Uma ubheka esibukweni, ucabanga ukuthi ukuze uthole injabulo egcwele udinga imilenze eyiqiniso kakhulu, imoto iyingozi kakhulu, lo msebenzi ukhangisa kakhulu. Futhi uqala umncintiswano wenjabulo. Wannabe - hhayi ukuba, kodwa ukubonakala. Kungani sifuna okuhle okusishintshayo?
Kuyini uWannabe? Lo mqondo wesiNgisi onogunyaza olungalungile ubonisa isimo lapho, ngaphandle kokufanele, unamathele kumodeli yokuziphatha engeyona eyakho. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, njengengxenye ye-Wannabe, iba yinkimbinkimbi, futhi igobolondo ayikwazi ukusetha kabusha. Awukhuli, uvele nje "ufuna ukuba." Ufuna ukuba njengo-Miss Universe, kodwa ngenxa yalokho ufana noBarbie. Emva kwakho konke, kuhle, ucabanga ukuthi wonke umuntu uyathanda.
Eqinisweni
Yebo, udinga ukuzikhathalela, kukunika ukuzethemba futhi kugcina impilo yakho. Kodwa ungagqoki ubuhle bakho zonke izifiso zakho nezifiso zakho. Amantombazane asithandi nje kuphela ukubonakala. Ukwenza umsebenzi, amehlo athile amahle akwanele, futhi uthando lwabanye lunganqotshwa umusa, ububele nokuthembeka.
Kungani ubuhle?
Ngoba amanye amantombazane ayaqiniseka ukuthi, ngaphandle kwalo, ngeke abe nezinzuzo. Kodwa ngaphandle kokukholwa kuwe ngokwakho, akudingeki ukuba uzinze ekutheni uhlelwe ngaphandle: konke ukucabanga kwakho kuhlanekezwa yizinkimbinkimbi nokuziphatha okunganele.
Ucabanga
Inkazimulo izolungisa konke okwamanje akuhambisani nawe empilweni yakho. Kubonakala kuwe ukuthi uma uvula izikhathi ezimbalwa esibukweni, uthando nokudumisa kwendawo yonke kuzokuwela. Noma kunjalo uyaqinisekiswa, ukuthi izinkanyezi zingenakufinyeleleka, lapho impilo yonke idlula emaqenjini aqhubekayo, okugeza ngamabisi.
Eqinisweni
Udumo kuze kube nenkazimulo yokungaqondani. Labo abawutholile ngemibandela ethile (ithalente, imisebenzi yomphakathi, iminikelo yobuciko namasiko), bajabulele ngempela "umphumela ohlangothini" wokubonga kanye nokukhulekela kwendawo yonke. Kodwa nansi okuphazamisayo: abathinti ukubaluleka okukhulu kulokhu, baqhubeka ukudlala umdlalo. Kodwa abaningi abalambile udumo bahamba ngemva kwesihluku ngokungakhokhi. Woza kunoma yisiphi isithangami lapho kuxoxwa ngakho izinkanyezi zesiteji nesigaba. Kunomuzwa wokuthi abaxoxi ngezithombe zomphakathi, kodwa abakhohlisi.
Kungani amaSlav?
Ngoba ufuna ngempela ukusho okuthile emehlweni abanye. Uma uncike emibonweni yomunye umuntu, ungazihloniphi, bese uqala ukuphupha ngendlela elula, njengoba kubonakala kuwe, mayelana ne-cinema kanye nethelevishini. Kodwa ngaleyondlela kudinga ukusebenza kuze kube sekukhukhuleni kwesikhombisa, ukuziphika nokuziqhenya. Futhi lezi zinkimbinkimbi emphakathini zikhula ekuthuthukeni kwejometri.
Wannabe Fashionable
Uyazi ngokucacile ukuthi kunoma yiluphi udaba, kusukela ekuqeqesheni kuya kukarrotro, udinga ukuba uhambe. Ube ngumlimi wezitshalo, yize ikhanda liphuma ngokuntuleka kwamaprotheni, lithathwe yizombangazwe (Ksyusha Sobchak ngaso sonke isikhathi) futhi ubeka esitolo imali enhle kakhulu esikhwameni esikhombisayo, wazi ukuthi esikhathini esizayo ngeke kube ngesimo. Futhi njalo, ukuvula i-glance, ukugxeka abafashini-abahleli ngokubuyisa emuva.
Leyo fashion ngokwayo ikukhetha, futhi uthola ithuba lokuphila ngokuthula. Amamagazini, imibukiso ye-TV, ochwepheshe befashini sebevele banqume ukuthi yini ongayigqoka nokuthi ubheke kanjani. Ucabanga nokuthi akuyona imfashini yokwenza amahloni okuwukuphela kokuthi into ekhona kuwe igqoke noma cha incike enjabulweni yakho - amantombazane akhetha futhi ahlangane futhi abone ezembatho.
Eqinisweni
Imfashini yindlela yobuciko ekhethekile ebonisa umlando wethu, emva kweMpi Yezwe Yokuqala, izigqoko ezazibukeka njengezibhokisi zempi zavela emfashini, kodwa emva nje kweMpi Yezwe yesibili abesifazane beqala ukubheka ngangokunokwenzeka, njengokungathi bazama ukukhohlwa ngengozi eyadlulile. Ngamunye wethu wenza i-fashion yayo ngendlela efanayo. Ungaba sesimweni, ungenza ngokwakho, kodwa into eyakho, eyingqayizivele esithombeni ozoyiqinisekisa. Xoxa nemfashini ngesilinganiso esithile sokungacabangi.
Uphupha ngokuphatha ibhizinisi lakho noma ngisho nomnyango othembisayo. Futhi ukuze "i-maserati" ikhanyise endaweni yokupaka, futhi ungayala i-foie gras nezindawo zokudlela, ngaphandle kokubuka intengo. Ngenxa yalokhu awugcini nje ukuphupha, kodwa usebenza kanzima amahora angu-40 emsebenzini, ngokufanayo ufunda ngezimali ezingathandeki, ugijima ekukhathaleni, kodwa uthembisa ukuthi iminyaka engamashumi amane lezi zimali zizoletha izinzuzo eziqinile.
Eqinisweni
Ukuphumelela nokuziqhenya yizinto ezimbili ezihlukene ngokuphelele. Ungaba umphathi omkhulu wezomnotho, futhi uphuphe ngasese ngomsebenzi womuntu wezimbali. Kukhona enye ingozi ekuphishekeleni imigomo ebekiwe ukuba ilahlekelwe impilo yabo. Umzabalazo ongakaze ube khona wokuphumelela ukuhlehliswa kokuphila kusasa. Enye into, uma wena uthola injabulo kuyo, futhi ungaphumi emakhanda akho, uzama ukwenza umsebenzi.
Kungani uphumelele?
Esikoleni samabanga aphansi, wawudutshulwa ngebhayisikili, emabhaleni angaphezulu ukukhishwa kwamaphoyisa kwabikwa. Ngenxa yalokho, kwavela umcabango onengqondo: "Ngizokhula, ngizofunda, ngizoba ngowesifazane omkhulu kakhulu, ngizofika emhlanganweni wabaphothulile, nonke nonke niya khona." Enye inkinga ivela: abantu, abakulungiswa ngamandla, imali nokukhula komsebenzi, besaba kakhulu ukubuyela ebuntwaneni futhi baphinde babe izisulu. Inhloko yethimba ngeke ishukunyiswe iphothifoliyo, umphathi ucabanga ukuthi yonke into iyimilayezo elula. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi impumelelo kufanele ibe yanele, futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, ukhethe le ndaba ngendlela oyithandayo.
Wannabe sexy
Izwe libuswa abantu abafisayo, futhi usuqaphele kakade. Ubulili akuyona indlela elula yokwandisa ukuzethemba, kodwa futhi ikhono lokuphatha abantu abaseduze. Amantombazane ahamba ngamahloni, amantombazane athukuthela ngomona, kanti umfundisi ubeka amane esikhundleni sesithathu, ngokusho ububanzi bezingqimba zakho, ubude be-skirt yakho.
Ucabanga
Lokho ubulili namandla kuyahambisana. Amantombazane asetshancane abasha abahlupha bonke abafana ngaphandle kokuhlukile, bayathandwa. Yebo, ubulili kubalulekile, kunjalo. Kodwa akekho ozo zonke izinto zobulili. Omunye onjengamamantombazane amamodeli, omunye uhlezi ngobuhle njengoMonica Bellucci, amanye awela ngamantombazane anezinwele ezimfushane - eziningi zokukhetha. Noma kunjalo, isifiso sokujabulisa siyisifiso esingokwemvelo, kodwa kungani ufuna ukuthanda yonke into ngokuphelele? Kungani udinga abalandeli abaningi kangaka? Le nkinga ikhombise ukuthi uzizwa unomusa ongathandwa futhi wena ngokwakho kuqala ku-nenravishysya.
Kungani ubulili?
Ngoba emhlabeni wezilwane, ukuziphatha ngokocansi kuthinta isimo epakethe. Asikho kude nezilwane. Futhi misa imisila ngenqubo yokuziphendukela kwemvelo, kodwa umlayezo "okhangayo, oguquguqukayo kahle, uzokwenza inzalo enempilo enhle" yahlala. Ngakho ubulili bukuvumela ukuthi uzuze futhi ulawule.
Kodwa, ngokuvumelana nenhliziyo yami, ingabe kuyadingeka ngempela kuwe? Kubantu abadala, inkululeko ephelele kanye nokuzimela. Akekho ofuna umbiko wokuziphatha okubi nokuziphatha okuhle, akekho okhuphukela egumbini ngaphandle kwesimemo, i-amorozhenoe ingadliwa kusukela ekuseni kuze kuhlwe futhi akekho ozosho ukuthi umphimbo ubuhlungu. Ngokuvamile, akekho ofundisa ukuphila.
Ucabanga
Abantu abadala bangenza konke: baphile ngokukhululekile futhi benze izinqumo zabo siqu.
Eqinisweni
Ubudala bulinganiswa nokuphila okuhlangenwe nakho, hhayi ngokuhlala ngokwahlukana nabazali. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukuthi phakathi kwabantu abadala kukhona abaningi abanjalo abahlala bengakashintshi ukuphila, njengengane. Futhi ukudala akusho ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthukuthela.