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Ngakho-ke, kungani abesifazane bezenza sengathi bafana ne-orgasm?
1. Ukuthi ucansi luphela ngokushesha.
Lesi yisizathu esivame kakhulu. Ukulingisa i-orgasm owesifazane ufuna ukubetha indoda, ebonisa indoda ukuthi wayiphatha nomsebenzi wayo emnika injabulo efanayo. Ngokuvamile owesifazane akafuni ukusondelana nomuntu lapho enenkinga ethile ephathelene naye. Kungaba ingane egulayo ekhwehlela njalo egumbini elilandelayo. Noma lo wesifazane wayenenkinga emsebenzini, kwakuyinto enzima kakhulu noma into ebaluleke kakhulu kuye. Owesifazane ufuna ukuza ekhaya aphumule, ekhohlwa ngezinkinga zakhe. Kodwa lapha kulindelwe imisebenzi okufanele ahlangane nayo. Emva kwakho konke, owesifazane kufanele alungise umsebenzi womshado, anakekele izingane, abe inkosikazi enhle, futhi abe ngumthandi omuhle kakhulu kumyeni wakhe. Ingabe ufuna impilo yakho yonke ibe kanje? Ukuphoqelela, lokhu akusikudlwengulwa, kodwa kufana nalokhu.
2. Owesifazane akafuni ukucasula indoda.
Kwenzeka ukuthi owesifazane ubona yonke imizamo yendoda futhi angamcasuli futhi angambonisi ukuthi akanakho imizwa, uzama ukumvuza ngemizamo yakhe yonke. Kodwa kufanele uqonde ukuthi lokhu akulungile neze. Nakuba kukhona abesifazane abakholelwa ukuthi benza into efanele. Ngesithakazelo sakhe kuye, wadlala kakhulu futhi ukuthi ngisho.
3. Umkhuhlane wabesifazane.
Iqiniso liwukuthi abesifazane abanzi abanakho cishe. Lena inkinga yengqondo futhi kungenzeka uma othile etshela owesifazane ukuthi unomsoco. Futhi lapha ngaphandle kochwepheshe, inkinga ngeke ixazululwe. Owesifazane onenkinga enjalo akakwazi ukujabulela futhi ahlale elandela i-orgasm, ngakho-ke indoda yakhe kuphela ayikwazi ngakho. Lo wesifazane wayenenkinga yokucindezeleka kwengqondo, engakwazi ukubhekana nayo, ebhekisela kuphela ku-sexologist kuphela.
4. Amadoda aqaphela lapho owesifazane efanisa i-orgasm?
Akubona bonke abantu abakwazi ukubona uma owesifazane ezenza sengathi i-orgasm. Njengoba yonke i-orgasm yomuntu ivela ngezindlela ezahlukene futhi umuntu ngamunye uhlukile. Yonke i-orgasm yabesifazane ihluke kwi-orgasms yangaphambilini. Futhi amadoda ethu, esefunde izincwadi, akholelwa ukuthi uma kukhona iziphambane zesisu noma uhamba ukugeleza kwamanzi, khona-ke owesifazane ukwaneliseka ngokuphelele futhi wathola i-orgasm. Futhi ngaphandle kwalokho abakakholelwa lutho.
5. Kungozi owesifazane, uma enza sengathi i-orgasm?
Owesifazane kuyingozi kakhulu uma eveza i-orgasm. Ukufihla nokucindezela imizwa yakho, awuhambisani nanoma yini enhle, ngoba udinga ukuphumula komzimba nokwengqondo. Futhi uma ufanisa i-orgasm iminyaka eminingi, umlingani wakho uzobe eseziqagela ngokushesha noma kamuva. Lokhu kuziphatha kungase kuphele, ngoba wena kubi futhi ugcwele imiphumela. Ungakwazi yini ukuzama ukwethembeka nomlingani wakho bese uzama ukuxazulula zonke izinkinga?
Ngicabanga ukuthi ubudlelwane bomphakathi basakhiwa ekuqondeni nasekuthembekeni. Zama ukutshela othandekayo wakho ngezinkinga zakho bese uzama ukuzixazulula ndawonye. Ungaziphoqeleli uma ungawufuni okwamanje. Yiba obala futhi ungaxoshwa kuwe.
Manje uyazi ukuthi kungani abesifazane besho i-orgasm futhi banethemba lokuthi uqaphele ukuthi lokhu ngeke kuholele ekuhle.