Ukuphawula kwengqondo
Iqiniso lisho ukuthi lo mbono uyinto ebonakalayo. Umama ka-Elena oselezingeni elingenakuqhathaniswa eminyakeni eyishumi edlule kubonakala sengathi uye wadonsela indodakazi yakhe isimo lapho "engeke abe khona." Okokuqala, njalo kudingeka uqaphele imicabango yakho nezifiso zakho, banekhono elingavamile lokugcwaliseka. Ngokwemvelo, unina wayengafuni ukuba indodakazi yakhe ibe yedwa noma ingashadile, kodwa kubonakala sengathi wayecabanga engqondweni yakhe ukuthi umngane omuhle ekuphileni empilweni yakhe akakho nje. Okwesibili, abesifazane abaphumelelayo nabanhle ngokwabo badala isithombe sokungatholakali. Zihle, ziphumelele, zinenjongo, zivame ukuhola, ngakho-ke amadoda angabesifazane abanjalo abesaba noma abadlulile, ngenxa yokwesaba "owesifazane" wensimbi. Umholi wesilisa ngeke avumele ukuba abayale, owesilisa othembekile akanalo isibindi esanele sokufinyelela "enhlobonhlobo yeqhwa". Okwesithathu, owesifazane ohlakaniphile, omuhle, ophumelelayo uvame ukuba ngumsebenzi wokuphila. Okokuqala ufunda, bese efuna umsebenzi othembisayo, uhamba ngesiteleka somsebenzi, bese kuthiwa "ukhohliwe" ukuba ashade futhi abe nezingane.
Sibeka phambili
Ekuphileni, akukho indlela ukuthi konke kwaba khona ngesikhathi esisodwa. Kubalulekile ukukhetha. Uma unothando nemindeni yomndeni kuqala, uma uthanda izingane futhi ufuna ukuzalela okungenani uneminyaka engamashumi amathathu, wabeka umsebenzi wakho kumshini wokushisa emuva. Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele ube ngumama wendlu nomgcini womndeni womndeni. Kuyiqiniso futhi kunelungelo lokuthola konke okuvela empilweni, ukuzibona hhayi nje njengomama womndeni, kodwa futhi njengomuntu othanda umsebenzi wakhe. Kuyinto nje lapho kufanele ukhethe ekuphileni, udinga ukwenza okulungile, ukuze ungazisoli kamuva.
Yebo, uma kungekhona nje - othandekayo nothando
Kodwa lokho kuphezu kwalokhu futhi ungapholwanga. Ngokushesha ekhanda lami ngalolu daba uqala ukugxilisa le nkulumo: "Kukhona injabulo - ayikwazi ukuba".
Umuntu othandekayo nothando, uhlala endaweni ethile, futhi ngokuqinisekile uzohlangana. Into eyinhloko ukuthi awudluli nje. Mhlawumbe uzothukuthela uma ngithi lo mhlangano ungenzeka uma ungeneminyaka engamashumi amabili ubudala, kodwa amashumi amathathu ngomsila omncane ... Konke kunesikhathi saso.
Lokhu kulesi sihloko nje ngifuna ukwabelana ngesimo empilweni yomngane wami omdala omdala. Lapho uVictoria eseneminyaka engamashumi amabili ubudala, wayenothando oluhle futhi olubonakala luhlala njalo. Igama lakhe kwakungu-Oleg. U-Vika no-Oleg bahlala ndawonye emshadweni womshado cishe iminyaka emihlanu, bese "uthando," okungukuthi, u-Oleg, washiya. Ngokushesha washada nomunye, futhi kuVicky, kubonakala sengathi umhlaba wonke wawa. I-mood ishintsha, ukucindezeleka, isimo sengqondo sokungathembeki - izimpawu zowesifazane onesizungu futhi olahliwe, uhambisane noV Vic eziningana iminyaka emide elandelanayo. Lapho eseneminyaka engamashumi amathathu, wayesenesizungu. Kodwa ukuphila kwethu i-zebra emidlalweni emnyama nemhlophe. Futhi noma ngabe lezi zimvimbo ezizingelayo zingezange zifane, ngokufanayo, ngokushesha noma ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kuzovela ukukhanyiswa ngesimo somdwebo omhlophe. Ngakho kwenzeka noVictoria. Manje uneminyaka engu-32 ubudala. Ngonyaka odlule, wathola konke ayekulindele eminyakeni engaphezu kwengu-10: umsebenzi wokuba ngumholi kanye nomthande omdala omlindelwe. Ezinyangeni eziyisithupha edlule wamthatha. Manje balinde ukubuyiselwa emndenini wabo. Manje uVictoria akayena ohlakaniphile kuphela futhi omuhle, kodwa futhi uphumelele futhi ujabule ...
Amadoda athande ama-stupid and blondes?
Yebo, amadoda anjengeziwula kanye nama-blondes, futhi abathanda kakhulu ubusuku obulodwa, abese abathandwa ngabanye amadoda ... owesifazane kufanele abe ohlakaniphile futhi ohlakaniphile ngesikhathi esifanayo. Futhi abantu bathanda ukuba abanqobile, noma okungenani bacabange ukuthi baphumelela okuthile noma banqoba omunye umuntu. Ungagijimi ocingweni lokuqala lomuntu oyithandayo, kodwa ungabonisi ukushisa kwakho nokuzethemba. Owesifazane owazi ukuthi ufunani, nakanjani uzofeza lokhu.
Azikho izikhulu! Sibhubhisa izinkolelo!
Inkinga yabesifazane abalungile nabahlakaniphile ukuthi ukuthi ngobuhle babo benza isithombe sokungenafinyeleleka, futhi izingqondo zabo azimniki umuntu ilungelo lokwenza iphutha. Lokhu akukwenzeki. Amadoda abantu abavamile, hhayi okuhle. Futhi wena, uma ungafuni ukuba wedwa, kufanele uchithe lokho okuhle okudalwe ekhanda lakho. Uma uthanda, awuboni noma yikuphi ukungaphumeleli, kaningi ukuphenduka zibe yizintandokazi. Ukuba mnandi, uhlakaniphile futhi unesizungu ngasikhathi sinye nje kungenangqondo. Futhi uma ungeke ukwazi ukuguqula ngokwakho, shintsha isimo sakho sengqondo empilweni, futhi ikakhulukazi amadoda. Ungabeki ukuxilongwa ngokushesha: akusilo uhlobo lwami. Zama ukuxhumana nomuntu, ake akuyise ekhaya, futhi uma "u-spark" ebamba umlilo, vumela ubuhlobo buqhubeke.
Dweba iziphetho
Intombazane enhle, ehlakaniphile, enesizungu yocwaningo oluvela ohlangothini yayizobonakala njengomlobokazi onamandla kakhulu. Futhi kuyoba njalo, uma ukholelwa kuwe, zithanda wena uphinde ucabange ngemigomo yakho yokuphila kanye nezinto eziza kuqala. Unakho konke okumele uthande futhi uthande, udinga nje ukukholelwa ukuthi izifiso zakho ziyiqiniso. Futhi khumbula njalo ukuthi "izinto ezinhle kakhulu zenzeka ngokungalindelekile ..."