Uthethelela masinyane kakhulu. Umndeni nabangane akudingeki benze imizamo yokuhlenga icala - udinga ukuxolisa, uphonswe ngokudlula. Ngoba ukushesha kwakho nobumnene kwakho kuwukuzethemba okuphansi: ucabanga ukuthi awufanelanga ukuthinta okubanzi nezenzo.
Uqinisekisa abanye izimfanelo zakho ezinhle. Uma uhlale ubhala umyeni wakho, ingane noma intombi yakho imfanelo yakho - yimisa: akekho oye wakwazi ukwandisa ukubaluleka kwabo ngokukhuluma. Izikhumbuzo eziqhubekayo zalokho okwenzile zicasula abanye futhi zibenza zizizwe zibophekile ngokungadingekile. Yenza lokho ocabanga ukuthi kuyadingeka ngaphandle kokulindela ukwamukelwa - futhi kuyofika kuwe kunoma yikuphi.
Wena ucabanga abantu endleleni yakho yokuphila. "Othandayo ngeke akwazi ukulimaza," "umthandi kufanele aqonde futhi azizwe ngezwi elilodwa" - ukucabanga okuyingozi okuphazamiseka. Akudingekile ukwakha izibopho ezingokomoya: kufanele ukwazi ukwenza imingcele yakho futhi ubeke labo abakulimazayo - ngokungazi noma ngenhloso.
Awunandaba kakhulu. Ngisho noma ukhubekile - uzama ukuqonda futhi uvumele umhlukumezi. Ulalela ikhodi ehloniphekile yokuhlonipha, uzama ukulimaza abanye nganoma iyiphi indlela - futhi ulindele ngokubuyisela. Ufihla ubuhlungu bakho kanye nokufutheka ngaphansi kwesifiso sokuthethelela nokuthethelela: akuyona indlela engcono yokuzuza isihawu. Iqiniso linonya: uma othile ekuthuka, uyathanda ukukwenza.
Udinga njalo ukuvunyelwa kwabanye. Uvame ukungabaza, ungakwazi ukwenza isinqumo. Uqala ukubheka abanye, ngokuzithandela noma ngokungazibuza ukuthi wenza konke okulungile. Uvele unqotshwe umbono ohloniphekile, ngaphandle kokungabaza - namanje, ngoba uvezwa ngokuqinile futhi ngokuqinile. Kufanele ukhumbule: noma yikuphi isikhundla akuyona iqiniso eliphelele. Qala ukuzethemba - okungenani ezintweni ezincane.