Futhi konke okumele ukwenze kubonisa ukuthi uzama ukuqala, kodwa, ngokumangalisa, amadoda abalekela ngaphandle kokubuka emuva kwabesifazane abahamba ngenkuthalo ekudleni. Kungenzeka nokuthi intuthuko enjalo indoda elandela ukuthi "inkohliso" yokuthi owesifazane wayezofuna ukuhlala umhlalaphansi nomuntu onjalo futhi axhumane ngasese uyobiza isifo somqondo wengqondo ngesigijimi ukuthi intombazane esolisayo iyahamba edolobheni.
Ngakho-ke, kunconywa kakhulu ukuba ulalele izazi zengqondo ezihlakaniphile futhi zihlobise konke njengokungathi wenze lokhu kudla, futhi ngokujwayelekile uqobo lwakhe waqala konke lokhu. Kodwa-ke kukhona okunye okuningiliziwe: bonke abantu-bahlukaniswe waba yibo obaziyo kahle wena siqu, labo obaziyo, kodwa hhayi kakhulu, nalabo abaziwa kuphela ngokubabade futhi banomusa kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, kuleli bhizinisi, kuzosiza ukulungele ukuzijabulisa kanye nendlela yokuzimela.
Nje umngane
Inzima: umngane ungomunye ongehlala naye ngezinyawo zakho embhedeni ngisho ne-pedalure ye-stale futhi uxoxe nakanjani noma yikuphi isihloko. Ungamnika iseluleko kumantombazane ka-ohmureniyu noma ukukhononda ngomfana wakhe. Ngokuvamile, kulula ukumenza i-lobotomy ukuze abone owesifazane kuwe. Njengendlela ehlukile, ungazama ukuthatha "ubuthakathaka" noma ukucela ngqo, kodwa ezimweni ezinjalo, izibikezelo aziduduzi: uzolahlekelwa ngumngani onjalo ngale ndlela, kepha ngabe uba ngumlingani osondelene naye uyimfoloko yokubhala amanzi.
Isinqumo : bonke abantu bathanda ukuba ngamaqhawe, lapho nathi, singenakuzivikela. Ngakho-ke, umngane kumele akhohliswe ekuklanyeni i-Xebe ekhaya ngaphansi kwesizathu sokulungisa i-computer, ukumphatha ngewayini, ukubukela ifilimu, ebonisa i-decollete. Ungayithola kumdanso: lapha futhi uthinte, namandla. Uma engenakunqotshwa - cela ukuthi ube nobusuku obumnyama. Esimweni esibucayi kunazo zonke - upheleleke emehlweni akhe emasontweni ambalwa, bese kubonakala futhi, kodwa emfanekisweni omusha, okhohlisa futhi wesifazane.
Okubhekayo : ochungechungeni oluthambile lwe-TV ethi "Sex Igorod" Miranda uthe "ngubani omunye ozohlanganyela naye ocansini, njengesitha?". Endabeni yakhe, konke kwaphela ngokuzalwa kwendodana nokushada ngothando. Futhi kulokho akukwazi ngokuphelele ukuthi ngubani ozoba umngane okhohlisayo, kodwa kukhona ukuhluka okubili: i-ex-isoka noma indoda ebaluleke kakhulu kuwe. Yenza lokhu kuphela uma umdlalo ufaneleka ngempela ikhandlela.
"Ubuso obujwayelekile ..."
Kunzima: cishe umngane wakho ngeke akubheke njengowesifazane, ngoba kufanele uthathe konke ezandleni zakho. Siqondisa isenzo ukunciphisa ibanga futhi sikwazi ukuxhumana eduze, kuze kufike ...
Isixazululo : ufunde kangcono, mayelana nempumelelo yayo, izenzakalo zokuphila, izinhloso, imigomo. Udinga nje ukugqugquzelwa okusemthethweni ukuxhumana eduze.
Kumemele ku-cafe, e-bowling, e-skating rink. Ngokwehlukumezeka ngokomzwelo, kumanga esihlathini, unikeze ukuncoma okumbalwa mayelana nobukhulu bakhe, ukuqonda, amehlo, ukumomotheka, ukuxuba. Kodwa akukho cala ngaleso sikhathi ukuqokwa okungondelene akuhlelwe, kungenjalo into ezokwehluleka, njengoba konke ukukhohliswa kwesenzo samadoda kuzohlakazeka njengothuli.
Okubhekayo : kulokhu konke ukubikezelwa kuhle kakhulu. Ngenxa yalaba bantu abajwayele ukuthi bangabenza abantu abahlukene - kusuka kumthandi kumuntu oshade naye. Uma emva kokuvakashelwa kathathu umuntu angaqondi ukuthi yini abayifunayo kuye, kuyoba ngcono ukumshiya esigabeni 'sokungaziwa'.
O, lezo zangaphambili ...
Kunzima : ubulili kumuntu wangaphambili kufanele banikezwe ngisho nasezikhungweni ezimbi kakhulu. Ikakhulu uma uma uhlukanisa uphula inhliziyo yakhe nemoto, futhi wonke amabhuloho ashisa ngezandla zawo.
Kodwa, njengendlela yokukhetha, ungamthuma i-sms-ku ngokuphenduka "okuvumela ukuba ube nezinhlamvu ezahlukene nemikhuba, kodwa embhedeni kaNkulunkulu - futhi usulungele ukuba yisisulu.
Isinqumo : uma ngabe bonke abantu befa ngokuzumayo, ke ungathumela i-imeyili yangaphambili, umlayezo owulahlekile ngempela, kodwa qinisekisa ukuthi konke lokhu ushizi kungumzimba kuphela.
Ngokuvikeleka kwayo, akuvunyelwe ukubuyisela okwedlule. Khumbula ukuthi wayebuhlungu kangakanani. Okuvinjelwe ngokuqinile futhi (izimpendulo ezintathu) ukucela ukusondelana nomuntu owakuphonsa: ngeke uphinde uziphindiselele, ujabulele inqubo futhi, futhi ungalokothi uphuphe ukuyibuyisela.
Okubhekayo : akunakwenzeka ukubuyisela okokuqala ngokocansi futhi kwenzeke kuphela ezinhlokweni. Ngakho-ke, kungcono ukuthi uyiphathe njengezinhlanzi ezisemathinini, kuze kufinyelelwe inhlanzi ehloniphekile.
Ubulili ngesikhathi sokusebenza
Inzima : konke-konke-konke ukugubha nabo bonke abangcwele - kungcono ukuphuza ilitha yobisi nge kilogram yamakhukhamba anokolweni, futhi ngokuvamile, kungcono kunoma yini, kunokuba uqale inveli emsebenzini. Kodwa abazi nje ukuthi isisebenzi sakho esisha sini: izinwele ezimnyama, amehlo aluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, futhi lena yingxenye encane yezinzuzo zakhe.
Isixazululo : inketho engcono kakhulu ithimba-umsebenzi ohlangene, noma kunjalo, le nkampani nayo iyafaneleka. Uzodinga ukunamathela emithethweni emithathu: izihloko ezingxoxweni akufanele zikhathazeke ngomsebenzi, kumele kube nokudlala ngothando nokuncoma. Ama-blouses angama-decollete ne-transparent ayamukelekile, okuningi kotshwala akusikho, uyamkhohlisa, kodwa ungazami ukwenza izimfihlo.
Okubhekayo : osebenza naye angaba yingxenye yakho yesibili, noma kungenzeka ukuthi uhambe uma engayithandi. Ngakho-ke, uma enomfazi, izingane noma umlingisi wokuziphendulela, ungacabangi ngalokhu.
Ubani owaziyo?
Ukubunzima : ubulili nomuntu ongaziwayo yindabuko evame kakhulu, kodwa akukho lutho. Ngenxa yokuthi isimo esinjalo, lapho owesifazane ekhishwa i-jeans kumuntu wabona amaminithi ambalwa adlule, kude kakhulu ngayinye. Yebo, kanye namantombazane afundisiwe, lokhu kuziphatha akunjalo kumuntu, kepha uma kungazelelwe (njengoba uDeveli engathokozi), kuyacatshangwa ukuthi kufanelekile ukunikeza ukuthungelwa endaweni eyimfihlo kuphela lapho umfula udakiwe utshwala, kanti izinhlanzi zide kakhulu ne-Otpuritan. Kodwa uma isifiso sesifikile kakade nesisakhamuzi esikuthula, sikhetha ama-waffles esitolo, sithulise amademoni akhe, ngisho noma isikhashana nje.
Isixazululo : sondela ngesibindi into yokuhlonza, ukumomotheka futhi uqale ingxoxo enhle. Ungacela enye insizakalo encane, isibonelo, funda okulotshwe ngefonti elihle kwi-pack yetiye, ngoba ukhohliwe izibuko ekhaya futhi ngaphandle kwazo awuboni. Buza ukuthi ungafika kanjani kulabhulali, eLizyukov Street noma zingaki zamazinga okuphakama. Ngokuvamile, bheka amehlo akho bese uthi ungathanda ukwazi eduze ngangokunokwenzeka ...
I-Perspective : uma ukwazi ukuphoqa umuntu ukuba uxhumane okusheshayo, ungahamba ngokuphepha futhi wakhe umsebenzi wezepolitiki noma uhlanganyele ekuthengiseni inethiwekhi. Cishe, isakhamuzi sinquma ukuthi wangena ohlelweni "Ephukile futhi ehlekisayo," futhi libukeka liyesaba ukubuka nxazonke, lithemba ukubona ikhamera futhi isheshe ukufihla esiqondisweni esingaziwa.