Usana olusanda kuzalwa
Emahoreni wokuqala emva kokuzalwa, phakathi komama nomntwana uqala ingxoxo yakhe ekhethekile, okuvame ukuqondwa yizo ezimbili kuphela. Ukuxhunyanisana ngokomzwelo phakathi komama nengane okwakhiwa ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kugcinwa futhi kuqiniswe.
Ngikuzwa!
Ososayensi bafinyelela esiphethweni sokuthi umsindo wezwi lomama ingane iyancipha ngokushesha, ukuphefumula kwayo kuba bushelelezi, isisindo. Izingane ezisanda kuzalwa zizwa kahle. Ngakho-ke, ingane ingafaka umculo othulile, othulile, ukhulume nganoma yini. Ekupheleni kwenyanga yokuqala yokuphila, ingane ifunda ikhono lobukhulu bomsindo nomthombo wayo - ukusabela kokuqala kokuqondisa kuvela. Manje ungadlala ne-rattle. Okokuqala, ukushisa kancane phambi kwengane, bese ushiya kwesokudla futhi kwesokudla. Lokhu kuzokuthuthukisa ukunakekelwa kwengane.
Ngibona!
Ukuxhumana okubonwayo kubalulekile kakhulu. Kuyinto ebonakalayo enikeza ulwazi lwezingane oluyisisekelo mayelana nezwe elizungezile.
Ingane evela ekubelethweni iyakwazi ukubona izinto ezivelele kanye nesithombe esihleliwe (imidwebo). Kodwa ungabonisi ingane yanyanga zonke izinto eziningi nezithombe ezihlukene, ithayela kuphela i-crumb. Ekuqaleni, kuye, ngakho kubonakala ngokwanele ukubukwa. Okokuqala, udinga ukucabangela indawo yakhe yokuhlala. Futhi libukeka lihlukile njalo. Uma uyigqoka ezandleni zakho, izinto zivela ngeso elilodwa, uma ubeka umntwana embhedeni, izinguquko zokubuka umbono.
I-crumb yanyangazonke ihlinzekwa kangcono ngokubuka isithombe esimnyama nesomhlophe ngesithombe somuntu wesithombe. Ngezinyanga ezingu-3-4 ingane ingakwazi ukunikeza izithombe zombala womuntu ojabulayo, othukuthele, othukuthele. Futhi qiniseka ukuphawula ngalokho okubonisayo.
Ngizizwa!
Okubaluleke kakhulu nentuthuko yezingane kuyintando yokuxhumana. Uyakhathaza umntwana, uhlasele, uthathe, ngokushesha nje lapho ekhala, futhi ngaleyo ndlela anikeze isandla ekwakhekeni kwengqondo eyisisekelo yokuthembela ezweni elikuzungezile. Ingane yakho iqala nokuxhumana. Kusukela ekuzalweni kwakhe, ngokukhala okukhulu, usana olusha lubizela unina. Imizwelo emibi nokubonakaliswa kwabo okusheshayo kudlala indima ebaluleke kakhulu emavikini okuqala okuphila. Uma kungenjalo, umama wakho uthola kanjani ukuthi kukhona okungalungile ngane, ukuthi udinga ukushintsha i-diaper, ukudla, ukugqoka? .. Futhi ekupheleni kokuqala - ukuqala kwenyanga yesibili, umntwana uqala ukunika umuntu omdala (ikakhulukazi umama) emzimbeni kanye nokumomotheka kokuqala . Kuze kube manje, ingane yayinemikhuba emibi kuphela, manje kwakukhona okuhle. Lona ukukhulumisana okutholakala kusana olusanda kuzalwa.
Kodwa ukwaneliseka okwanele kwezidingo zengane akuvezi imizwa emihle, kodwa kususa kuphela imizwelo emibi. Ingane iyathokoza kuphela uma umuntu omdala ekhuluma naye. Ngesikhathi sokukhulumisana ukuthi ukuthuthukiswa kwengane, ngokomzwelo nangokwengqondo kwenzeka.
Izinyanga eziyisithupha
Ingane yakho ikhula futhi ngokuphindaphindiwe uzama ukuxhumana nokudlala nawe, futhi lesi sifiso ubonisa ngolimi lwesimo sobuso nesenzo. Lesi sigaba sokuthuthukiswa sibizwa ngokuthi isikhathi sokuxhumana. Ukuthuthukiswa kwenkulumo Ingane isivele iyayiqonda inkulumo yomuntu omdala. Futhi hhayi nje intonation kuphela. Manje omncane uyazi futhi aqonde amagama amaningi kunalokho athi. Isamba samagama ajwayelekile aqondwa ingane encane kwezinyanga ezingu-6 cishe cishe ngu-50. Lokhu kubonakala eqinisweni lokuthi uphendukela kumagama ngabanye nemishwana emifushane ngezwi elihlukile (imizwelo). Ingane iyabamba, ilandele izinkulumo zomlomo omdala. Ingane iqala ukuhlanganisa into ebonwe ngegama lakhe. Futhi ngesicelo sikaMama singathola le nto ngamehlo ami. Yiqiniso, uma igama lale ndaba lijwayele kuye, futhi le nto ngokwayo ibonakala ngane.
Ingane ngokwayo isivele izama ukukhuluma , kodwa ngenkathi ingxoxo yakhe ibizwa ngokuthi i-bbbling. I-crumb yakho isivele iqale ukufaka izinto ezithile ngezwi elithile lezintambo, okufanayo noma hhayi kakhulu kulowo uqobo ngokwalo - akukhathaleki okwamanje. Kubalulekile ukuthi lawa mazwi kakade. Ngezinye izikhathi ingane ingakwazi "ukukhuluma" isikhathi eside, ishintshe intonation, lokhu kungamsiza ukuba aqonde kangcono umntwana wakhe, izidingo zakhe nezifiso zakhe. "Kule minyaka, kuhle ukudlala" Ladushki "," Soroku-raven "," Ukuze ama-bumps-bumps " ... Le poteshki-pestushki isiza ingane ukuba ithuthukise amakhono okulingisa. I-crumb izophindaphinda ngemuva kokunyakaza kwakho kuphela, kodwa amagama. Ukwesaba kwengane Ngasekupheleni kwezinyanga ezingu-7 ingane iqala ukwesaba abantu abangabazi. Lokhu kubonakala ukuthi ingane iqala ukukhala lapho isondela kubantu abangabazi noma uma yedwa. Isizathu salokhu esingathandeki nokucasula amalungu amaningi emndenini (ikakhulukazi ogogo nomkhulu abahluphekayo) kulula: manje ingane ngenxa yokuthuthukiswa kwengqondo iyakwazi ukuhlukanisa umuntu oyedwa komunye, ihlukanise ukuthi ubani ongokoqobo futhi owehlukile (empeleni, ukuqonda okunjengomntwana). Ingane ingase ibe nokwesaba ukungabi khona kwabazali futhi, ngokufanayo, ukukhathazeka ngokuphathelene nomuntu ongajwayelekile.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukwesaba kuyothatha noma kuzodlula, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi amahloni nokwehlukaniswa yizici zobuntu bayo kuzoba - ngezindlela eziningi kuxhomeke ekuziphatheni komama nobaba. Kubalulekile ukuba izinyane likwazi ukuthi uhlale ulungele ukusiza.
Lapho umuntu owaziwa kancane ezalwa, umama kufanele:
thatha umntwana ezandleni zakhe, ubingelela lesi sivakashi;
khuluma ngezwi elizolile, ukumomotheka futhi njalo usondelene nomntanakho.
Ngaphambi kwesikhathi, chaza umndeni wakho ukuthi kwenzekani. Phela, kwenzeka njalo ukuthi ogogo nomkhulu (omncanekazi, omalume, abangane) abaza ukukuvakashela esimweni sokwethenjelwa ngamacala, bafuna ukuxhumana nomntwana ngenkathi bevakashelwa. Kodwa abazikhumbuli izingane zabo, okusho ukuthi bazophendula kuzo zonke izinyembezi zabo bese bekhala ngokukhala okukhulu! Ngakho-ke, sebenzisa izivakashi ingxoxo echazayo, uthi kuyoba yisikhathi esifushane kakhulu futhi konke kuzohluka. Kodwa ngenkathi konke kufana nalokhu ... Futhi zama ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi ngangokunokwenzeka nengane. Futhi hhayi ngokusemthethweni, ukwenza ibhizinisi labo, kodwa ukudlala nezingane noma ukufunda izincwadi kuye. Khona-ke, cishe kungenzeka ukuthi le nkinga izokhishwa noma ingabonakali ngokuphelele. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, ungaqala ukufundisa ingane indlela yokuxhumana, uqinise ngamazwi ambalwa: "hello", "manje", "ngiyabonga."
Unyaka
Ingane eneminyaka eyodwa ingenza okuningi ngokwayo. Uphuza kumuntu ophuza, uhlamba, ehlezi ngokuzethemba, ehamba, ekhuphukela esihlalweni, ezama ukudla eyedwa. Kodwa ukufezwa okuyinhloko kwalesi sikhathi ukuthi ingane iqala ukukhuluma, uvame ukukwazi ukubiza amagama amabili, ama-syllable.
Futhi ngolimi lwakhe lomsindo nemisindo, angase akuchazele. Manje i-crumb ayincike kakhulu kuwe. Uvusa isifiso sokuzimela, ukuhlola ngobuqotho izwe elikuzungezile. Izinqubo zokuzicabangela zithuthuka ngamandla, izinyane liyakhumbula okuthile futhi zize zifike nomdlalo. Manje ingane ayidingi ukunakekelwa kanye nesimo sengqondo esihle sabanye, kodwa futhi isikhuthazo sempumelelo yakhe, usizo olusebenzayo ezenzweni. Kulokhu kuncike ekutheni i-kid ingase izwe ukuzimela kwayo, umsebenzi nokubaluleka kwayo. Inkinga yokuqala Ukuphikisana phakathi kwesifiso somntwana sokuzimela nokuthembela kwakhe ekusizeni kwabazali bakhe kuyakha isisekelo se-okuthiwa "inkinga yonyaka owodwa." Ukukhuluma nabazali, ingane ayisekho nje ibona ukuziphatha kwayo, kodwa futhi izama ukuheha nokuyigcina. futhi izindlela azama ukufeza ngayo lokhu, ngezinye izikhathi ziholela kumama nobaba.
Ukusebenzisana
Umntwana manje akadingi nje ukuxhumana ngokomzwelo, kodwa futhi ukusebenzisana. Ingane yakho isivele ibona izinhlinzeko ezanele. Kubalulekile ukumtshela okwengeziwe ngezwe elizungezile, ngezifundo ezahlukene kanye nezimo ezihlukahlukene. Thola umhlaba wezimanga wezinganekwane ingane yakho. Kumele uqale ngamagama alula kakhulu: Repka, Kolobok, Teremok, njll. Lezi zindaba eziyintandokazi zihle ngoba ziqukethe ukuphindaphinda okuningi, okusiza ingane ukuthi iqonde kangcono isakhiwo.