Noma kunjalo, izingane nazo azilali? !! !! Ukuqwashisa kungenzeka ngisho nasezintwaneni ezincane kakhulu. Ngakho kungani izingane zisencane kabi?
Isithombe esivamile, lapho ingane encane enenyanga eyishumi noma intombazane eneminyaka emibili ubudala emgodleni wayo, ifuna kuphela ukulala nabazali bayo. Ukukhathala kwezinkathazo zansuku zonke zabazali, lesi simo sinzima kangangokuthi 'silungile' ukuvala ilokhi noma ukubopha ingane embhedeni. Kodwa futhi akunangqondo, ngoba ngokuvamile ukuleleka kwezingane kuhambisana nokukhala nokukhala.
Izazi zengqondo zithi eminyakeni yamuva izikhalazo zabazali mayelana nokulala kwezingane zabo zanda kakhulu. Ngokuvame ukukhala ukuthi abantwana abasebancane abalala kahle, abazali abasha. Izimpande zezinkinga eziningi ezingokwengqondo ezihlobene nokukhuliswa kwezingane ziphule ukulala kwengane. Yingakho ochwepheshe beqala ingxoxo nabazali ngengxoxo yezinkinga zezingane zabo ngokulala.
Okokuqala, kufanelekile ukucacisa lokho okushiwo ukuleleka kwengane, okungazibonakalisa ebuchosheni bokulala noma ngokuvuswa njalo. Ukuleleka kokungane kokubili kungokwesesikhashana futhi kunomphela. Ngaphezu kobunzima bokulala noma ukuchichima okuningi, ukuleleka kunezinye izimpawu. Isibonelo, ukukhathala okusheshayo, ukukhathazeka, ukushaywa indiva, ukucindezeleka nokucindezeleka. Isizathu singase futhi sibe izifo abazali abaze basolise ngisho nazo. Ingane ebusuku ingaphazanyiswa ubuhlungu ezindlebeni noma ku-rhinitis. Ngokuvamile, omncanyana unesifo esingenalutho noma i-apnea. Ukubuka i-TV, ukushaywa isulu ngaphambi kokulala noma ezinye izingoma kungabuye kubeke izingane ngokushesha zilele. Ngokusho kwengqondo kwengqondo, emadolobheni amakhulu, izingane ezisencane azilele kahle, okungukuthi, indlela yokuphila yasemadolobheni nayo ayikhuthazi ukulala okuphumula.
Ukuqwashisa okuvamile kusithinta kakhulu umsebenzi wengane yesikhashana, futhi ukulalela kwakhe kunobuthakathaka kakhulu. Kuphawulwe ukuthi izingane zangaphambili azizange zihluleke ukulala, lesi sifo sibhekwa njengenkinga yabantu abadala. Yiqiniso, kwakukhona izingane ngalezo zinsuku ezazingakwazi ukulala. Kodwa ngaphambi kwalokhu umehluko phakathi kokuqwashisa kwabadala nabancane babonakala kakhulu, kodwa manje sekuphelile. Kungani inani lokuleleka kwengane likhula?
Ukuze uphendule lo mbuzo, abazali kudingeka bakhumbule ubuntwana babo. Yini eyayivame ukutholakala komncinyane? Ukotini kanye namathoyizi ambalwa, kanti namanje kungaba yisikole sokugibela. Abazali nezingane babehlala nogogo nomkhulu noma ngokuvamile bahlala nabo. Manje bheka nxazonke ubone ukuthi yini ezungeza ingane yakho. Ubuningi bamathoyizi anzima futhi aqhakazile, izinqwaba zezincwadi ezinemifanekiso engaqondakali kanye nochungechunge lwezinhlobo eziguquguqukayo eziqhubekayo - konke kuzungeze encane kunazo zonke namuhla. Ngaphambilini, izingane zithathwe esekisini nasemidlalo yezemidlalo, futhi namuhla zibukela amabhayisikobho esithombeni sesithathu, sezigqoke izibuko ezikhethekile. Ngaphambilini, izingane zondliwa ekhaya ngokudla okulula futhi okumnandi, futhi manje kuzo zonke izindawo zokudlela ungabhekana nezihlalo eziphakeme. Ngolunye usuku ingane yanamuhla ithola ucezu olunjalo lwolwazi ukuthi ngisho nabantu abadala abakwazi ukugaya ngempela!
Yiqiniso, eminyakeni engamashumi amane edlule, odokotela bezingane, othisha nabachwepheshe bezezinzwa zengqondo banxusa abazali ukuba banakekele ngokukhethekile imfundo yengqondo yengane kusukela eminyakeni yokuqala. Kodwa-ke, ingane ezalwa namuhla ingamane "ihluleke" ngaphansi kwesisindo semininingwane ehlukahlukene. Ingane isivele isivele isuka emkhunjini iqala ukufundisa izilimi zangaphandle kanye nezibalo. Ngokombono wabazali abaningi, ingane yabo isibophezelekile kakade kusukela eminyakeni emibili ukuba bakwazi ukufunda nokukhuluma ngokukhululekile ngezilimi eziningana. Umntanakho "ompofu" akasenayo indawo esikhwameni sakhe ngenxa yobuningi bamathoyizi nezincwadi okufanele zithuthukiswe ngokwengqondo.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umama usebenza noma cha, ingane kufanele ihambe enkulisa, futhi ekuqaleni izingane zakhula ekhaya. Namuhla, izingane zifundiswa ukubhala nokufunda enkulisa, kanti ingane yasenkulisa iya esikoleni ilungisiwe. Uma lokhu kuqhubekela phambili, amakilasi okuqala angasuswa futhi aqale ukuqeqeshwa ngezifundo ezikhethekile.
Yindlela yemfundo yokuqala yeyona encane ebangela izinkinga eziningi ezingokwengqondo, ikakhulukazi, ukuleleka kwezingane. Uma ingane ingakhulumi komuntu oneminyaka elilodwa ubudala futhi ingafundi kusukela eminyakeni emibili ubudala, abazali baya esiphethweni sokuthi ingane yabo izokhulelwa esikhathini esizayo. Ukuziphatha okwanele kwabazali kuqala ukucasula ingane, futhi uyayethuka. Amacebo amakhulu abazali abahambisani nokuthuthukiswa kwemvelo kwengane. Lokhu kungase kube isizathu esiyinhloko esenza izingane zisakhula kahle.
Kunezinye izimbangela zezinkinga ezingokwengqondo nezingokomzwelo ezinganeni ezihlukunyezwa. Izingane zanamuhla zivame ukuhlanganyela enkambeni yokuhlukanisa abazali babo. Ukuhlazeka okukhulu kwabantu abadala, ukwehlukana akukona ngokuphelele impucuko kanye nomuntu. Ukuhlambalaza kwabantu abadala futhi ngisho nokuhlanganyela ekuhlaselweni, ezimweni ezinjalo ingane ilahlekile futhi ayiqondi ukuthi kwenzekani, uyazibeka icala. Umntwana angase acabange ukuthi uma eziphatha kahle, wayezolalela uyise nonina, kwakungeke kwenzeke. Maye, akekho ophuthumayo ukukhuluma nengane futhi ngeke amqinisekise.
Akuzona zonke izingane ezingalandela izimo ezinzima noma izimo ezicindezelayo. Noma yiziphi izimo ezingajwayelekile neziphambano ezivela emndenini womndeni ojwayele ukwenza impilo yengane ibe engazinzile futhi ingahlali. Uma impilo yabazali ishintshile, lokhu akusho ukuthi impilo yomntwana kufanele ihluke.
Kunemithetho elula okufanele isisize ekuqedeni ukungaboni kwezingane. Isibonelo, ukunciphisa isikhathi sokubukela i-TV, yeka ukuvuselela ingqondo encane yengqondo yengane, ingabandakanyi ukudla okunomsoco wezingane ezintsha zokudla, okwenziwe nge-preservatives nezakhi zamakhemikhali. Ukuthi ingane ayizange ihlupheke
ukulala, kudingeka adale imodi yokuthula neyomndeni yosuku, efanelekayo iminyaka yengane. Ingane kufanele ibe nesidlo sasekuseni, isidlo sasemini nesidlo sakusihlwa, ukuphumula nokuhamba, ukubandakanya ukufanekisa nokudweba, ukudlala kwi-sandbox, njll Kumelwe uhlangabezane nezinto zemvelo zesikhathi sakhe.