Bangobani?
Pick-up (kusuka e-Australia pick - "pick up") - umfana owazi njalo amantombazane ahlukene, ngenkathi enenhloso engalungile. Umgomo wayo oyinhloko ukudukisa intombazane ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka noma uma kwenzeka uphuthumayo uthole isibalo sefoni yakho ngaphandle kokusebenzisa imali kuso (lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu kubo: izindleko zibhekwa njengefomu elibi). Ukukhethwa njalo kuvela futhi kusebenze izindlela ezahlukene zokuthandana nokuthandana kwamantombazane, ngamunye wabo unamaqembu abo, amawebhusayithi kanye nezifundo ezikhethekile. Njengenhlawulo, leyo mali inezinhlangothi ezimbili. Yiqiniso, kunabantu abathobekile abahamba ngokuqondile ukuze bafunde indlela yokuzethemba ngokwengeziwe nokwakha ubuhlobo nabathandekayo bakho. Kodwa kaningi kakhulu ukujwayela amaqembu okupakisha - abafana abangazange bafunde ngokucophelela izinto ezisisekelo zezinsizakalo zezinsikazi, bazi kangcono iqembu lamantombazane kanye kanye namakhanda ampofu amahle kakhulu. Futhi emva kwalokho, kanye nabangani nabo, qhathanisa "ukubamba" bese ubeka izikolo esikalini lesishumi.
Izindlela Zokudambisa
Ukubusa imizuzwana engu-10.
Abapikapers banomthetho ongabonakali: uma ufuna ukujwayela intombazane, kudingeka ufike kuye emasekhondini ayishumi okuqala, ukuthi lo mbono wafika kanjani engqondweni, ngaphandle kwalokho into ingaphazamisa, futhi akukho lutho oluzophuma. Ngakho uma ngokungazelelwe uqaphele umuntu engaziwa e-disco, ovele angena ngokushesha, ngokushesha waqala ukuzungezile futhi ngokushesha waya kuwe, bese uqaphela ngokwengeziwe - mhlawumbe kunokuthile okungcolile.
Ukuncoma.
Amagama amahle ayamnandi ngisho nentombazane enethemba kakhulu, kodwa ama-picketers anezincomo zaso sonke isikhathi. I-Handsome ikutshela mayelana "namehlo ombala we-surf ekuseni" nesikhumba esikhanyayo kunabakhandi be-Nyu-York "? Kungenzeka ukuthi akukhathaleli ukuthi uyayikholelwa noma cha. Ufuna ukuthi umkhumbule.
Buyisela kabusha
Lo mqondo usho "ukulungisa" ekuziphatheni kwe-interlocutor. Kukholelwa ukuthi kulula kakhulu kumuntu ukuba atholakale kuye, uma nje uqala ukumbona kancane: khuluma ngezwi elifanayo, vuka endaweni efanayo. Umfana ophakeme kakhulu uqala ngokuzumayo, cishe ukuhleka, futhi umfana onesenzo esivamile - ukuzulazula izingalo zakhe, igama lokugaya? Bheka, abatshela ukuthi: cishe, lezi akuzona imikhuba yabo.
Isivinini.
I-Pikaperu ayinasithakazelo enyangeni ukukhuluma nawe efonini, uzama ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka ukuthuthela emisebenzini esebenzayo-isimemo sokuvakashela ukuhlala ubusuku noma ukukucela. Kungenzeka ukuthi uyobe eqinisela, ekholisa futhi eyokuthembisa injabulo yaphakade kanye nepharadesi langempela emhlabeni. Yikholelwa noma cha - ibhizinisi lakho, kodwa khumbula: awunakwenzeka ukuphinde ubone.
Ukuhlukaniswa
Lokhu kuyi-Casanova .
Kwanele nje ukumhlekisa ngaye. I-Casanova Real - ukuziqhenya okugulayo, uyathukuthela ngisho nasezintweni ezimbi kakhulu.
Umthandi wamantombazane.
Uyakwazi ngempela ukuwa othandweni. Ngokuvamile. Cishe ngesonto. Futhi yonke intombazane iyavuma ngobuqotho. Ukuthi akekho owake wangena ekuphileni kwami. Okufanele ukwenze: kukhona abantu abanjalo, ngoba amantombazane ayimisebenzi yobuciko. Namuhla wakuthanda wena, futhi kusasa usemncoma umngane wakho. Ngokuvamile bangabangane abahle kakhulu: abaqotho nabanobubele. Kodwa isoka elivela kumfana onjalo alingeke liphumelele - kuphela uma kwenzeka izinsuku ezimbalwa.
Isiqalo
Abafana abangavikelekile ngokuvamile bazama ukujwayela wonke umuntu ukuze bazizwe bepholile. Laba bafana bengazi ukuthi bangakha kanjani ubudlelwane obuvamile, kodwa abakuvumeli. Bathanda nje ukubonisa abangane, baxoxe (noma bavele nje) besebenzisa ama-naivete amantombazane. Kungcono ukugwema owesifazane onjalo. Kungani kufanele azihloniphe futhi alahle idumela lakhe?
Umfana ekusesheni.
Izindaba ezinhle: abanye abathintekayo baphupha ukuthola umlingani womphefumulo ophelele. Kunzima kakhulu - uyazi. Ngakho basebenzisa indlela yokugudla kuze kube yilapho bethola uthando lwangempela. Awukho oqotho kakhulu, yiqiniso, kodwa yini ongayenza. Vele uchaze ngokushesha ukuthi ngeke uhlanganyele nesixuku samantombazane - futhi mvumele akhethe okubaluleke kakhulu kuye.
Uthole ukukhethwa?
Qonda.
Wena ngokuqiniseka uthi "Umfana wami uyisimanga!"? Futhi mhlawumbe, umuntu obonakala sengathi ungumkhohlisi onobungozi, ngempela ungumfana othokozile futhi othakazelisayo? Ungathathi izinyathelo eziphuthumayo: ukhulume ngokuthembeka, chaza ukuthi yini okukujabulisa kakhulu. Uma ungumuntu othandekayo kumfana, akayikucasula-kahle, ugeza, nje isikhashana nje. Ngokungazelelwe zonke izinsolo zakho ziyizibonakaliso ze-paranoia?
Hlanganisa. Akusizi ngalutho ukuzama ukushintsha i-pic yangempela, awukwazi ukubeka isithombe sakho sezwe ekhanda lakhe. Kuwe, uthando aluwona umdlalo, kodwa luhlukile kuye. Uma uqonda ukuthi ngaphezu kwakho unesiqu "samanga" afanayo kanye "nezingelosi," kungcono ukuyeka ukukhuluma. Ngigugu kakhulu.
Ungazibeki icala. Yini engalungile ngalokho okukholelwa kuye? Lena yinkinga yakhe - akaqondi ukuthi kunezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu kunezinhlu zokunqoba. Futhi uqinisile kahle, hhayi nje lucky: ubhekene nohlobo olungathandeki. Ungacabangi ukuthi wonke amantombazane avulekile, futhi ungumuntu olahlekile kakhulu emhlabeni. Futhi-ke uzolahlekelwa injabulo yakho.
Jabulela. Udinga isikhathi sokubuyiselwa, futhi uzobheka indaba yonke ngokuhlukile. Yenza ibe i-anecdote, uhleke nezintombi zakho. Ekugcineni, uhamba ngokuphila ngekhanda lakho eliphethwe phezulu, futhi lo msulwa uyaqhubeka exosha wonke umuntu, enethemba lokuthi okungenani indawo ethile ngeke anqatshelwe. Into embi.
Sebenzisa
Kufilosofi yama-pick-up abaculi, akuyona into embi kakhulu: into ewusizo ngawe ukuthi ufunde. Isibonelo, ukuzithemba-okungenani ukuthi ukwazi ukuzizwa ngaphandle kokuthuthumela emadolweni hhayi ukuphazamiseka okungena emibuthweni entsha. Futhi baphinde bafunde izincwadi eziningana nge-psychology futhi bayakwazi ukuthola ulimi oluvamile ngisho nabantu abahoxisiwe kakhulu. Futhi banomcabango ocebile, abaqeqeshwe ukuqinisa. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - ulwazi nezobuchwepheshe be-pikaperskie angasetshenziselwa nje ngaphambili kwothando. Indlela yokukwazi abangane, abazali kanye nothisha noma abaholi banikezwa.