Ngokuvamile abazali, lapho bekhuluma ngokulungiselela izingane esikoleni, kuqala ukulalela ukuthuthukiswa kwamakhono okufundisa (ukufunda, ukubhala, ukubala). Kodwa lokhu akuyona into ebaluleke kakhulu. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukulungisa ingane yengqondo. Kunezici ezinhlanu zokulungela esikoleni.
Ukulungela ukugqugquzela. Lokhu kubhekisela ezithakazelweni esikoleni, isifiso sokuya esikoleni, isifiso sokufunda izinto ezintsha. Buza ingane imibuzo embalwa: "Ufuna ukuya esikoleni?", "Yikuphi okubaluleke kakhulu kulo?", "Futhi yikuphi okuthakazelisa kakhulu?" nokunye okunjalo.
Uma kuvela ukuthi ingane inomqondo onzima kakhulu ngesikole, ukuthi ayiyithakazelisi ngisho nokukhuluma ngakho, udinga ukucabangela ngokujulile ngokubunjwa kokulungela kwakhe ukugqugquzela. Zama ukwenza kanjalo ukuthi ingane uqobo ifune ukufunda, futhi ayihambanga esikoleni, ngoba yilokho uMama afuna, ngoba zonke izingane zifunda.
Ukulungela okufunayo. Esikoleni ingane izohlangana nesidingo sokwenza lokho okufunayo, kodwa okudingayo. Futhi uma engazijwayele lokhu, kuyoba nzima ngaye ukujwayele ukuqeqesha, ukuqondisa izifiso zakhe ezifunwa uthisha kanye nezithakazelo zekilasi.
Ukulungela ukuhlakanipha, njll. isitifiketi esifanayo solwazi nemibono, ikhono lokwenza umsebenzi wengqondo. Njengoba ubona, lokhu akuyona yedwa, kodwa futhi kuyisici esibalulekile sokulungela kwengane esikoleni.
Uma uneminyaka engama-6-7, ingane ngokuvamile inezwi lomsebenzisi obalulekile (kuze kufike ku-4-5, ngezinye izikhathi kuze kube ngamazwi ayizinkulungwane ezingu-7). Abaningi bayazi izinhlamvu, izinombolo, baqala ukufunda, bazi ukuthi bangabhala kanjani amagama ambalwa. Kodwa akulona ngisho inani lale "mthwalo", kodwa ikhono, isifiso sokufunda, ukufunda izinto ezintsha.
Isikhathi esingapheli "kungani?" - isigaba esijwayelekile ekuphileni komntwana, futhi abantu abadala akufanele baxube le mibuzo, ngisho noma bebacasula i-illogic yabo. Uma ngabe unesineke futhi unakekele ingane yakho ngaphambi kwesikole, ungaphendula yonke imibuzo yakhe, wenza okungaphezulu ukuze umlungiselele ukutadisha okungathí sina ukwedlula uma uzama ukuzama ukuzama ukufunda imilolotelo emisha naye, ezinyangeni zamuva , izinombolo.
4. Amandla okuzwa nokulalela omdala, lawula imisebenzi yawo.
5. Ukuzilungiselela umzimba. Ngeneminyaka engama-6, ukugxila okuyinhloko kokulungiswa ngokomzimba kwezingane esikoleni sekudlulile kakade. Ingane ingenza imisebenzi ehlukahlukene yezemidlalo, ukunyakaza okuyisisekelo kahle. Izimpawu ezisemqoka zezimoto zihlanganisa amandla, amandla, isivinini, ukukhuthazela. Ngokuphathelene nemfundo kanye nempilo, zonke izingane zihlukaniswe ngamaqembu akhethekile esikoleni semfundo engokwenyama: eyisisekelo, ekulungiseleleni futhi ekhethekile.
Eqinisweni, kakade ezinganeni ze-enkulisa zazibandakanya imfundo engokwenyama ngokucabangela impilo namakhono amakhono namakhono athile, imithwalo yempahla yayihlukile. Kodwa ukulungelelwa komzimba kwengane esikoleni akusho nje impumelelo yakhe emfundweni engokwenyama. Ngesikhathi sokungena esikoleni, ingane kufanele ibe nemingcele ethile yesisindo, ukuphakama, ukujikeleza kwesifuba, inombolo ethile yamazinyo obisi, amanye awo asevele eqala ukushintsha kuze kube phakade. Kumelwe abe namandla athile ezandleni zakhe ukugcina ipeni noma ipensela esandleni sakhe futhi angakhathali ngesikhathi ebhala. Ngalesi sikhathi uthuthukisa imisebenzi yezinhlaka ezihlukahlukene kanye nezinhlelo, kunyuke ekutheni ubukhulu bemisipha emikhulu, umthamo wokunyakaza okusebenzayo kumajoyini amakhulu ukwanda.
Futhi uma yonke imingcele echazwe ngesikhathi sokuhlolwa kwengane ifinyelela kwimininingwane yamatafula esenza ngayo ukuhlolwa kokuthuthukiswa ngokomzimba, singathola isiphetho esibaluleke kakhulu ingane - "isilungele esikoleni". Ngakho-ke, ngilungele ngokomzimba, ngilungele ngokwengqondo, ngikulungele ukugqugquzela futhi ngizikhethele, ngenhlalo nangokwengqondo. Uma konke kunjalo, ingane isilungile ngokuphelele.
Ingabe ingane yakho izothatha isikole uma ingakabi neminyaka eyisithupha?
Umthetho wezemfundo uthi ezweni lethu abantwana baqala ukufunda kusukela eminyakeni eyisithupha. Kodwa uma uqinisekile ukuthi ingane isilungele ngokomzimba, ngokwengqondo, ngokugqugquzela, ngeke ukwazi ukwenqaba ukwamukela imibhalo. Idatha yengane emva kokuvivinywa izodluliselwa ku-RONO, futhi kusukela lapho kuya eKomidini Yezemfundo. Isinqumo sokugcina sizokwenziwa nguMnyango Wezemfundo.
Yini okudingeka ukwazi futhi ukwazi ingane engena ebangeni lokuqala?
• idatha yabo yepasipoti (igama lokugcina, igama lokuqala, i-patronymic, usuku lokuzalwa, ikheli lasekhaya);
• unquma ngehora isikhathi esingaphakathi kwehora;
• Yazi izinombolo ezivela ku-0 kuya kwezingu-9, ubala kuze kube ngu-20 kusiqondiso esingaphambili nangasemuva (uma ubhalisa kwezinye izakhiwo zokuzivocavoca zilawula i-akhawunti ngokuhleleka okulandelanayo nge "eyodwa");
• wazi igama lamapheya wonyaka, izinsuku zesonto;
• Yazi ukuthi yiliphi iphuzu, umugqa, i-angi elibukhali kanye nebala.
Konke lokhu kwaziwa izingane, eziqeqeshwe engadini ngaphansi kohlelo olukhethekile olunikezelwe ekunqumeni ukulungela kwengane esikoleni. Futhi ukufunda ukufunda, ukubhala, nokubhala amaphuzu kuwumsebenzi wesikole samabanga aphansi.