Eminyakeni embalwa eyedlule, lapho omunye wabantu bokuqala bezenhlalo ebonakala khona, lokhu kwathokozisa ngempela. Wonke umuntu wayefuna ukwakha i-akhawunti yakhe futhi akhulise inani labangane. Njengoba ungase ulindele, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kuphakama inkinga yokuxhomeka kwezingane ezisenkundleni yokuxhumana.
Inhloso yokuqala yokuxhumana nabantu kwakuwukuhlanganisa abantu. Sibonga kubo, kwaba lula ukugcina ukuxhumana kusuka kude. Abaningi bathola izihlobo zabo, izingane ezifunda nabo, abangane bezingane. Ikhono lokuhambisana nenethiwekhi ligcina imali kakhulu kwi-akhawunti yeselula, ikakhulukazi uma iphakethe lezinsizakalo ze-intanethi lingenamkhawulo, ngoba awudingi ukubiza elinye izwe. Kungcono ukuxazulula izinkinga ngokushesha, ngaphezu kwalokho, ungahambisana nabantu abaningana ngesikhathi esisodwa.
Isici esihle sokuxhumana nomphakathi kwakungenzeka ukudala amaqembu ezithakazelo. Wonke umuntu uzokwazi ukuthola into ayithandayo, kusukela emaqenjini asemthethweni abadlali abathandayo, ephela ngengxoxo yamavolontiya ashisayo noma ama-novelties asemfashini. Amaqembu anjalo afaneleka kwentsha yabafundi, ngoba kubangelwa njalo ukuthi bafunde izindaba zeyunivesithi, isimiso noma izabelo ezifundweni.
Futhi ngakolunye uhlangothi ngezindlela eziningi kwakuyilo msebenzi owabangela ukuthembela kubantu abasha. Ngesinye isikhathi kwakukhona ngisho "ukuqhuma" kwangempela kokujoyina amaqembu. Ezimweni eziningi, zonke izimemo zenziwa ukukhangisa, okungcono, kwanoma yiziphi izimpahla, nakwezithombe ezingcolile kakhulu. Ngokubanzi, kwanele ukubeka izihlungi kuzimemo futhi inkinga izoxazululwa ngokwayo, kodwa izosiza labo abaphikisana nokuthumela okufanayo. Izingane ezisakhulayo, ezenzelwa izizathu ezihlukahlukene azidingeki ukunakekelwa kwabazali, zishiywe zodwa futhi zangaphambili ziwela ekuxhomekeni ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi. Akudingeki ukuthi, ukukhulumisana okunjalo ngamaqembu akuholeli kunoma yini enhle.
Ngisho nabaphikisi abanomdlandla wokuxhumana nomphakathi ngezinye izikhathi bawela ekuthembekeni kwabo. Futhi isizathu sokufinyelela kumafayela e-multimedia. Ngenxa yokuthi "i-sotsialkam" akudingeki uchithe isikhathi esibheke i-movie entsha noma ingoma ezwile emsakazweni, ngoba konke lokhu sekusekhasini lomuntu. Futhi ngenkathi imithwalo yesithombe, uqala ukubuka izithombe, izithombe, bese ukhohlwa ngokuphelele ukuthi kungani uhambe ngempela. Ngakho kancane kancane uqala "ukulenga" ku-intanethi ngaphandle kwesidingo.
Amanethiwekhi omphakathi, njenge-Facebook, i-VKontakte, i-Twitter, ikuvumela ukuthi uqaphele iningi lezenzakalo ezenzeka empilweni "yabangane" bakho, abadumile. Ukulinda kusuka kuma-albhamu ngosuku lokuzalwa oludlule, uhambo oluphumelelayo, ama-photoshoots, izimo eziqhakazile - konke lokhu kungamanga, ngaphandle kokuthi bezithunyelwe ngumngane wakho wangempela. Kodwa ilukuluku luqala kuqala - futhi uhlala isikhathi sekwephuzile, uzama ukungaphuthelwa izindaba futhi kancane kancane ube umlutha. Kunalokho kuphelile? Ukwenqatshwa ezweni elingaphandle, ukubonwa kwabantu kuphela ngamaphrofayli ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi futhi nje kuchitha isikhathi, okungasetshenziswa kanye nabangane bangempela, ukuze bafunde ukuthi izindaba zabo aziphi ngesimo, kodwa ngokuxhumana.
Ukuxhomeka kokuzimela kuyabangela nezinhlelo zokusebenza ze-flash. Ngokuvamile, abantu bayabhekana nanoma iyiphi imidlalo ye-computer ithatha indawo yonke into. Inkinga kulokhu kubuye kube nokukhipha imali. Ukuthengwa kwezimali zebhonasi, ukuguqula ezingeni elisha. Ngenjabulo, umuntu akayikulawula izenzo zakhe futhi uyakwazi ukutshala imali eningi ngamabhonasi anjalo. Ukuze sikwazi ukwenza kahle, siyaqaphela ukuthi kaningi abazali nabadoti abenzile, njengomthetho, ngaphandle kolwazi lwabo.
Lokhu kungabandakanya isifiso sokwenza umonakalo ukwandisa ukulinganisa kwinethiwekhi ukunikeza izipho ezingokoqobo, okuvame ukukhula ngemilayezo ye-SMS ekhokhelwayo. Futhi uma uqonda, ukulinganisa kukuvumela ukuba ube ngaphezulu ohlwini lwabangani, futhi akusasekho. Ngempela ngenxa yalokhu kuyadingeka ukuba isetshenziswe? !! !!
Kodwa zonke ezinye izinhlelo zokusebenza zingasiza kakhulu. Ngabo ungakwazi ukulalela umsakazo, ukuhumusha imibhalo, hlola isivinini sokudlulisa idatha. Vele ubeke uphawu lokuhlola kumasethingi, wenqaba zonke izimemo futhi ngeke uzame ukufaka "i-flash drive" engadingekile.
Abantu abaningi abasha baba izibopho ezithombeni ezibonakalayo. Ukuzithemba ngokuvamile kuvame kulabo abadale isithombe sabo esihle ngokusebenzisa i-akhawunti. Ngakho-ke, abantu bazama ukuzifakazela, ikakhulukazi uma empeleni konke akunjengelifu njengamakhasi ephrofayela yabo. Njengomthetho, abafuni ukuhlangabezana nokuphila, ngoba besaba ukuvela phambi kwabantu njengoba beyiqiniso. Lolu hlobo lokuthembela lugcwele ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo, ukuvalwa futhi hhayi isifiso sokuxhumana ngaphandle kwenethiwekhi. Ezimweni ezinjalo, usizo lwe-psychologist luyadingeka.
Ngisho noma ungenayo inkinga enjalo, cabanga ngokuthi ungathumela kanjani ulwazi lomuntu siqu ekhasini lakho. Esikhathini sethu, amanethiwekhi omphakathi asetshenziselwa ukuxhumana kuphela, kodwa futhi nokuqoqa ulwazi oluhlukahlukene ngomuntu. Uma ufuna ukucacisa inombolo yocingo noma ikheli lebhokisi lemeyili, vala ikhasi kubasebenzisi bangaphandle.
Ukuxhomeka kwabantu abasha ekuxhumaneni okuthandwayo kwezenhlalo kuyinto isishayo somphakathi wanamuhla. Futhi kufanele wenze imizamo eminingi yokunqoba le nkinga. Uma impilo yakho ngezinye izikhathi ifana ne-anecdote evelele: "Ngaya ku-intanethi imizuzu emihlanu - ihora nengxenye idlulile," sekuyisikhathi sokuthatha isinyathelo futhi sinciphise ukushisa okungenangqondo kwesikhathi kukhompyutha. Ungaphenduli ukuxhumana, ukubamba okungcono kumanethiwekhi omphakathi okuwusizo futhi ukwazi ukucindezela inkinobho "yokuphuma" ngesikhathi.