Abesifazane abaningi bavame ukudala umkhathi wokugcoba uqobo, bekholelwa ukuthi lokhu kwenza kube kucace kakhulu futhi kube nesifiso sokwenza ucansi oluqinile. Ucabanga ukuthi kuningi kakhulu? Amadoda afana kanjani nalabo abasebenzisana nabo kanye nezintombi ezinomlilo, ngubani ongafaniswa neholidi? Futhi okuqondile.
Owesifazane - Unyaka OmushaIholide enkulu yonyaka. Kulolu suku, awukwazi nje ukulala - kufanele nakanjani ujabulele futhi ujabule, bese ngokuqinisekile ubonise ukuhlangana kukaNyaka Omusha wokuqala nabangane nozakwabo futhi uxoxe ngendlela abanye abenza ngayo. Isidingo esinjalo samadoda amaningi ukwesaba kwangempela: "USanta Claus, qinisekisa ukuthi ibhizinisi eliphuthumayo emsebenzini livele, futhi awusanqobi." Owesifazane - Unyaka Omusha uyaqiniseka ngaye futhi ukuthi uyona engcono kunazo zonke, ebaluleke kakhulu, kakhulu kakhulu. Akazwa okuningi kumlingani wakhe, ufuna ukuwina uma eqhathaniswa naye. Ngokwesibonelo, wayelokhu ekhuluma kuwo wonke umuntu ozungezile: "Yeka ukuthi unomfazi omuhle kangakanani, unenhlanhla kangakanani naye!" Ukuhleka amahlaya akhe, wajabula ngempumelelo yakhe, wagubha izimfanelo zakhe ezingokomoya. Ekuqaleni, lo muntu uyahlula, lokhu kuvuselela ukuziqhenya kwakhe. Kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, uqala ukwehla ukuzethemba noma kunomuzwa wokuthi ungumhambi kuleli holide. Ngokucophelela lo mlingani angavumelanisa nalesi simo, kodwa ekujuleni kwenhliziyo yakhe ufisa ukubuyisela isimo sakhe. Ubani ongafuni ukwaziswa futhi ujabule? Ngakho-ke, owesifazane onyakeni omusha angase akhethe ukuhlehliswa kweSuku lokunciphisa okungekho ophansi, oluphansi. Iyini iphuzu lokuziqhathanisa nomlingani wakho, ukuncintisana, ngubani ongcono futhi othakazelisayo? Ngokuphambene nalokho, ukuthobeka (ngokulinganisela), ukunakekelwa kuyo kuyosekelwa kuye ngokuqiniseka ukuthi indawo yakhe ekhalendeni lakho nasempilo ibaluleke kakhulu. Ukuthi uyiholide langempela kuwe.
Owesifazane waseCarnival
Umcimbi okhangayo kakhulu . Ekuqaleni, amaholidi anjalo kubo bonke abantu ahlala cishe amasonto amabili. Kancane kancane, abantu baqala ukunciphisa: kunzima ukumelana nokukhanya kwe-gaiety isikhathi eside. EBrazil, odokotela phambi komkhosi wezemidlalo banganikeza iseluleko sokuthi bangajabula kanjani namaqembu athile abantu, isibonelo, abanenkinga yenhliziyo noma ukuthambekela kwezifo ze-neurotic. UMnyango wezeMpilo wezwe elijabule futhi elijabule kakhulu alincoma ukuba abe yingxenye ekhuthele kulo mkhosi: ku-TV ubheke kangcono. I-female-carnival ikhanya kakhulu, inenhlalakahle futhi iyasebenza, ukuthi akufanele ithandane nayo, akunakwenzeka ukuba ungafuni ukuba ndawonye. Kodwa ngokuvamile ngemva komshado indoda izwa ikhathele. Sekuyisikhathi sokuqhubekela phambili ezinsukwini zamasonto, bese uphinde uholide. Futhi akukho njongo yokunciphisa ijubane. Esiphakamisweni: "Ake sihlale ekhaya namuhla" - owesifazane wesidlo siphendule: "Ungubani, ngeke ngikuvumele ukuba udabuke, manje ngizobona ukuthi sizojabula kanjani." Phakathi naleso sikhathi, indoda ngenxa yezici zakhe ze-psychophysiological efana nokuzijabulisa okukhulu kunabesifazane. Bahlale badinga ukuphumula okugcwele: ngokoqobo balele embhedeni futhi bangenzi lutho. Kumelwe sishiye la madoda kuphela. Ungasho ukuthi: "O, yeka ukuthi uyabukeka kanjani" - futhi ungalingani nomngane omusha owadansa nawe amahora amaningana. Wayedansa okwamanje, ngoba wakubona kuphela. Futhi esikhundleni somyeni wakhe naye, wayezocela ukuba ahlale ethule. I-carnival kufanele ilahle okungenani kanye ngesikhathi esisodwa.
Owesifazane - Ukuzalwa
Kuhle kakhulu ukuthi konke kwenziwa wena nje ! Izipho, amazwi afudumele, ukuhalalisela, izifiso. Njengoba uneminyaka yobudala, isimo sengqondo sokushintsha kwosuku lokuzalwa - ngokujabulisayo kukhona nokudabuka: emva kwakho konke, unyaka wonke ukhula. Kodwa-ke, uma abafazi bengaphazamisi ukugubha, labo abamele ubulili obunamandla, izinsuku zokuzalwa zingaba ukucindezeleka kwangempela, futhi imikhosi yonyaka ibonakala njengesivivinyo esinzima. Futhi konke ngoba kunzima amadoda ukuba abe yingxenye yomfana wokuzalwa. Akunjalo njengokomzwelo njengabesifazane, abazizwa isidingo sabo bonke laba "Hhayi, ngiyabonga, kuhle kangakanani, ngithintwa kakhulu," kodwa zizwe ukuthi kufanele uziphathe kanje: bonisa ukubonga nokujabula. Ngaphezu kwalokho, indima yomfana wokuzalwa ayiyona into ejwayelekile futhi ngokuvamile ayikuvumeli ukuba ususe ukucindezeleka okuvela. Lawo madoda angavunyelwe ukuhlela usuku lokuzalwa, ngokwesibonelo, emvelo ("Ngabe unosuku olunjalo uzoba ngomlilo ukuba ungcolile?") Futhi uphoqelekile ukuwugubha, uthi, esitolo sokudlela, uvame ukuphuza kakhulu. Kulo mhlaba, leli holide aliyona ebuhlungu kakhulu. Abesifazane balolu hlobo bangabuye babe isivivinyo. Bakhokha kakhulu, ngakho-ke bahloniphe, babheke ngobumnene, ukuthi akukho nje insindiso.
Yebo, amadoda ayakuthanda ukunakwa. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba banqobe. Ngakho-ke, i-droplet yokungaboni ngaso sonke isikhathi ebuhlotsheni ngeke ibuhlungu. Futhi uma umphefumulo udinga sonke isikhathi ukuzungeze umuntu onakekelayo nothando, qala, isibonelo, i-ferret. Yena nezinzwa zakhe zinamandla, kanti ubuso buqinile.
Owesifazane - Mashi 8
Amadoda avela ebuntwaneni abesaba kakhulu leli holide . Ngakolunye uhlangothi, unikeza ithuba lokuzibonakalisa, ukwenza okuthile okuthakazelisayo, ngakolunye uhlangothi wenza izidingo eziphakeme nezingaqondakali. Kubalulekile ukunikeza izipho, iningi lokuhlanza, ukuvuka ekuseni futhi ulungiselele kwasekuseni, ngisho noma ekuseni akukho muntu emndenini odlayo. Kubalulekile ukuhalalisela, ngisho noma owesifazane eqinisekisa: "Mashi 8 - ugcwalise izinto ezingenalutho", futhi wenze ngendlela yokuqala, ukuze ungasho ukuthi ukubingelela kwakungokomthetho. Kumele ube khona usuku lonke futhi ungakhohlwa ukusho amazwi anomusa futhi othintana nomama nabanye abaningi besifazane ... Ngokuvamile, lokhu kuyisicupho! Ngeke kwenzeke ukuthi uyifinyelele - uMashi 8 akwenzeki. Ukuhamba ngebhizinisi, isikhathi esengeziwe noma, uNkulunkulu akavumelekile, ukudoba kulolu suku kuthathwa njengecala ngokumelene nothando nenjabulo. Abesifazane njengoMashi 8 banjengoba befuna. Kodwa abatsho ukuthi yini abayifunayo, abanikeli lutho, balinde. Bese-ke bakwazisa ukuthi ngabe balinde noma cha. Futhi bayaqonda ukuthi uma bekhuluma ngezinhlelo zabo noma amaphupho, konke kuzoba lula. Kodwa lokhu kuphambene nemibono yokuthi kufanele ibe kanjani. Indoda, uma ethanda ngempela, kumele acabange ukuthi yenzeni. Futhi kubantu besimo sengqondo esinjalo kubangela ukukhathazeka nokucasuka. Indlela yokuhlangabezana nokulindelwe komlingani, uma ungazi ukuthi yini okulindelekile kuwe? Isizathu silahlekile. Njengoba zonke izipho "azifani," yini iphuzu lokunikeza okuthile?
Kungani ungaqapheli? Bese-ke nijabule ngobuqotho futhi nizibuze ukuthi lo othandekayo wayifanele kanjani futhi ngokucacile isifiso esiyimfihlo. Ucabanga ukuthi lokhu kuyoba amanga? Cha, lawa amancane amaqhinga amancane namasu, okuyindlela, ngendlela efanele, ehambisana neholidi.
Owesifazane - iMpelasonto
Ukuphela kwezinsuku zomsebenzi iningi lethu kuhlotshaniswa neholidi ! Futhi akuyona ingozi: ungalala ngobuningi, ulale embhedeni, ube nesidlo sasekuseni kancane, bese-ke ... Yilapho abaningi balinde khona inkohliso engcolile: ngokusho kwezibalo, cishe abesifazane abangamaphesenti angama-70 bachitha ukuphela kwezimpelasonto, ukuthenga ukudla, ukugeza kanye nezinye "izikweleti zasekhaya". Ngempela, umyeni uhlanganyela ezindabeni zezomnotho, kodwa ... Emphefumulweni wakhe kancane kancane uqoqa ukucasuka: kodwa ukuphi ukuphumula okufanelwe kahle, kuphi ukujabula kusukela ngempelasonto? Owesifazane oyimpumelelo uzokwazi ukuphefumula injabulo ibe imisebenzi yendlu evamile. Ukuhlanza kuphenduka ukufuna okujabulisayo, ukunikeza umndeni "imephu yempahla", ukuthenga ukudla esitolo - "ekuzingeleni" (izingane zesikole ezincane, isibonelo, ziyakujabulela ukuthola imikhiqizo emashalofini bese igcwalisa inqola). Into esemqoka yimizwelo kanye nomvuzo! Kungaba ukugibela epakini lokuzijabulisa, ikhekhe lomama wegama lomkhiqizo noma kusihlwa endaweni yaseshashalazini.
Akungabazeki ukuthi kuyoba namadoda amaningi angashada ukuze abe nendlu ehlanzekile endlini, kokubili ekamelweni lokusebenza kanye netafula eligcwele. Abaningi bayakwazisa ukudla okunomsoco kanye nomoya ophefumulayo. Ngakho-ke, owesifazane uyisonto elidumile, lapho konke kwenziwa kalula futhi ngenhliziyo enhle, kuyohlale kuthandwa futhi kuyathandwa.