa uma umbhangqwana (noma omunye wabalingani) engakakulungeli 'ukudlala' esitokisini ngamathoyizi, yiba yinkosikazi noma isigqila noma uzame wonke ama-afrozodiacs atholakalayo, bese usebenzisa inqubo entsha yezocansi, karetsa, okuyinto enkulu "ukubingelela" kusukela kuma-60, x yekhulu leminyaka elidlule.
Yingaleso sikhathi lapho isazi sezocansi saseNtaliyane, uDkt. Alice Stockham, sinikeza ... indlela yokuziyeka e-orgasm. Cha, cha, ungakhathazeki, akekho owanikeza ukuthi uhlanganyele ekuzibonekeni kokusuka kokungabikho kwe-orgasm. Kodwa ukuvutha ukukhathazeka, ukhohlwe ukucwenga, ukulala nokuvuka nomqondo walo mlingani ngisho nangemva kokuba amashumi eminyaka ehlala ndawonye ndawonye ukuze angene emkhathini we-karetsa ngokuqinisekile uzosiza. Ngakho-ke uhlobo luni lwesimangaliso esijwayelekile, okuyinto eRussia, amahora, cishe angazi lutho? AmaNtaliyane abantu abathandekayo. Yingakho le nqubo ehlongozwayo ihlonishwa ukuthi ibuyisele ngisho nabantu abadala lapho bekhulile, lapho ubulili bungahambi, futhi isifiso - singavinjelwe. Kodwa naphezu kwalokhu amantombazane amaningi-abafana abazange bahlanganyele nobuntombi (igama elingavamile yinsizwa, akunjalo?). Noma kunjalo, umbhangqwana omdala angakwazi "ukuwa ocansini," ekhumbula ukuthinta okuthinta inhliziyo, ukukhala embampeni, noma ukubuka okungaqondakali (okuhlelekayo) okubheka phezu kwalesi sibalo "nezindawo ezihlukene" zomlingani. Ukuntuleka kwe-orgasm, njengendlela enkulu yenjabulo kanye nokulindela okwesikhashana ukuphela - ukucabangela kobulili kwentsha yentombi, ekhuthazwe ngabalandeli be-karetsa.
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Ake sithi masinyane, ukubuyisela inhlanhla kumbhangqwana ohlala ndawonye iminyaka eminingi, kodwa "ukugwinya" ubudlelwano bocansi, kuthatha amasonto 3-4. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, njengokungathi angifuni, kepha awukwazi ukuqeda ubulili obukhulu! Kulesi simo, kubalulekile ukugcina izimo ezintathu:
- ukuba nobulili kuphela emva kwemizwa engokomoya;
- ezinsukwini "zobuntwana" zokuyeka ukusondelana;
- ukugcina ukulawula okunamandla okunamandla phezu kwe-orgasm (ukubusa kwe "pool of desires").
Ngakho-ke, iphuzu lokuqala lingacaciswa kalula - isenzo socansi akuyona isandulela sokulala, kodwa ukuphela kokuhlwa kobuhlobo. Ngenxa yalokhu, ungakwazi ukuzungeza emigwaqweni yasebusuku (emini) ndawonye. Noma ukudla kwasekhaya, ngekhandlela. Noma ngisho nje ubhalelane incwadi yothando (vumela ifomu lobuchwepheshe). Noma thumela i-SMS kokuqukethwe okungavumelekile: "Ngiyakuthanda, ngilinde, ngifuna!". Ngendlela, kungaba kuhle uma "izimbali zentshiseko", izingane, zihlala nogogo ngalolu suku noma zilale ngomsindo okungenani ihora.
Ngesigaba sesibili, konke kubonakala kucacile. Kodwa uma ukholelwa ezithombeni zokukhulelwa, njengabantu baseMpumalanga eBuddha, vala amehlo akho ukukhomba inombolo yesibili futhi uhlanganyele ngokuzikhandla ngokobulili obuyinqaba. Ubuza, uma isiphetho asikho, kungani udinga ikhondomu? Yebo, uyazi, uma kungenzeka, kodwa ngokuzumayo awukwazi ukuwugcina: inkolelo, yebo, inhle, kodwa impilo iningi kakhulu ... Okumangalisa kakhulu, okuyiyona ndlela yokugcina, iphuzu lesithathu. Umbhali wezinqubo uchaza umqondo we "pool of desires" njengesimo sengqondo lapho kungekho khona amandla okukhuthazela. Yebo. lapho ama-caresses ahlangene (ngisho ne-podnadoevshih omunye nomunye) angasakwazi ukuqeda i-orgasm. Lapho ukuzigwema ngokuzithandela kusukela ekupheleni kwezinjabulo eziseduze akunakwenzeka. Uma okungenani kuqhuma, kodwa nokho kuyoba khona i-orgasm! I-Laski ngokuziqeda okulandelayo kuyisimo sokuxhaswa ngokocansi esilula isikhathi somshado, sikhulule ukukhuleka futhi sinikeze injabulo yangempela. Ningikholelwa mina? Futhi uzama! Ukuqothulwa usuku olulodwa kusuka ebuhlotsheni obuseduze bomkhuba futhi kuze kube phakade kube umbhangqwana oqhathanisa ngokobulili: ukuhlolwa okukwazi ukukhangisa amathoyizi kubantu abadala nokujabulela ubulili obuhle kakhulu, obuthandayo!