Ukuhlukunyezwa kwamadoda kanye nezimbangela zayo

Ngamaqiniso amnandi kuphela inkosi neNdlovukazi baphila ngokujabula njalo emva kwalokho futhi bafe ngosuku olulodwa. Kodwa siphila kwenye ikhulu leminyaka futhi siyaqonda ukuthi izindaba ezinjalo ziba ngaphansi. Kunezikhathi lapho ukuphila kuphazamiseka khona futhi lesi sinyathelo sinxazululwa ubulili besifazane. Umphumela walokho ukukhashelwa ukubhujiswa kwemishado. Ake sizame ukukhuluma ngendlela yokugwema ukuphela okunzima kangaka.

Uma kukhona ukukhwabanisa kowesifazane, zama ukukhuluma nezintombi zakho futhi ubatshele ngakho konke. Kumele uveze konke okusemqondweni wakho. Omunye wabangane bakhe uzokutshela mayelana nokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe kokuphila, kuyokusiza kakhulu kuwe. Ekugcineni, ingxoxo yakho izoya kumngane wakho futhi lapha, ungathola ukuthi unezimfanelo ezinhle kakhulu nokufaneleka. Uvele usetshenzisiwe kubo ukuthi ukhohlwe ukuthi ungawaqaphela kanjani. Abangani bakho bayokusiza ukuthi ubuyekeze kabusha.

Ngemva kwengxoxo yakho nezintombi zakho, zama ukuhamba uphumule. Thatha okugeza okushisayo bese uzama ukukhumbula konke okuhle noma okudabukisayo okwakungaphakathi kwakho. Futhi ungaqonda ukuthi othandekayo wakho akabi kakhulu.

Ngakho-ke, manje usuvele usuphumile ekudleni komunye umuntu. Manje udinga ukuya ezinyathelweni ezisebenzayo. Hlela indoda yakho ethandekayo, futhi uhambe uhambo lothando. Udinga ukuphumula ekuphileni kwansuku zonke futhi ushintshe okuthile empilweni yakho. Ungaya eholidini olwandle noma uhambe ngezinyawo ngaphansi kwenyanga bese unepikinikini. Zama ukuthuthukisa umcabango wakho bese uvumela ukuphakamisa kwakho, umsindo ukuze angenqabe. Futhi ungamhlela ukuba i-striptease elula phakathi nohambo, ngoba lokhu kuthenga izingubo zangaphansi ezibukeka kahle kakhulu, kufanele umshaye. Ngakho-ke, ungakhohlwa futhi uphazamise ekukhonseni kwakho. Emva kwakho konke, ekuphileni konke okwenzeka njengendoda yokuhlukumezeka, nowesifazane, ungazitsheleli. Awukwazi ukubuyisela noma yini emuva, kodwa ungayilungisa.

Manje, ngemva kwemizamo yakho yokugcina ubuhlobo, kufanele ihlanganiswe. Thola isifundo esivamile nomthandekayo wakho. Into esemqoka ukuthi ukuzijabulisa kwakho kwakuthandekayo kokubili. Kufanele uthole ukuthi yini eyithakazelisayo kuye nokuthi yayikuthakazelisa kuwe. Uzohlala uthola ukuyekethisa. Ngenxa yalezi zinto ezivamile, isifiso sakho sokushintsha sizophela. Isikhathi sizodlula, futhi uzoqonda ukuthi akudingeki ushintshe nhlobo.

Sithemba ukuthi iseluleko sethu ngokungathembeki kwabesifazane, uzomsiza ukuba agweme futhi agcine ubuhlobo bakho.