Uyazi kanjani ukuthi yimuphi umfana olungile?

Ngicabanga ukuthi mangaki amantombazane umfana owayenakho ngaphambi kwakho? Ungakwazi ukukhangisa ephephandabeni futhi ufunde izinto eziningi ezithakazelisayo. Futhi ungakwazi nje ukumbuka ngokucophelela. Indlela yokuthola ukuthi yimuphi umfana olungile, ngenkathi engamcasuli umfana nokuthi ungaqiniseka kanjani ukuthi umfana akakwazi lutho.

Ngaphandle - kakhulu ngisho nento, enkampanini yabangane ayilahlekile. Kusobala ukuthi angakwazi ukuxhumana. Kodwa kufanelekile lo mfana ukuba abe nentombazane, noma amantombazane ambalwa nje, kumnandi kuqala. Okungukuthi, ngokuphambene, - akukho lutho oluqala nhlobo. Akathuli, futhi uma evula umlomo wakhe, khona-ke ukuze asho ukulimala okubi. Njengokuthi i-IQ yehle kakhulu ngokuphindwe kabili noma kathathu. Uzama ukwenza ukuncoma, kodwa njalo uhluleka. Noma uqala ukuhleka usulu ngokukhululeka - phezu kwamapulangwe, ubukhulu bonyawo noma nakakhulu nakakhulu. Mhlawumbe igama lesidlaliso "othandekayo" linikeza - imvu noma indlovu, isibonelo, nakuba unesisindo esingama-45 kg. Lo MCH akakaze abe nentombi. Amahlaya angaphumelelanga kanye nokuncoma okuyiziwula akutholakele kuye hhayi ebubini, kodwa nje ngenxa yokungabi nalutho. Futhi uyaqhubeka nokuphinda amaphutha ayesabisa amantombazane. Abasizi abakhulu ekusebenzelaneni nomfana onjalo bayisisindo esivumelanayo kanye nokukhululeka. Kubalulekile ukuba ngomusa (kodwa uhlakaniphile) umtshele ukuthi akawuthandi.

Lo mfana unothambile kakhulu, umhlophe futhi uhlanza. Ukhuluma izinto ezinhle, uhambela emnyango futhi ubanga kahle kakhulu. Uyakuthanda ukukhwabanisa. Ukulala emnyango olandelayo, ubukele "ama-Simpsons" futhi ubambe. Uma kwakuyintando yakhe, wayezokwenza kuphela. I-Prelude ingahle isule isikhathi esingamahhafu amahora amabili. Lo mfana akanalo ulwazi oluncane. Kungenzeka ukuthi kwakukhona intombazane eyodwa. Futhi lokho kwakuneminyaka eyishumi edlule. Ngokuvamile, uyathakazelisa, nakuba elula kakhulu ngemvelo. Une-plus plus - kusuka kule fan of hugs ungazibamba wena umfana ophelele. Uyojabula kuphela ukukwenza ube nomuzwa omuhle.

Uhle kakhulu. Unomomotheka onobuhle nokubukeka okunonya. Amantombazane ambuka ngethando, futhi uphendula ngokuphindaphindiwe. Uthanda ukuthwebula izithombe futhi uyazi ukuthi ungayinakekela kanjani.

Ekhasini le-Intanethi unabangane abangamakhulu amane, abangaphezu kwesigamu - amantombazane abanezithombe zobuchwepheshe ema-albhamu avaliwe - ama-supermodel azayo - konke, njengokukhetha. Le MCH ithandwa futhi ibonakala sengathi abantu abaningi bafuna ukusondelana naye. Unolwazi olunzima kangangokuthi kunzima ukucabanga ngezibalo. Amantombazane ayengabantu abaningi, kodwa akakwazi inombolo ngqo. Kungakuqondwa - kunzima ukumelana uma uthanda i-ejenti eliphelele lemodeli kanye nabanye abantu abayikhulu noma abanye. Okulandelayo kuyoba nzima. Udinga ukuhluke kakhulu kwabanye. Uma ungamnika okuthile ngaphandle kobuhle nesibalo esihle, khona-ke ungathatha ithuba. Ama-95% amantombazane afuna ukubona eduze komuntu omuhle, ohlakaniphile, ophephile futhi othembekile. Kukhona okunjalo, kodwa kuphela 6%.

Ukhuluma okuningi futhi ezithakazelisayo. Kodwa nokho, awukwazi ukuthola indlela yokuthola ukuthi yimuphi umuntu olungile. Ukuhleka kokuhleka kuyamangalisa. Ukubonakala kwakhe kuphela - umthandi. Ngalokhu ungangeni othandweni ekuqaleni kokubona; futhi ungathathi izithombe esembozweni somagazini. Kodwa unabangane abaningi. Nakuba ethi okuningi, kodwa ngeke akhulume kakhulu, futhi ngeke akhulume ngemfihlo yomfokazi. Isimo ekuphileni kwakhe siqu singacatshangwa kuphela. Lo mfana uyazisa ubuhlobo obuqinile. Wayekhona noma wayenjalo, noma kukhona intombazane ethembekile kuye. Babebonke isikhathi eside futhi, cishe, konke kwaqala ngobuhlobo. Ngakho-ke, indlela enhle yokumthakazelisa ukuba umngane wakhe kuqala.

Ngeke kubonakale enkampanini yamantombazane. Akabamesabi - akakwazi nje ukuma. Ngokuzithoba ukholelwa ukuthi sidalwe ukuze sonakalise impilo yakhe nezinzwa. Futhi ungakhathali ukuwuphinda ngaso sonke isikhathi. Uma uqala ukukhuluma, kuyoba nzima ukuma. Uvame ukuthi uthiwa. Noma kunjalo umfana onjalo uthanda amagama, njenge "chick", "telochka", "amaphuphu" nokunye. Kungani kuyingozi kangaka? Amantombazane avame ukukuphonsa, kulula ukuwaqonda. Umphumela wukuthi ukuziqhenya akuyona into engcono kakhulu, ukuhlambalaza impilo yonke kanye nobulili bonke besifazane. Ingabe usafuna ukuba omunye wabasolwa esikhathini esizayo somfana ompofu?

Kwenziwe kahle

Wenza kahle futhi ukhululekile. Konke kwaqala kahle futhi kuqhubeka ngokuthula. Ubiza njalo, uma athembisa,

uyazi ukuthi ungabiza kanjani i-candy oyikhonzile nokuthi iyiphi ingoma ozokujabulela ukuyilalela ekuseni. Akakukhathazi, akaniki izizathu zomhawu. Awuzange ukwazi ukuthi kungaba njalo, futhi uma "konke kuhle futhi kuzolile" - kuhle. Yiqiniso, wayenamantombazane ngaphambi kwakho. Futhi ukwahlulela ngendlela akuphatha ngayo manje, ungase uthi ngubonga ngiyabonga.

Okwesithathu akuyona into engafanele

Akazange abonise noma iyiphi inzalo ekhethekile kuwe. Ingxoxo ayizange ibambe, ayiqondi amahlaya akho. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, wakwazi ukuthola ulimi oluvamile futhi waqala ukuphola. Kodwa lapho umngane wakho eseduze, washintsha - wakhuluma futhi waphahla ngaphezu kokujwayelekile. Cishe, lezi zingubo zeMCH zizobhekana nazo. Umngane kuphela ongafuni, noma umatasa, noma nje umngane omuhle. Kodwa umfana akalahlekelwa ithemba. Uyisizathu sokuba ambone kaningi.