Ngifuna "i-waistcoat" ukukhala ngesosizi, ngoba ngithanda ukwabelana nabanye ngezinkinga zami futhi ngifisa ukufuna ukuzwelana ... Yeka ukuthi kunzima kanjani ngezinye izikhathi ukuthola ukwesekwa kwabantu abaseduze! Ngesizathu esithile, abakunilaleli ngokucophelela, njengokungathi ababheki njengezinkinga zakho. Futhi umngane omkhulu kakhulu wathi: "Hhayi, kakade kakade ukukhala!"
Ungasheshi ukugxeka abanye ngokunganaki futhi ukhale kubo, zama ukuzibuka wena ngaphandle. Kungenzeka ukuthi wena ngokwakho uzofuna ukuqeda umkhuba wokukhononda njalo.
Kuhlobo lwe-monologue. Uma uzama ukuqeda ukucindezeleka ngokomzwelo, awuboni ukuthi wenza abanye abantu abathintekayo bemizwa yakho. Ngemuva kokulalela ukugeleza kwezikhalazo ekuphenduleni umbuzo othi "ungubani?", Intombi ayifuni ukuhlanganyela izindaba zayo. Ngandlela-thile akusizi ukukhuluma ngokuthenga umbhede omusha ngemuva kokubika ngokuntuleka kwemali okungapheli ... Ngaphezu kwalokho, abathandekayo abanesihawu ngokuvamile babhekana nokuphikiswa okufihlekile. Ukhononda bese ukhalela isamba esincane - uyanconywa ukuba ukhulume nomphathi, uphendula ukuthi akusizi ngalutho, futhi unikezwa ukufuna umsebenzi omusha. Futhi ngakho-ke iyaqhubeka kuze kube phakade. Bheka izindlela eziningi zokuzithokozisa ngokomzwelo. Isibonelo, ungakhononda ngokuphila kumaphakathi oxhumana nabo abonakalayo kumaforamu e-inthanethi, ibhulogi noma idayari yephepha. Zama ukuletha indaba yakho yendaba, uzihlekise, ubonise isimo esingathandeki ebusweni bakho. Zama ukwamukela ngokubonga iseluleko esingenangqondo sabalaleli, bese wena kanye ne-interlocutor yakho nizoneliseka omunye nomunye. Ungabheke "i-waistcoat" ukukhala ngokudabuka, lokhu ngeke kukujabulise wena noma kwabanye.
Amathiphu amaningi kangaka! Ngisho nezixazululo ezilula azikwazi ukunikwa kalula. Ukukhalela ukuhlupheka, abantu abaningi bathambekele ekuqoqeni imibono eminingi ngangokunokwenzeka ukuze bangenzi iphutha ekukhethweni kwabo. Eqinisweni, ungalindele ngokungazi ukuthi omunye uzosusa kuwe umthwalo wemfanelo. Kodwa ukuthi inani lezinye izindlela landa, umsebenzi uba nzima nakakhulu. Zama ukunqoba ukungaqiniseki futhi ukhethe lokho okuthambekele ku-intuitively. Uma ufuna ukwazi umbono womlingani wakho, ungalili, ubheke ebusweni ngamehlo agcwele izinyembezi. Mbuze ukuthi wenze kanjani ezimweni ezifanayo. Noma ubani othakazelisayo ukukhuluma ngaye kunokuba ahlaziye phezu kwezinkinga zabanye abantu.
INkosikazi uNesmeyan noma ifuna "isikhumba" sokukhala ngensizi!
Amanye amantombazane akholelwa ukuthi ukubukeka okubuhlungu kubenza kube okungaqondakali. Futhi umuntu uzama ukufakazela ngesibonelo sabo umbono wokuthi i-pessimist i-optimist enolwazi. Noma kunjalo, ngezizathu eziningana, uyathanda le nhlobo yendima. Ungamangali uma ngokungazelelwe uyeke ukumemela ezinsukwini zokuzalwa nakwezinye izinhlangano. Cabanga ukuthi ubani osesidleni udinga umuntu ongeke ajabule kuwo wonke umuntu, ukukhala njalo nokukhononda, kungaphazamisa isimo somuntu wonke. Cabanga kakhulu ngokushintsha isithombe! Isithombe somuntu oye wadlula ezivivinyweni, kodwa wagcina amandla ommoya, ukucela abanye. Funda ukondla ngezinsalela zabanye abantu, nenjabulo yabanye abantu. Kumelwe sikujabulele nsuku zonke, umzuzu ngamunye. Ngezindlela ezinjalo ezilula futhi ezilula ungenza abanye bajabule, futhi ukuphila kumibalabala futhi kugubha umkhosi.
Ungakhohlwa ukuthi imizwa yakho emihle ibaluleke kakhulu kubathandekayo bakho. Ukukhathazeka kwansuku zonke nokukhathazeka kusenza sikhohlwe ngokuxhumana nabantu abaseduze. Kodwa yilokho okuletha injabulo futhi kusenza sijabule. Futhi lolo suku lalicebile kakhulu. Umsebenzi obilisiwe ngokucophelela: into eyodwa, bese-ke enye-ikhanda layihlohla. Ngezikhathi ezinjalo kuyoba kuhle ukuphumula futhi wengeze okuhle emihleni yezinsuku ezithandayo! Unganaki ukujabula komndeni omncane. Smile kaningi, ujabulele konke njengabantwana, umangala futhi umangale, khuluma okuningi ngothando.