Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungani, ukuphoqa owesifazane ukufeza izindawo eziphakemeyo, ukuphumelela kwakhe akuyona into ebaluleke kakhulu kunezingempumelelo zamadoda. Kungenzeka ukunikeza izibonelo zabodokotela besifazane, osopolitiki, abantu bebhizinisi abaye baqeda abaningi kulo mzabalazo. Kodwa hhayi njalo impumelelo emisebenzini ilingana nempumelelo empilweni yomndeni.
Isimo namuhla
Namuhla ekuphileni komfazi wesimanje, njengombuso, kukhona imfundo ephakeme, umndeni, umsebenzi ohloniphekile. Kodwa ukukhuphuka komkhakha wesimanje ngowesifazane kunzima kakhulu. Emaphethweni akhe amancane afanele umthwalo - ukuhlinzekwa kwempilo yomndeni nomsebenzi. Kodwa kuzo zombili izimo, kumfazi waseRussia, into esemqoka ukuziqhenya, ukukhula komuntu siqu nokufezekisa imigomo ebekwe yiyo. Kodwa-ke, kufanelekile ukuvuma ukuthi owesifazane osebenzayo uhlale ehluleka okuthile emndenini wakhe. Yiqiniso, ungakwazi ukuqasha umntanami, umninindlu, kodwa lokhu ngeke kube ngumndeni womndeni lapho umama ekhulisa izingane, hhayi umuntu ongaphandle. Ngaphezu kwalokho, owesifazane uhlangabezana nezingqinamba eziningi emsebenzini, kaningi akasizwa, kodwa ngokuphambene, idatha yangaphandle kanye nomzwelo owedlulele ukuphazamisa. Amadoda awahlola njengesixhumanisi "esibuthakathaka", futhi kuthatha umzamo omkhulu wokufakazela okunye.
Izindima zomphakathi kanye nempumelelo yabesifazane
Yiqiniso, kunemindeni lapho izindima zomphakathi ezithintekayo zamadoda nabesifazane zishintshile khona. Kulesi simo, owesifazane angakwazi ukuzinikela ngempumelelo emsebenzini wakhe, anikeze umyeni wakhe imisebenzi. Khona-ke indima yayo ebalulekile ithathwa kalula, futhi azikho izingxabano emndenini noma emsebenzini.
Kodwa kunoma yikuphi, impumelelo yowesifazane njalo ivivinyo lamandla obuhlobo bomndeni. Akumangalisi ukuthi izazi zezenhlalakahle zithi abesifazane abaphumelelayo baningi phakathi kwabesifazane abangashadile. Akuwona wonke umuntu okwazi ukubekezela eceleni kwakhe owesifazane ophumelelayo ebhizinisini ngomlingiswa oqinile futhi oqinile.
Ngeshwa, izinto zangempela zokuphila zanamuhla zifana nokuthi ngokuvamile owesifazane uphoqeleka ukuba asebenze ukuqinisekisa ukuphila okunethezeka komndeni wakhe (kuphela amaphesenti abesifazane abakhetha umsebenzi kuphela ngenhloso yokuzigcwalisa). Kule ndaba, ukuphumelela impumelelo kulo msebenzi kubalulekile, kodwa futhi kuyayisusa owesifazane emndenini. Futhi izingane aziqondi njalo isenzo somama wazo. Futhi-ke, sesifinyelele ezindaweni ezithile, lo wesifazane uqala ukungabaza ukuthi izenzo zakhe zilungile yini, njengoba kubonakala ngaphambili?
Umshado nomsebenzi
Abanye besifazane bemi phakathi kokukhetha "umndeni nomsebenzi" ngezizathu ezihluke ngokuphelele. Umshado kanye nokuzalwa kwezingane kubangenisa injabulo yokuqala kanye neminye into emnandi ekuphileni. Kodwa-ke i-monotony kanye nomkhawulo wokuphoqeleka wokuxhumana kubangela ukuthi imisebenzi yasendlini kanye nokuphila kwansuku zonke kuba yinto evamile. Futhi owesifazane ucabanga ukuthi isixazululo sezinkinga zakhe ukukhula komsebenzi. Uthola umsebenzi noma uya esikoleni, aqhubeke nokufeza imithwalo yemfanelo yomndeni. Kodwa-ke akusho ukucindezeleka, ukutadisha nomsebenzi kube isimiso esifanayo njengoba umndeni owawujwayele ukuba khona. Ukuphumelela kulo msebenzi akuqapheli, umndeni uhlakazeka futhi into kuphela okumele ulindele kuleso simo ukucindezeleka nokukhathala okuvela ekuphileni. Kuhle, uma kukhona umuntu ohlakaniphile nothando oseduze nawe ongakwazi ukusekela futhi akhuthaze isixazululo esobala senkinga ngokuhamba kwesikhathi: vumela umsebenzi ube uhlobo lwendlela, indlela yokuziqhenya, okuyiyona ndlela yokuzilibazisa, ethathwe ezingeni lobuchwepheshe. Khona-ke ungakwazi ukuthembela ekuthokozisweni kwakhe nokuqonda okufanayo emndenini.
Imfundiso Yokuphila Komndeni
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi abesifazane baphikisana kanjani, awukwazi ngokuphelele ukuzinikela ukusebenza ngaphandle kokulimaza umndeni. Konke lokhu kuyintandokazi eyenziwe abesifazane abesaba ukuvuma ukuthi izinhlelo zabo zokuphumelela ngesikhathi esisodwa ezinhlangothini ezimbili ziye zawa. Ngokungavumelekile enye yezinhlangothi zokuphila ihlupheka, uma umzamo omkhulu usetshenziswa kwenye indlela. Ngakho-ke, owesifazane wesimanje udinga ukubeka phambili phambili - okubaluleke kakhulu, umndeni noma umsebenzi. Futhi ngokuhambisana nalokhu thola "inkulumo yegolide" ethile, lapho kokubili umndeni nomsebenzi kuyoba injabulo. Abanye baphumelela impumelelo yokuqala emkhakheni wezobuchwepheshe bese kuphela bese udala umndeni. Hhayi, mhlawumbe lokhu kuyindlela efanelekile.
Kodwa uma kwenzeke ukuthi ngenxa yezizathu ezehlukene kufanele uhlanganise umndeni kanye nomsebenzi, bese uzama ukulandela izincomo eziningi zezinkinga zezokwelapha.
Okokuqala , futhi, mhlawumbe, into esemqoka - ungalokothi uphikisane nomsebenzi womndeni futhi ngokuphambene nalokho. Vumela lezi zimbini ezimbili ziphelelane ngokuphepha.
Okwesibili - shiya isikhathi sokusebenza somsebenzi, futhi isikhathi samahhala - somndeni. Zichitha ndawonye amahora asemqoka ekuseni kanye neveki ngempelasonto, isikhathi sakusihlwa kanye neholide nezingane. Izinkinga zabo ezinzima kumele zithole ukuqonda kwakho, thatha isikhathi sokulalela izingane zakho. Bavumele balalele futhi baqonde ukuthi kungani uphoqelelwe ukuhlanganisa umsebenzi nomndeni.
Okwesithathu - unganqikazi ukushintsha ingxenye yemisebenzi yasendlini kubathandekayo bakho. Ukuhlanza izimpahla zokuthutha kanye nokuhlanza izingubo isikhathi lapho izingane zimatasa noma zilala noma zizenza nezingane. Kungcono ukuba inkosikazi embi kunomama nomfazi omubi. Ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu, ungakwazi ukuqasha umnikazi wendlu ongenayo.
Cabanga ngesimo sengqondo ngomsebenzi wakho, kubalulekile ukuthi usebenze isikhathi esigcwele? Mhlawumbe kungcono ukuthatha umsebenzi wesikhashana ekhaya?
Ngokushesha ukuguqula izinkinga eziphuthumayo ngokuhlukaniswa kwempilo yomuntu zibe yimingcele emibili akulula, kodwa kungenzeka. Kuhle kakhulu, uma izinkinga ezinjalo zingavuki. Uma ungomunye walabo besifazane abajabulayo abangenqabe lutho emndenini wabo futhi baphumelele emisebenzini yabo - bayakwazisa! Ungomunye wabambalwa. Kodwa uma kukhona okungakusebenzelanga - ungaphelelwa ithemba, khumbula ukuthi kukhona njalo indlela yokuphuma kuzo zonke izimo. Kufanele nje umomotheka futhi ubone izwe kusuka endaweni yokubuka ehlukile.