Abesifazane abaningi okungenani babekhathazekile ngalombuzo: "Umhawu ubonakala kanjani emadodeni?" Kuyabonakala kwabesifazane lapha, angambuza ukuthi ubani futhi kuphi, ukuthi kungani ebuya ngemuva kwesikhathi esivamile, ekhanda ukubona ukuthi umyeni uyabhema njengowesifazane imimoya, njll Kodwa kumadoda, ngokumangalisa, umhawu ubonakala ngendlela efanayo. Angakwazi ukubuza, ukuthi ungubani nokuthi ukhona, futhi uma ebona ukuthi ukhulumisana nomngane wakho, khona-ke uzokubuza ukuthi usemuze isikhathi esingakanani.
Ukubonakaliswa komhawu emadodeni
Uma umthandi wakho ekhetha ukuya enkundleni yemidlalo ngemuva kokuthola ukuthi uya lapho nomngane wakho; uma umuntu wakho ekunika i-lift ngemva kokumtshela ukuthi umngane uzokushayela - lezi yizibonakaliso zokuqala ukuthi unomhawu kuwe.
Umona wesilisa uveza ngendlela ekhethekile
Lokhu kusebenza kulawo madoda abakhetha ukungenzi ngokuqondile, kodwa ukufuna ukuxoshwa, la madoda ahlale ehlonipha. Ngesikhathi sasekuseni, ukhuluma ngokungena ngomngani wakho bese ebuza: "Uze wazi ukuthi uhlala isikhathi esingakanani?" La madoda anamahloni ukukhombisa ukuthi ayenomhawu, kodwa uma ewakhuluma izikhathi eziningana ngosuku, lokhu kuyisibonakaliso somhawu.
Esinye isibonakaliso somhawu ngukuthi indoda yakho isabela kanjani kumngane wakho. Emgwaqweni uhlangana nomngane wakho omdala, ongakaze umbone iminyaka eminingi. Uyangqongqozile, waxana futhi uma uqale ukukhuluma, umthandi wakho ukhona lapho. Uqala ukujwayelana, uzama ukuheha noma ukukhuluma ngaphandle kokuyeka, kuphela ukuze umngane wakho futhi ungakhulumi ndawonye kuphela.
Emphakathini wanamuhla, umshado akufanele uvimbele ukufinyelela kokuxhumana nabantu. Nakuba isizathu somhawu siwukuphinga, indoda ingaba nomhawu ngothandekayo wakhe ngenxa yokuzilibazisa, ikhompyutha, umsebenzi nokunye.
Ukuhawukela kuyisimo esiyinkimbinkimbi, lesi sifiso sokuba nefa nokwesaba ukulahlekelwa othandekayo, kuhambisana nokungabaza ngokuthembeka nangothando, umuzwa wokungathembeki okuthakazelisayo ohambisane nentukuthelo nokuhlazeka. Yonke into enomhawu yokuhlala eceleni kwakho nganoma yikuphi ukulahlekelwa komunye umuntu, umqondo wobunikazi, ukungathembeki komlingani, ukuzethemba, ukuzethemba okuphansi.
Imiphumela yomhawu owedlulele
- Ukuhawukela kuholela ebuhlotsheni bokuxhumana phakathi kwabalingani. Izinyembezi, ama-scandals, ukuthungatha, ukuxabana, ukuhlambalaza nokusola kwenza ukuphila kube nzima.
- Ukusola okuphindaphindiwe nokuhlambalaza ekuhlukunyezweni kungaholela ekushintsheni kwangempela. Ukungathembeki okunjalo kubizwa ngokuthi "ukuphanga".
- Umhawu ufinyelela amandla anjalo kangangokuthi kuba obtrusive. Umhawu wesikhwele ubonakala kulabo abaphikisana nabo noma abenza izenzo ezimbi kumlingani.
- Ukubonakaliswa kwangaphandle komhawu kunethonya elibi empilweni yezingane. Futhi abazali ngomzamo wokuphulukisa ingane baphoqeleka ukuba babekezelelane isikhathi.
- Umhawu onamandla unethonya elibi empilweni yabo. Abantu abanomhawu bahlushwa ukulahla, izinzwa zabo ziholela ekuphazamisekeni kwemizwa noma ukucindezeleka, zinenkinga ngamathumbu, zihlushwa isisu.
- Ngenxa yalokho okuhlangenwe nakho, umsebenzi wezindawo zobuchopho obangela ukugaya umzimba kuphazanyiswa, okuholela ekuzuzeni isisindo. Amasosha omzimba ahlupheka futhi i-eczema ingaqala.
Zama ukulwa nomhawu ngalezo zindlela
Thola isizathu uma umlingani wakho engabaza ubuqotho bakho, futhi lo mhawu usuyenze umkhuba. Yethula umyeni wakho kubangane bakhe bobulili obuhlukile, ubenze abangane nabo, uzoqonda ukuthi akukho lutho olusongela injabulo yakho. Kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuzethemba, ukwethembeka nokuzinza ebuhlotsheni bakho. Unganiki izizathu zomhawu, ungavusi umhawu. Ukuphoqelela ngezinye izikhathi ukuba nomhawu ngomlingani wakho, udinga ukukhumbula ukuthi imizwa yabanye abantu kanye neyakho iyasondeza. Badinga isikhathi sokuqhaqhazela nokuguqula. Dlala ngomhawu, ungadlali. Into esemqoka kuleli bhizinisi akufanele ihambe kakhulu. Ungalokothi ukhohlwe ukuthi indoda idinga ukunikeza imizwa yakhe, ukunakekelwa nokunakekelwa. Ungasho ukuthi usawoti wothando ngumhawu. Futhi uma izinkinga ziqala, kuningi usawoti, bese uthando lungafinyeleleki.