Izipho zivame ukuhlukaniswa ngezigaba ezihlukene zesidingo: kusukela ekungenalutho futhi ngisho nangezinye izikhathi ezicasulayo - nokuphela ngokubaluleke kakhulu nokugcinwa kwengqolobane. Kubalulekile lapha: ungalahlekelwa. Njengoba bonke abantu benokuthandwa okuhlukile, futhi ngisho nangokwengeziwe ukuthanda kwamadoda kusuka ezintweni ezizithandayo zabesifazane. Ngakho-ke umbuzo: yini indoda engayinika owesifazane uNyaka Omusha - njengoba akunakwenzeka ngempela. Futhi, mhlawumbe, usebenza kakhulu kithi, abesifazane, kunabo abafana ngokwabo. Kungani? Yebo, ngoba ngubani, uma kungenjalo thina, ngamazwi nangezikhuthazo "ekuncenga" okudingekayo futhi okubalulekile kule holide? Futhi labo abangekho, mhlawumbe, ngokuvamile bahlupheka ngenxa yokuthi amadoda abo akakwazi ukwenza isipho esihle soNyaka Omusha.
Nakuba, uyazi, konke lokhu ngokuqondile kuxhomeke ekuthuthukiseni kwakho imfashini yakho, ukuthi uyakwazi kangakanani futhi ukuthi isikhwama sakhe sikhulu kangakanani. Emva kwakho konke, zikhona izipho eziwela njalo emgomweni, kodwa izindleko zabo ngokuvamile abantu abathile beza ekugcineni. Cishe usuqagele kakade lokho esikukhulumayo: "ama-trinkets" azintandokazi, amnandi ayenziwe ngegolide elihlanzekile nokufakwa kwamatshe ayigugu. Nakuba lapha futhi kungaba khona amaphuzu - emva kwakho konke, akuwona wonke umhlobiso oyoba ukunambitheka kowesifazane. Kodwa kukhona okunye okubaluleke kakhulu: igolide lingagungqiswa phansi, lithengiswe, lishintshwe ekugcineni futhi lithole lokho umphefumulo onqwenelayo. Ngakho igolide yisipho esisodwa senombolo ohlwini lwendoda engayinika owesifazane uNyaka Omusha noma enye iholidi.
Kodwa-ke, njengoba sesishilo kakade, igolide lingenakutholeka kakhulu kuwo wonke umuntu, ngakho ake sicabangele ezinye izinto ezihlukahlukene. Kodwa sizozicabangela ekuyisihluthulelo sendlela esenzelwe ngayo amantombazane ukuba enze izinkomba ngesipho esingathandeki noma esifiselekayo.
Ungakugwema kanjani izipho ezingadingeki?
Kukhona isigaba samadoda akholelwa ukuthi bonke abesifazane baya enjabulweni engenakulinganiswa kusuka ezinhlobonhlobo zangaphakathi. Ngakho-ke banikeza abathandekayo babo wonke amaholide ama-figurines, izigidi zezinambuzane namabhokisi amakhandlela anomnandi. Kodwa ngisho noma intombazane imthanda ngempela zonke lezi zinto, ngakho konke uthando lunomkhawulo - uzokhathala kanjani ngokuthola lezi zithombe, lezikhandlela nge-flavour izithelo? Futhi ukuthobeka kwemvelo ngeke kuvume ukumisa umuntu osevele ezimisele ngokuzithandela ukuthi ngokunikeza zonke lezi zintathu, ushaya ngqo ekuhlosweni.
Ngakho-ke, ungakugwema kanjani ukuthi insizwa yakho yoNyaka Omusha izokuletha ebhokisini le-chic ukuthi awukwazi ukumelela umoya? Qala kusengaphambili ukuze ulilungiselele ukuthi ukuthanda kwakho kuyinto enhle kakhulu. Uma kwenye indawo ephathini uzobona okuthile okuyobekwa khona yi-wave of disgust - qinisekisa ukuthi indoda yakho, okokuqala, ibona le nto, futhi, okwesibili, yaqaphela ukuthi awuyithandi neze. Mtshele ngalokho ongakuthandi ukukubona ekhaya lakho - futhi umuntu olalelisayo kumele akhumbule lokhu. Vele ungathuli - akuwona wonke umuntu okwazi ukuqagela okuthandayo emehlweni. Nakuba kunjalo. Ngakho-ke, uma ucabanga ukuthi indoda yamaphupho akho ngeke ukwazi ukuqagela ukuthi isiphi isipho sephupho lakho libukeka futhi, ngaphezu kwalokho, ingakunikeza into eyokubeka esimeni sokushaqeka nokucindezeleka, kanti indlela engcono kakhulu yokugwema isipho esinjalo ukumtshela ngendaba yakho lokhu akuthandi. Kuphela hhayi ekupheleni konyaka omusha.
Izipho ezinhle kakhulu kwabesifazane ngoNyaka Omusha
Ngakho-ke, yini indoda engayinika owesifazane ngoNyaka Omusha, kangako ukuze ungalahlekelwa? Uma ukhetho olunamagugu kumuntu alukho ehlombe, khona-ke kufanele ucabange ngokungathí sina ngezinto ezithandwayo nezithakazelo zentombazane yakhe, bese ukhetha isipho esekelwe kule mibono.
Intombazane ingenza umfana kalula abe nesicoco esincane, sokungena kwento engathanda ukuyibona ngaphansi kwesihlahla sikaKhisimusi. Kodwa lokhu, niyabo, kuyisimangalo, isisindo esihle, sikhulile ngokuphelele. Futhi ngomnyaka omusha ngifuna ubuntwana obuningi! Ngakho-ke, ngifuna ukukholelwa ukuthi amadoda ethu ayazi thina kanye nezintandokazi zethu.
Phakathi kwezipho ezizohlala zikhona kahle kukhona izitsha ezinhle zezitsha. Kodwa kukhona "amakhanda" ambalwa lapha. Okokuqala, bangakwazi kakade ukuba baningi kakhulu, futhi baphendule indlu yentombazane esitolo se-china akuyona into engafanele. Okwesibili, udinga ukwazi ukukhetha kahle ukuklama izitsha ukufanisa umbala we-tile, izitsha zekhanda lakho ozithandayo kanye nezikhwama zodaka. Abesifazane banomdla omuhle futhi othanda kakhulu.
Uma owesifazane ethanda ukupheka futhi edume ngobuhle kule ndaba, khona-ke ungamnika i-chic setha yezinongo zangempela zamaNdiya - uyakwazisa! Kusuka "ekhishini izifiso" kungenzeka ukunikeza amancane, kodwa ezidingekayo futhi wayefisa izindlu zasendlini. Isibonelo, i-juicer noma i-blender. Futhi uma ehlezi ekudleni - isipho esihle kakhulu sizoba yisithamela.
Esimweni lapho intombazane - ohlakaniphile nodinga usizo, ungathatha isethi yokudala ngezandla zakho. Ukudayiswa, ukuthunga, ukubopha, ukukhwabanisa. Noma yini ayithandayo lapho. Mane nje ungadabuki, isipho kufanele sibe semfanelo enhle.
U-alite utshwala - lokhu okungekho muntu ongayenqaba. Ukuphuza, kunjalo. Ibhodlela lokuphuza utshwala olubizayo kuyoba umhlobiso omuhle kakhulu ohlangothini lwebhola lentombazane: lizohlala lishaya i-swill elifunayo, lilindele isenzakalo esifanelekayo sokuthi singayithandi. Ngikholelwa, isipho esinjalo nomphefumulo uzofudumala, futhi igazi, futhi isikhathi eside lizokuma, ngoba intombazane ayifuni ukuphuza lesi simangaliso ngokushesha. Yebo, unikezwe ngokuqondile koNyaka Omusha, ungakwazi ukuhlela kahle lesi sipho. Isibonelo, yenza "ikhava" ebhodleleni ngesimo somuthi kaKhisimusi. Ungaphinda unike i hookah, uma intombazane ithanda ukukhukhumeza "okumnandi".
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Ngakho-ke, uNyaka Omusha awufihli kahle ... Wayelokhu efaka izigqoko ezimibalabala ezungeze indlu ngesonto elidlule, ngokugubungula zonke izibani, zihlotshiswe umuthi kaKhisimusi ... Futhi waba nesithukuthezi. Ukulungiswa koNyaka Omusha kumisiwe kuze kufike isikhathi lapho kuzodingeka khona ukulungisa ithebula lokugubha - futhi le nsizakalo yesigwebo esiseduze nayo ifaka isandla sayo esimeni esiphelelwe amandla sabesifazane. Futhi-ke ufika, indoda yakho, ekhulelwe futhi ekhuphuke ngeqhwa, kusukela emsebenzini. Kusukela emngceleni, uyakubamba ngezandla zakhe, naphezu kokuthi yena ngokwakhe akayikuma ezinyaweni zakhe ... futhi emva kwalokho udonsa okuthile ephaketheni lakhe, edlala ngokuboshwe ngebhebhoni. Ba, yebo uhambo oluya ezintabeni zeNyaka Omusha !!! Iviki leholide elijabulisayo kulokho konke ehotela konke okubandakanya. Injabulo emva kwakho konke!
Ngakho-ke, cabanga, madoda, yini ongayinika owesifazane wakho ngoNyaka Omusha? Into esemqoka: qaphela, uzungeza umphefumulo wakho ngokunakekelwa nangothando - lokhu kuyoba isipho esihle kunazo zonke ekuphileni kwakho okude nokujabulisayo!