Futhi uma umuntu engacabangi ngocansi, ngakho-ke, kwakungemaminithi ambalwa nje edlule ukuthi wayelale ucansi futhi akakwazi ukucabanga ngento ethile esimweni sokujabula. Kodwa bambalwa kakhulu abantu abazi ukuthi kungani indoda engenandaba nocansi nokuthi ingakanani ngempela edinga ukusondelana ngokomzimba nowesifazane. Ngokuqondile, abantu abaningi bayazi ngezinzuzo zobudlelwane obuseduze, kodwa akubona bonke abazikhethele ukuthi yini impikiswano yobulili empilweni yabantu.
Kodwa uma abesifazane becabanga ukuthi injabulo esondelene nabo ibanikeza abathandekayo babo, kungenzeka ukuthi bayokwazi ukuyeka ukwahlulela abantu ngokuqinile ngenhloso yabo. Kubonakala sengathi umphumela omuhle wobulili awunqatshelwe ekuzijabuliseni ngokomzimba, izici zengqondo zokuqinisa ukuzethemba komuntu siqu nokugcina isimo somnqobi nomnqobi. Umthelela wobulili empilweni yamadoda iningi kakhulu.
Ngakho, okokuqala, imiphumela yomzimba yengqondo.
Ikhwalithi ewusizo eyinhloko yokwabelana ngokwemvelo yezemvelo ukugcina ukuzivikela okujwayelekile nokunciphisa inqubo yokuguga. Ososayensi baye bafakazela ngokuphindaphindiwe ukuthi inqubo yokulala ngokobulili yonke imisipha, i-prostate, i-adrenal kanye ne-parathyroid, izicathulo kanye nezingxenye ezihlukene zobuchopho kumuntu zisesimweni somsebenzi owandile. Futhi yini elandela ngemuva kokuphela kwengxabano yomzimba wonke? Ukuphumula. Futhi ephakeme ukucindezeleka, okujulile kuyoba ukuphumula. Njengoba uyazi, isintu asizange senze isisombululo semibimbi ephumelela kakhulu kunokuphumula okujulile kwemizimba. Ngokuqondene nezitho zangasese, ukuphumula kwazo kunikeza inqubo ephumelelayo yokuhlanza umzimba wezinto eziyingozi eziqoqiwe. Kubandakanya ukugqugquzela ukuqoqwa kwamaseli amafutha. Ngakho-ke, ngokuklama okulula okunengqondo kulula ukufika esiphethweni sokuthi ucansi luvuselela isikhumba somuntu futhi lusekela umsebenzi wangaphakathi wazo zonke izitho zakhe. Futhi lokho kubaluleke kakhulu, kusiza ukugcina ukuqina komumo wesimo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, enye into eqinisekisiwe ngokwesayensi: Ukuphila ngokocansi okuvamile kunciphisa ingozi yokuhlaselwa yinhliziyo nokushaywa yisifo sohlangothi. Lapha izizathu azikhona nje emisebenzini eyanda emzimbeni ngesikhathi sothando. Nakuba kuyisisekelo sayo yonke imiphumela enenzuzo yocansi. Eqinisweni, ngenxa yesimiso senhliziyo nobuchopho bomuntu, isenzo sobudlelwane obuseduze nomuntu luhlobo lokuqeqeshwa oluhlinzeka ukuphikiswa okwenyuka kwesilwane besilisa ezifweni ezimbi zezingxenye ezisemqoka.
Izikhathi ezijabulisayo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, esinye sezikhathi ezimnandi kakhulu zethonya lobulili empilweni yamadoda nabesifazane. Kuyaziwa ukuthi ngokuphumelela kwe-orgasm egazini lomuntu kufike izikhathi ezingu-5 ngaphezu kwesimo sokuzola, i-oxytocin iyi-hormone ekhethekile ebamba iqhaza ekukhiqizeni i-endorphins eyaziwa umphakathi jikelele ngokuthi "ama-hormone wenjabulo". Lawa ma-endorphin akagcini nje ukwandisa izinga lomzwelo omuhle womuntu futhi anikeze ukukhululeka kokucindezeleka, kodwa futhi abe negalelo ekunciphiseni okukhulu ebuhlungu. Ngakho-ke, ubulili kumuntu akuyona nje into yokubulala umzimba. Nokho, ngowesifazane, futhi. Ngakho-ke, ochwepheshe abazibophezela ngokugcwele emiphumeleni yokusondelana, baye baxakeka iminyaka eminingi ukuthi inhloko yowesifazane ingabangela kanjani ukulahla ngokocansi. Phela, lesi senzo siyomsindisa emndenini othukuthele.
Kodwa akuwona wonke amathemba angokwenyama enza amadoda ajabule ngocansi. Izinzuzo zakhe ezingokwengqondo nazo zibangela ububanzi bezimfanelo ezimnandi. Ngakho, into yokuqala ukuthi ucansi lenzeni empilweni yomuntu wengqondo ukuthi yanciphisa usongo lokuwela ekucindezelekeni. Ngenxa yezinga elifanayo lokunyuka kwama-endorphin akhiqizwa yizinto eziphilayo, umuntu othola njalo umthamo wakhe wezinjabulo ezithandwayo cishe awunobungozi wokuwa phansi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngenxa yesinxephezelo se-hormone esenokuzijabulisa "ama-hormone amahle", izinga lonke lobuhlukumezi besilisa linciphisa ngezikhathi ezithile. Emzimbeni onelisekile ngokobulili, ukuhlanganiswa okuyingqayizivele kokuhlanganiswa kwezikhuthazo ezihlukahlukene kusungulwa. Futhi ekugcineni - umuntu uzizwa ehle futhi akanaso isifiso sokuphanga ukuphila okuzungezile.
Ubulili busisiza .... ukuze ikhule ihlakaniphile?
Enye ikhwalithi engokwengqondo ewusizo yobudlelwane obuseduze ihlanganisa ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo jikelele kwamadoda njengabantu ngabanye. Wazibonakalisa ngokucophelela ukuthi ukuhlangana okuvamile komuntu onomuntu ukwandisa isifiso sakhe sokuqashelwa nokuqinisekisa ukucabangela kokucabanga. Lokhu kuyingxenye ngenxa yokwanda kwegazi lomuntu we-adrenaline ne-cortisol, okubuye kube yisisekelo sokuthuthukiswa kwengqondo ebomvu ebuchosheni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukwandisa kokubona nokuguquguquka kokucabanga kuholela ekunciphiseni izinga lokucindezeleka, elinikezwa ngcansi.
Kodwa ukuqeda ukucindezeleka okwenziwe akuyona nje into ebalulekile yokwandisa amakhono engqondo emadodeni, kodwa futhi nomphumela omuhle wokuzibandakanya kwezocansi. Phela, ukunciphisa ukungezwani kwemisipha kuba yindawo enhle yokuthuthukiswa komuntu siqu, ukuzethemba ngokwengeziwe nokwenyuka kwesifiso sokumamatheka. Okungadingeki ukuthi, kubasiza kanjani noma ubani ukuba amomotheka, okunciphisa inani lembimbi, futhi akhulise intsha ngezikhathi ezithile, futhi akhuthaze ukwakheka kobudlelwano obukhululekile nabantu abazungezile?
Yebo, akufanele sikhohlwe ngomunye, ikhwalithi ebaluleke kakhulu ebuhlotsheni obuseduze phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane - ikhono lokuhlangabezana ngokugcwele nesidingo sezinzwa ezithinta inhliziyo. Abaningi bayazi ukuthi yini isidingo esanelisekile somuntu. Kodwa akubona wonke umuntu oqonda ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani ukuziphika lesi sidingo esilula. Ososayensi basanda kubonisa ukuthi umuntu othola ngokungavamile inani elanele lemizwa enjalo kuqinisekiswe ukuthi ahlala ngaphansi kuka 10-12% kunomuntu owamukela ngokugcwele. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuyisimo esibucayi esinika umuntu into efudumayo futhi edingekile ukuba wonke umuntu azizwele ukuthi uyabaluleke kangakanani, izidingo nezifiso. Yikuphi okubaluleke kakhulu hhayi kuphela kumuntu, kodwa nakwabathandekayo bakhe.