Konke kuxhomeke, ngesilinganiso esikhulu, kuphela kumlingiswa wakho nokuthi ubuhlobo bakho bubucayi kangakanani. Futhi imvamisa yezingcingo kanye nemilayezo ihluke ngokulinganayo emandleni emizwa yakho. Ngisho ukuthini? Kuphela kuphela ukuthi abantu abathandana ngobuqotho bazobe bethemba omunye nomunye. Futhi ungabizi yonke imizuzu engu-15 ngokufuna ukukhishwa kwezinto eziphathekayo, ngakho-ke emva kwalokho ezinhliziyweni zakho uyamemeza: "Umthengisi", hhayi ukulalela izincazelo ekugcineni kwefoni. Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi abantu abanothando ababi nakancane. Bavele bakwenze ngokungahambi kahle, benakekelwa ngokucophelela kanye nenjabulo, futhi lokhu kubanika injabulo kuphela. Yonke ikholi yefoni ifuna ukuqhubeka ngokungapheli, futhi kusukela kumlayezo ngamunye omusha emithanjeni, amathumba egazi.
Kodwa uma ubuhlobo bakho bungakafiki ngalesi sigaba, futhi uhlushwa umbuzo: kufanele uzikhumbuze kangaki umfana?, Bese ucabanga kuqala ngesimo sakho sobubele. Kulula kakhulu: uma ungumuntu "wesifazane-umlilo", onomdlandla, oshisayo nomhawu - khona-ke kufanele uthathe ngesandla sakho. Njengoba ubumnene bemvelo buyokuqhubezela njalo efonini ukubiza, ukufunda, cela, thola. Abesifazane abanjalo bathanda ukukhuluma okuningi, eside futhi bezwakala, bazama ukugcina zonke izinto nezenzo ezenzeka kumuntu wakhe. Ngokufanayo, uzama ukuthola nokuthi isoka lakhe lichitha isikhathi bani, ikakhulukazi unesithakazelo kobulili besifazane. Yikuphi, ngokuyisisekelo, akuyona into emangalisa, kodwa kumuntu - okungajabulisi futhi okuthukuthele ezindaweni.
Intombazane enomusa futhi enomhawu kufanele ikwazi ukuzivimbela ekuphishekeleni amarekhodi ezinombolo zemilayezo kanye nezingcingo, ngoba okuningi ukukhumbuza umfana kuyinto engafaneleki. Ikakhulu lapho kwenzeka ukuthi ubuhlobo buqala ukuzuza ngokushesha. Ngokuvamile awukwazi ukubeka imikhawulo ethile yokwehluka kuzo zonke izinhlobo zezingcingo nezinhlamvu, kodwa owesifazane onomona onomona kufanele aqale okungenani lokho. Bala izikhathi ezingaki ngosuku obiza ngayo umuntu wakho? Futhi unqume ngesibindi le nombolo ngisho nengxenye. Yiqiniso, ekuqaleni kuyoba nzima kakhulu, ngoba usetshenziselwa ukuveza isithakazelo sakho nokukhathalela ngale ndlela. Kodwa-ke, cabanga ngendlela indoda yakho ezwa ngayo lapho imizuzu eyishumi nesishiyagalombili ifoni yakhe ikhipha ucingo oluhlelekile lwe-podnadoevshy futhi isikrini sibonisa igama lakho. Cha, umnika ngempela injabulo nenjabulo, noma kunjalo, ulinganise inani lale njabulo kakhulu! Futhi makangenzeki okuningi, kodwa kungcono ukudlulisa konke ofuna ukumtshela efonini, empilweni. Lezi zikhathi eziningi zijabulisa kakhulu, uzovuma! Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngaphezu kwezinzuzo eziyinhloko ezinikeza ukuxhumana okubukhoma, kunesinye inzuzo yengxoxo: ungabona ukuthi isoka lakho lisabela kanjani. Emagama othando, emabintweni emnene, futhi nje kumabhayisikobho. Kodwa efonini ukuqonda - ukuthi ihlobana kanjani nalokhu noma lokho okuzwakalayo kusiphakamisile, kunzima kakhulu. Cabanga ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho uthola ifoni. Manje uzomtshela izindaba ezilandelayo, yena-noma uzojabula noma cha, kodwa ngeke ubone. Futhi ngaleyo ndlela uzithinte ithuba lokuqonda: wasabela kanjani ezindabeni. Ngenkathi ungalinda kancane - futhi kusihlwa, esimweni sothando, khuluma naye ubuso nobuso, ubukele ukusabela. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu uma ufuna ukusho into ... ebalulekile, ngobuqotho.
Olunye usizo luza ividiyo ehlekisayo mayelana nokuthi amadoda akhuluma kanjani efonini namantombazane azama ukutshela konke nokuningi. Khumbula ukuthi i-handset ne-response yesilisa engathandeki "Yebo, yebo, yebo" yadluliswa ngesandla kusukela ngenkathi umnikazi wakhe weqiniso ezenza is sandwich? Ngakho-ke cabanga ukuthi yilokho okwenzekayo ngesikhathi socingo lwakho oluvame futhi olude. Lokhu kuzokudikiza ekuzingeleni kakhulu, ukukhumbuza umfana ngawe.
Kodwa kukhona olunye uhlobo lwamantombazane - i-cardinally ephikisanayo. Amantombazane anjalo akwenzanga ukuzizwa egcwele usuku lonke. Ngokuvamile abafana bayithatha ngenxa yokuntuleka kwemizwa, ukubonakaliswa okubandayo nokuhlukaniswa. Kodwa-ke, akudingeki ukuba ube yiqembu elinjalo. Mhlawumbe, endaweni ethile ekujuleni komphefumulo wakhe, le ntombazane iyaqonda izingozi zokuzikhukhumeza futhi isabe ukwesaba ukukukhathaza?
Uma uziqaphele ukuthi insizwa yakho ihlale ihlambalaza ngesibindi: kungani ungambizelanga ngemuva komhlangano wakhe obalulekile noma kungani ungamceli ngesimo sakhe ngenkathi elele ekhaya ngokushisa, ngakho-ke, cishe, kungenxa yesigaba sesibili samantombazane. Okusho ukuthi kulabo abadinga ukuvota ifoni yakho, badonsa inombolo enomhawu futhi okungenani bakhulume kancane, bakhulume ngothando, ukuthi bangabanjwanga kanjani, ukuthi kuhle kanjani lo mthombo owafika ...
Lapha ungasebenzisa amaqhinga afanayo, esiwacebisayo amantombazane axoxa nabo. Zibekele inombolo ethile yezinsimbi kanye nemiyalezo ozoyenza kubathandekayo bakho. Cha, awudingi ukuziphoqa - uma ungasazi ukuthi ungakhuluma ngani naye manje - kodwa ungabizi "umaki". Kodwa-ke, uma nje usaba ukuthi uzomkhipha emacaleni omsebenzi obalulekile - spit! Phatha ukwesaba kwakho, bese ushaya ngesibindi inombolo, ukhulume ngakho konke ofuna ukukusho usuku lonke, kodwa ungaqapheli. Umfana wakho ngokuqinisekile uyothanda lokhu "ukuphumelela".
Futhi, konke okunye kufanele kuqondwe: kaningi noma kaningi kakhulu ukuthi uyakwazi ukukhumbuza umfana wakho ngaye ngokwakhe utshele umfana ngokwakhe. Futhi ungambizi lapho ekhuluma ngokungagwegwesi. Uzokukwazisa, uma ungekho emthethweni. Akunakwenzeka ukuthi ngeke athi akanayo izwi lakho ngokwanele ngosuku olukhuni!
Yebo, futhi wena ngokwakho kufanele uqonde ukuthi ungashayela nini, futhi uma-cha. Uma umfana wakho ekhulume ngomhlangano obalulekile womsebenzi wakhe kusukela kusihlwa - kungani ungambizi emva kokuphothula iziqu futhi ubuze - kwenzeka kanjani lo mcimbi obalulekile? Futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo, kucacile ukuthi ngaphambi kwalesi senzakalo noma, okubaluleke nakakhulu, ngesikhathi socingo lwaso akudingekile nhlobo - uzomshayela indoda emoyeni, ulahlekelwe wonke amazwi futhi udideke.
Ngakho-ke, lalela hhayi inhliziyo yakho kuphela, okudinga ukuba uzwe izwi lakhe amahora angu-24 ngosuku, kodwa futhi nokuqonda okuvamile, okungeke kukuvumele ukuba ube yinto engathandeki kumuntu wakho.