Izakhi zofuzo?
Okokuqala, izakhi zofuzo namuhla zithuthuka kakhulu ngokweqile futhi ngokweqile. Abaningi bethu sebezwile nge-DNA decoding futhi bayazi ukuthi ukuhlaziywa kwe-deoxyribonucleic acid (i-DNA) kunganika izimpendulo mayelana nezinkinga ezingenzeka ekuthuthukiseni ngokomzimba noma kwengqondo.
Okwesibili, ukuhlaziywa kwe-DNA kukuvumela ukuba ubikezele ezinye izici zokubonakala kwengane: ngabe unomunyu obomvu futhi unamathele, njengomama, noma unamehlo amakhulu amakhulu futhi esikhathini esizayo - nezinwele esifubeni sakhe, njengobaba.
Kodwa-ke, abaningi abawazi ngisho ukuthi ukuphola u-5% kuphela we-genome womuntu kuye kwacutshungulwa, futhi okuningi kusekhona. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izakhi zofuzo aziphenduli umbuzo wokuthi ubani ozoba ngumlingisi kuyo. Futhi, ngokumangalisa ngokwanele, ngeke neze! Kungani? Ngoba ukwakheka komlingiswa kuxhomeke emfundweni.
Ku-psychologist!
Ake sizame ukuthola iqiniso kwesinye isayensi, kanye nokuthi kanjani uhlamvu lomntwana lwenziwa kanjani nokuthi nini. Ngokwengqondo. Unolwazi olubanzi mayelana nokwakheka komlingiswa wengane. Ama-genetic aseMelika asesikhathini abe ne-chromosome eyodwa kuphela. Ngokuqondile, kuphela ingxenye yayo encane, eyabangela ukubunjwa kwamazwi kagesi wengqondo. Ngokweqile, le chromosome ingathonya ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo yengane - okwenza ibe yocingo futhi ikhuthele noma icabange kakhulu, ikhetha le ncwadi ukudlala "impi". Ezingqondweni, kunezimpendulo zemibuzo mayelana nokukhuliswa kanye nefa lomlingiswa kusuka kumama, umama ngisho nezihlobo ezikude.
Izingane zifana nabababa. Imvelo "yakhulelwa" ukuze lo muntu abone ngokushesha emntwaneni ngokwakhe kanye nesimo semvelo esakhiwe ngokushesha.
Ukukhulelwa kanye nemvelo
Konke ngokuhlelekile. Okokuqala udinga ukwazi ukuthi iyiphi ingxenye yomlingiswa eyenziwa ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Ososayensi abaningi bazama ukuphendula lo mbuzo, futhi iningi labo alivumelani. Kodwa-ke, ezweni lokusebenza kwengqondo, imisebenzi kaStanislav Grof iyaziwa, isingatha inkinga ye-psychological perinatal (psychology ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa) cishe yonke impilo yakhe. Isibonelo, lo usosayensi wachaza ukuthi ukudluliselwa emntwaneni ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kungathinta ukwakhiwa kwamathuba athile. Omama abaningi balalela ikakhulukazi umculo we-classic noma bafunde inganekwane engakazalwa. Kunzima ukusho ngokuqinisekile ukuthi ingane ingabe ingumculi noma ibe umlutha cishe kusukela ekuzalweni kuya ekufundeni okuhle, kodwa ososayensi baseMelika bakwazi ukufakazela ukuthi izifundo zomculo ezivakashelwe omama ngaphambi kokubeletha zenza umntwana ozayo abe ozolile futhi olinganiselayo.
Thola imizwelo emihle! Iseluleko esiyinhloko sabomama esizayo: ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, zama ukwenza izwe elizungezile libukeke njengenganekwane. Shayela kulo mndeni!
Iphasiwedi ye-Genetic
Mhlawumbe maduze sizoba nesipesheli - ipasipoti yokuzalwa - kanye namaphaseports aseRussia namanye amazwe ajwayelekile. Kuyoba khona ulwazi mayelana nokutholakala kwezinguquko ezakhiweni zofuzo, izifo ezithathelwanayo, izifo ezithinta izifo eziningi. Izifundo ezinjalo sezivele zenziwa eNtshonalanga zombili imibhangqwana enenkinga yokuzalwa kwezinsana, futhi wonke umuntu njengenkonzo ekhokhelwayo.
Kufana nobani?
Masihambe isikhashana umqondo we "uhlamvu", nokuthi kanjani futhi kanjani uhlamvu lomntwana ekwakhiwa. Eminyakeni embalwa yokuqala, ungasho leli gama ngezizathu eziningana.
Ingane yazalwa kuphela, isengumuntu ophilayo kakhulu, hhayi ukuhlala komphakathi. Uma othile ethi ukumomotheka kwengane, kusho ukuthi ingane kuphela iyakwazi ukuguqula izindebe zakhe zibe yishubhu, njengoyise. Kodwa-ke, ukwenza "izindebe ngomnsalo" kuzotholakala emanqeni angaphambanga kunezinyanga ezine zokuphila ezine, kanti ngisho nangokwenyama. Ukumomotheka kokuqala akusho ukubaluleka komphakathi. Kunalokho, lezi zibonakaliso kumama lapho umntwana efuna ukudla.
Umlingiswa uyisici esitholakale esamukelwa yintsana ngemuva kokuqala ukuqonda nokukopisha ukuziphatha kwabantu abaseduze. Ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila, ingane ayikwazi nakancane.
Ezingqondweni, umlingiswa ubonisa isimo sengqondo somuntu ezweni elizungezile, elinenjongo futhi eliqaphelayo. Ubumnandi nomthwalo wemfanelo ufika enyangeni hhayi ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila, wonke umuntu uyazi.
Obomvu, obomvu, obala ...
I-Genetics ibeka izinhlobo zokudluliswa kwezakhi zofuzo ngokusekelwe esimisweni sokubusa. Abazali besikhathi esizayo bangacabanga ukuthi umbala wabo noma izinwele bazoba yini. Njengomthetho, umbala omnyama we-iris wamehlo nezinwele uphezulu, ngakho-ke ungakwazi ukuqagela ukuthi izingane cishe zinama-brunettes uma ubaba engumnyama futhi umama ukhululekile. Kodwa-ke, ukusebenzisa le mithetho, ungalokothi ukhohlwe mayelana nesici sokungahleliwe, ngenxa yokuthi ukuguquka kwazo zonke izidalwa eziphilayo kwenzeka emhlabeni.
Ukudla ngokudla ngokweqile
Ukubheka izintandokazi zokudla okunomsoco wezingane ezifuywayo ngokwezakhi zofuzo (njengokuthi, amawele, isibonelo, amawele), i-gourmetism kanye ne-glutton ngokuvamile zizuzwa njengefa kubazali. Ngenhlanhla noma ngeshwa, imfundo, noma imvelo, noma imvelo kungathonya lokhu. Akukho lutho! Ukubheka kwabesosayensi abavela emazweni ahlukene ngamawele kwabonisa ukuthi ngethuba elikhulu lokuthanda inyama nenhlanzi izitsha ezizuzwe njengefa njalo. Ngenkathi ukuluthwa kwamaswidi nemifino kakade kuyindaba yokukhuliswa kanye nezici zomuntu ngamunye.
Konke kubaba!
Ngakho uyini umlingisi? Kulula kakhulu. Uma ingane yakho iziphatha ngendlela efanele emgwaqweni, inika umkhulu kunomkhulu, ithatha umthwalo wemfanelo ngokuziphendulela futhi uziphathe ngokwakho nalabo asebekhulile, zicabange ukuthi wena ngokwakho, ngezandla zakho, noma kunalokho, nezenzo, uye wakha umcibisholo omuhle kakhulu. Futhi akusikwesabeki ukuthi umfana uzosakaza amasokisi akhe wonke ekamelweni njengobaba. Lokhu akuyona umlingiswa, kodwa inkinga yaphakade yabesifazane bonke nokuntula okungapheli kwabo bonke abantu. Ukwakhiwa komlingiswa wengane kuxhomeke kuphela kubazali (noma ugogo nomkhulu) futhi kwakha ngokuvumelana nephethini yabo. Esikhathini esithile sabantu abadala - nangesikhathi esifanayo nontanga. Wena, njengabazali, unethuba lokuthi "ukhule" isimilo esihle. Futhi, ngisho noma isimo sengqondo somntwana "siqhuma", ungahlala usilungisa. Fundisa umuntu onokukhalipha nohlakaniphile ovela enhlekeleleni yakho. Kuze kube manje, akuzange kuboniswe noma yikuphi uhlamvu oludluliselwa ngesifo sofuzo. Ngakho konke kusezandleni zakho!
Ithiphu
Uma i-crumb yenza iphutha, isijeziso sakho kufanele sithwale inselelo, kodwa bonisa isimo sakho sengane. Ungasho ukuthi: "Ubi!", Kodwa kungcono: "Ngiyakuthanda, kodwa isenzo sakho sithukuthele."
Ingabe uhlukumezi omncane ukhula?
I-vagaries yokuqala yengane, ukuphikelela kwakhe, inkani, ukungabi nandaba nokuhlukunyezwa kuwo wonke amazwi abazali bakhe - konke lokhu, kubonakala sengathi ngonyaka wesithathu wokuphila ukhuluma ngesimo somntwana. AmaMama aqala ukukhathazeka ngokuthi bazokhulela umshiqela omncane, futhi abapapa bathatha isikhwama ngokushesha. Ungenzi lokhu! Lokhu akuwona ukubonakaliswa komlingiswa, kodwa ukwakheka kwayo, futhi kuncike kulokho akubona kule nkathi ezungeze, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ekhaya. Zonke izibonakaliso ezingenhla zikhombisa inkinga yobudala emntwaneni. Kule nkathi yesikhathi kufanele abe nokuziphatha. Uhlola imingcele yokuvumeleka. Kodwa-ke, ukuwadalula (noma ukuvala) kufanele kube ngobuhlakani ngangokunokwenzeka, kodwa ngokuqinile ukukhomba "cha" no "yebo."
Ngekhulu le-19, i-telegonia yayithandwa. Inkolelo yokuthi ukubukeka kwemvuthuluka ayiphenduliwanga yizakhi zofuzo zikababa, kodwa ngumlingani wokuqala womama. Kwenzeke ngemuva kwecala ezweni lamahhashi, lapho i-mare enesibalo se-zebra.