Izinhloso zokuzijwayeza kubasebenzisi zihlukile: inkhulumomphendvulwano, ukudala umndeni, ukuthandana ngothando, ubulili, izimo zengqondo ezimbi. Ukuze uthole ukuthandana, umuntu ugcwalisa uhlu lwemibuzo, lapho ekhuluma khona ngaye ngokuningiliziwe, ngoba lezi zici ziyokhethwa yibo abafuna ukumhlangabeza. Noma kunini, idatha yokubhalisa ingashintshwa. Ngemuva kokubhalisa, ingathumela kwabanye abasebenzisi be-intanethi futhi bathole imilayezo evela kubo.
Abaphathi nabanikazi bezindawo zokuphola, qiniseka ukuthi i-oda liyabonakala. Uma i-questionnaire ephelele iphula imithetho esayithini, khona-ke ingasuswa kusuka ku-database. Izingosi eziningi zokuphola zinikeza izinsizakalo ezikhokhelwayo nezinsizakalo ezengeziwe Bakhokhwa ngokusebenzisa izinhlelo ezahlukene zokukhokha kwinethiwekhi noma ngokuthumela i-SMS. Ezweni lethu izigidi zabasebenzisi zibhaliswe kumasayithi wokuphola. Kunezinsizakalo ezinikeziwe ezifana: ukuxhumana kwevidiyo, amabhulogu, amaforamu wewebhu.
Namuhla kunenombolo enkulu yamasayithi okuphola nabantu abasebenzisa izinsizakalo, bahlangane, bajwayele futhi bashade. Ezweni lakithi amantombazane amaningi aphuza ukushada nomfokazi futhi ahlala phesheya. Leli thuba linikezwa i-intanethi, kulula kakhulu ukuthola iphrofayela yomuntu kusuka kunoma yiliphi izwe futhi ngemuva kokubhalisa umuntu angakhetha umhlangano. Ngakho-ke, izingosi zokuthandana zithandwa kakhulu kangangokuthi ungazijwayeza, ngomzamo omncane.
Ngubani owaziyo ku-intanethi?
Kunombono wokuthi, njengombuso, abantu abalahlekile nabavilapha bayazijwayeza kwi-intanethi. Kodwa lokhu akunjalo, ngoba abantu abahlukene bajwayele futhi bakhetha ngezinqubo ezithile: idolobha lokuhlala, ubudala, izinto zokuzilibazisa, ibhizinisi, idatha yangaphandle njalonjalo. Yiqiniso, ungabhala ngawe noma yini, abasebenzi abazitholi ulwazi lomuntu siqu, ngezinye izikhathi iqiniso liyamangalisa.
Ngokuvamile, abantu abasha basebenzisa ukwaziswa okungokoqobo, futhi lokhu kuyaqondakala, ngoba benza ingxenye enkulu phakathi kwabasebenzisi. Iminyaka ethandwa kakhulu emibhalweni yimibuzo engu-18. Ngokuvamile, abancane abavunyelwe ukungena kumasayithi wokuphola, kodwa ungacacisa iminyaka ehlukile. Ezingosini ezinjalo, ngisho nabahlala emakhaya bavame ukutholakala.
Isilinganiso seminyaka yobudala besifazane sineminyaka engama-33, kanti isilinganiso sobudala besilisa sineminyaka engama-36, ngokuvamile ama-questionnaires abesilisa abakhulu, kodwa abasebenza kakhulu ngabesifazane. Emasayithi okuthandana ngokusho kwezibalo ngaphandle kwempendulo, 78.2% yemilayezo ihlala, kaningi abesifazane abaphenduli. Ngenxa yokuthi amadoda afuna ucansi, futhi abesifazane bafuna isigamu sesibili, futhi izinhlinzeko ezingalungile zamadoda zihamba zingaphenduliwe. Kodwa, njengokungathi empilweni, bacabanga ukuthi le ndoda kufanele ijwayele kuqala.
Ezinye izivakashi zitholwa ekukhulumisaneni okungokoqobo, okubandakanya ubulili obubonakalayo. Abantu abanjalo abacacisi igama langempela, baxoxa, kuyamnandi ukuxhumana nabo, kodwa ngeke bakwazi ukukhishwa emhlanganweni wangempela.
Emasiteshini kukhona labo abafuna nje ukuzijabulisa. Benza umuntu oneminyaka ehlukile, ubulili bezenhlalo, noma omunye ubulili. Akulula ukubala, kuphela emhlanganweni ongabonisa iqiniso. Ungahlola umsebenzisi ngokumcela ukuthi abonise izithombe ezimbalwa ezindaweni ezihlukahlukene. Uma engekho ngokuphelele, lokhu kufanele kukuxwayise. Akekho owesifazane ozihloniphayo ongafuni ukwazi ukuthi ubani ozohlangana naye.
Ukuphepha ukuphola kwe-Inthanethi.
Oxhumana nabo abakhulu ngakwesinye isandla baphephile. Lapha, ungathola kumuntu ngaphambi komhlangano ukuthi yimiphi imigomo ayilandelayo kusuka kumuntu owaziyo, lokho akwenzayo, futhi uma imigomo ihlukile, akakwazi futhi akwenzi. Emasimini ngokuvamile akabonisi imininingwane yabo yokuxhumana, futhi uma ungenaso isifiso sokuhlangana, empilweni yangempela, ngeke akuthole.
Kodwa, noma kunjalo, kuvele inkolelo yokuphepha. Amadokhumenti ekubhaliseni akudingeki ukuba avezwe, okusho ukuthi noma yikuphi abantu abangabafihla. Kubandakanya abantu abangenalimi engqondweni, badinga ukwesatshwa. Futhi kukhona ukukhwabanisa kwemali. Ungaba yisisulu se-fraudster noma i-maniac.
Ukuze uzivikele, landela imithetho elula. Ngenkathi ungaqiniseki ngomuntu, unganiki igama lakho, ikheli le-imeyli, inombolo yocingo.
Engxoxweni nomuntu, bheka ukuthi amaqiniso endabeni ayishintshi, khona-ke ungakwazi ukubala inkohliso. Uma unquma ngosuku, khuluma efonini, ulalele izwi lakhe, njengoba ekhuluma, cela isithombe. Hlangana endaweni ephephile kuphela, woza uhambe ngokwakho kusukela ngosuku lokuqala.
Ngakho-ke, sithole ukuthi ubani o-intanethi nokuthi uluhlobo luni lokuvikeleka kwe-intanethi
Uma uqhubeka ukholelwa ukuthi endaweni ethile isigamu sesibili silinde wena, zama ukulithola. Ukuxhumana okungokoqobo kanye nemihlangano yangempela kulindelekile.