Kukhona uhlobo olukhethekile lothando - uthando kude. Ingabe ikhona? Futhi, uthando luphela kanjani kude?
Vumelana ukuthi iningi lenu likholwa ukuthi uthando olukude alukho ikusasa. Abaningi abakholelwa ukuthi abantu bayakwazi ukuthanda nokugcina lo mzwa, noma ngabe bahlukaniswe ngamakhulu amakhilomitha.
Uma uphendukela ekusebenzeni, ungashesha ukuphikisa ukuthi uthando lukhona kude. Kodwa lihlala isikhathi esingakanani futhi liphela kanjani?
Isibonelo, esikhathini sethu kunombalo omkhulu wemibhangqwana ethandana, kodwa ngenxa yezizathu zomsebenzi, indoda noma umfazi uhlale engekho. Imindeni yamaloli, olosolwandle kanye nabantu abaphoqelelwe ukuba bahambe ngezinkampani zebhizinisi. Abashadile abalahlekelwa uthando, ngenxa yemihlangano engavamile. Lapho behlukaniswa, bangashayela, babhale i-imeyili kanye nama-sms. Umhlangano ngamunye olandelayo. Kunjenge-honeymoon.
Uma sicabanga ngalesi simo, kungathiwa ukuthi uthando lukhona kude! Kodwa, ngeshwa, kunzima ukuyibiza ngokuthi umndeni onjalo, ngokugcwele, njengokuphatha impilo nokukhulisa izingane kuwela kumlingani oyedwa kuphela. Uma bobabili bomshado bangathola ukuphuma esimeni samanje ukuze kungabikho izisulu, imishado enjalo ingabhekwa njengesikhathi eside futhi iqine.
Esinye isibonelo sothando kude. Ukuthandana kwamaholidi. Kukhona indoda nowesifazane. Phakathi kwabo kukhona uthando nokukhangwa. Ngesikhathi bephumula, bayajabula. Kodwa, kwenzekani lapho uhambo luphela futhi othile kufanele ahambe ezweni lakhe?
Njengomthetho, ubuhlobo obunjalo buvame kakhulu ukuba nekusasa. Ukuhlukanisa, abathandi babo bonke babuya kusukela inganekwane kuya ekuphileni kwakhe evamile, lapho ejwayele futhi evumelana nayo.
Yiqiniso, kunoma yisiphi isimo kukhona okuhlukile. Abaningi benu bangatshela izindaba lapho uthando lwezokwehla luqhubekela ebuhlotsheni obugcwele futhi kwaholela ekwakheni umndeni. Futhi ibanga kwakungeyona isithiyo kumzwelo omuhle kakhulu - Uthando!
Ikhulu lama-20 leminyaka laletha izinto eziningi ezintsha ekuphileni kwethu kanye nobuhlobo phakathi kwabantu. Isibonelo, imibhangqwana eminingi ngabanye ikhetha ubudlelwane kude. Bahlala kude nomunye, bakhulume nge-Inthanethi, ucingo. Ngezinye izikhathi bahlangana futhi bachithe isikhathi, bezinikela ekuthandeni imizwa komunye nomunye.
Kungani imibhangqwana ikhetha uthando kude? Bakholelwa ukuthi ukuhlala ndawonye nokuhola impilo evamile kuyobulala imizwa yabo nomunye nomunye. Banesifiso sokulondoloza uthando kanye nogqozi ebuhlotsheni babo.
Kwabaningi, lolu hlobo lobuhlobo lungabonakala, lubeke ngokuthobeka, lungavamile. Kodwa, konke okufanayo. Amaphuzu abonisa ukuthi ubudlelwano nothando ekude, kubambiswano ezinjalo zikhona isikhathi eside kakhulu.
Esinye isibonelo, uthando kude. Yebo, awuzange uzwe! Namuhla, ngenxa yokungqubuzana emsebenzini nasemakhaya, abaningi abatholi isikhathi sokungena emidlalo yaseshashalazini noma yaseshashalazini. Bakhetha enye indlela yokuxhumana - i-Intanethi. Akuyona eyingqayizivele, kumanethiwekhi amanethiwekhi, ukuthola umuntu osondelene naye, ovuswa ngothando.
Ungabiza kanjani ubuhlobo obunjalo? Uthando lukude. Zingahlala isikhathi eside kakhulu, kodwa ngaphandle komhlangano womuntu siqu, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi zizophela.
Lesi sihloko sizinikezelwe esihlokweni esithi: "Uthando luphela kanjani ekude futhi lunelungelo lokukhona?".
Kuzo zonke ezingenhla, kungathiwa ukuthi uthando lusekude. Kodwa lokho kuzophela ngesikhashana nje.