Ukuziphatha kwamakati asekhaya

Uma ubuza "abanikazi bekati" abahlukile, abathanda amakati abo (amakati), njalo lapho sizwa izimpendulo ezahlukene. Kungani? Ngoba wonke umuntu ungumuntu oyingqayizivele, futhi yonke ikati iyinto eyingqayizivele, ngayinye enezinto ezithandayo, izintandokazi, ukufaneleka okungenasisekelo futhi, nakanjani, ukwehluleka.

Lokhu kungenxa yokungaphumeleli kwezilwane ezifuywayo ezinezinyawo ezine, abanikazi bamakati bazophendula ngokulinganayo. "Okungalungile" (ngokwezimfanelo zabanikazi babo) ukuziphatha kwamakati asekhaya kuyafana kakhulu. Kungukuthi "ukungaphumeleli" kwayo, ngaphezu kwezimfanelo, ukuthi amakati, afana, mhlawumbe, abantu, afana kakhulu.

"Izimfanelo" ezingenamthetho zamakati (umkhuba ongenakuqhathaniswa wokugqoka izinsiza ezibizayo noma upholstery wesitulo sakho ozithandayo, ukudla izindlu zokugqoka, ukuhlanza indlebe yakho, uma umatasa ngento ebalulekile, njll.) Akuchazwa ngokuthi "ukulimala" kwamakati, kodwa ngokukhuthaza izisusa zokuziphatha kwazo, ezibikezelwa yimvelo yazo yemvelo.

Abaningi bayakubekezelela "imikhuba emibi" yamakati. Kodwa ukuthi ikati ayikucasuli, ungaqondisa ukuziphatha kwayo "kwemvelo" ngendlela efanele. Ngaphezu kwalokho, amakati angaqeqeshelwa kuphela esekisini yeKukchechev. Kubalulekile kuphela ukuqonda izimbangela zokuziphatha "okungalungile" kwekati, nokuphazamiseka ukuze kube izihlonipho, okuzoletha abanikazi ngisho nokuthokoza ngokwengeziwe komphakathi womngane wabo we-caudate.

Isibonelo, umuntu angakusho isidingo samakati ukuze ahlaziye amahlumela. Lesi simvelo sisebenzela ikati njengendlela yokugcina ifomu lomzimba, indlela yokumaka insimu yayo, futhi ekugcineni, njengendlela "yokugcoba" kwenkathi. Yini engenziwa ngalokhu? Thenga noma wenze umshini wokukhipha (isibonelo, ibhola eliphansi elihlanganiswe ngentambo). Kuwufanele umzamo omncane, ukubekezela, isikhuthazo ngakwesokunene sakho, futhi ikati lizohlale lihlaziya izigqoko eziphathelene nale "shell" futhi liyeke ukukhipha ifenisha nephephadonga.

Ukuziphatha kwekati elifuywayo kunqunywa yizimo zaso. Lezi - isimo sokuzingela, ukuzivikela, ukuvikelwa kwensimu, ukwandiswa kwegciwane layo; isidingo sokudla. Okokugcina, kunesidingo sokudlala nokukhulumisana - kubonakala kakhulu ukubonakaliswa kwe-"intelligence" ye-feline, into ekhomba ukuhluka komuntu ngamunye kulezi zidalwa ezimele okumelwe zilandelwe.

Kudingekile kuphela ukuqonda ukuthi yiziphi izidingo zemvelo zenkathi ezenza ukuthi kube nomunye noma esinye isici sokuziphatha kwakhe, futhi ungakwazi ukuqondisa ikati ngendlela efanele.

Amakati asekhaya, nakuba amancane kunabalingani bawo basendle, yizilwane zangempela. Akusizi ngalutho ukujezisa ikati ngalokho okukuzingayo. Ukuze ungalandeli ikati lokuthakazelisa ukuzingela, hamba imizamo yekati ukuya emdlalweni. Uma kukhona ezinye izilwane endlini, cabanga ngezinyathelo zokuqinisekisa ukuphepha kwazo.

Ukudla kuvuselela amakati ngezinga elihlukahlukene. Njengoba kukhona ukudla okwanele kwilwane lakho endlini, izinyathelo "ezinzima" kuphela ezingamenza angamthandi umkhuba omubi wokukhuphuka etafuleni lekhishi elisebenzayo noma ukuguqula izinhlamvu zokudoba.

Lwela insimu yakho. Lokhu kubonakala kakhulu kumakati angewona amahhashi. Lokhu kubonakala yizinamandla, amakati amaningi endlini yakho noma egcekeni. Ukubonakaliswa ukugcoba ezindaweni ezingagunyaziwe, ukukhishwa okungapheli kwezinto, ukulwa namakati omakhelwane. Okuningi kwalokhu futhi kuyimpawu yamakati lapho inja ibonakala eduze. Isixazululo esingcono kunazo zonke ukugaya izilwane. Lokhu kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuqeda izinkinga ezihlobene nabesifazane ngesikhathi se-estrus, kanti nabesilisa, lapho phambi kwabesifazane phakathi nalesi sikhathi baba nolaka kakhulu.

Yiqiniso, lokhu kubonakala kunonya futhi kungokwemvelo. Kodwa yini enesihluku ngempela ukubulala izigidi zamakati njalo ngonyaka ngoba nje bonke abanamakhono okwanele. Uma ungenayo imibandela yokugcina ama-kittens, noma awunawo muntu wokubanika noma ukuthengisa, iseluleko: inzalo yenkinga yakho. Ikati izohlala isikhathi eside kakhulu, ijabulele impilo enempilo nokungaphazamiseki.

Izilwane eziningi ezinokudla okwanele, ezinezitha ezimbalwa, ngokuvamile zidlala ukuze zingalahlekelwa amakhono wokuzingela futhi nje ukuchitha isikhathi. Isidingo sekati emdlalweni yiyona imbangela yamasu amaningi "angcolile" okwenzayo. Kumdlalo wekathi awucasuli, zama ukumnika isikhathi esiningi futhi uzame ukufaka emikhondweni yakhe "ewusizo," isibonelo, ukudlala ngezinto ezithile endaweni ethile. Bonisa umcabango wakho kanye nomqeqeshi wamakhono.

Amakati ngokwabo anquma ukuthi yini eyingozi kubo, futhi yini ephephile. Uma ikati izwa ingozi, akekho oyoke amkholise ukuthi akasongelwa. Lokhu kufanele kukhunjulwe uma ukhulisa isilwane.

Umsuka wezinkinga phakathi komuntu kanye nekati ngokuvamile ufihlekile ekuntulekeni kokuqonda ukuthi ikati akuyona impahla yomnikazi. Ikati elizimele ngeke liyeke ukuba ikati futhi ngeke libe yidokhumenti yomnikazi wayo. Angaba ngumngane kuphela, futhi abangane bayamukelwa njengabo. Kulokhu - okuphakeme kakhulu, iqiniso lobuhlobo babantu nezilwane, umthombo wokuthakazelisa ekukhulumisaneni nezilwane ezifuywayo zabo abathandekayo beqiniso kanye nabachwepheshe bezinhlanzi ezinhle.