Njengengane, cishe zonke izintombazane ziphupha ngokuthi uzoshada kanjani, zinciphise izingane futhi ziyophila ngokujabula njalo. Kodwa isiphetho asiphathe ngaso sonke isikhathi wonke amantombazane. Amantombazane akhula, abe amantombazane. Futhi-ke abesifazane. Lesi sikhathi siqhuma ngokushesha futhi singabonakali. Futhi manje awunalo okuningi okungama-30 noma ama-40. Kodwa isikhulu asisekho nxazonke, ngokuqinisekile kukhona umsebenzi ozithandayo, kodwa indlu ayinalutho, ayikho izingane noma othandekayo. Kungani lokhu kwenzeka?
Inhlekelele yabesifazane abangashadile ivame ukujwayela. Okokuqala ngangiqedile isikole, ngase ngaya ekolishi, ngakho ngakha umsebenzi, ngenxa yalokho ngaqala nxazonke, kodwa akukho lutho ngemuva, ukungabi nalutho. Phinda futhi, qedela ukungaqiniseki. Isikhathi samadoda ngaso sonke isikhathi sasinganele, futhi ukushada nomuntu onyantisayo, akuyona indlela yokuphuma.
Kule minyaka, uqala ukukhetha umuntu. Sidinga okungcono kakhulu ngomcebo othile, ngokuthanda nokubonakala okuthile. Ukubeletha ingane ngokwayo, akuyona indlela yokuphuma. Ubani ozomlandela, ngubani oyomkhuphula, awunayo isikhathi, unomsebenzi oqinile. Ukuphila komsebenzi. Unomphefumulo wonke, odwebe ngokoqobo kudayari yakho.
Inhlekelele yabesifazane abangashadile ayidabukisi kakhulu, njengoba ingase ibonakale ekuqaleni. Futhi banenzuzo yabo ngaphezu kwalabo "abesifazana" abahlushwa phakade abagijima ekhaya bephethe izikhwama ezinkulu. Ekuseni baqala ukusebenza, endleleni abadweba ngayo futhi basuse ama-curl ezinwele zabo. Abesifazane abahluphekayo nabanelisekile kuze kube phakade.
Cabanga ngesidlo sasemini kwelinye lamahhovisi. Ngesikhathi sakusihlwa babelana ngemibono yabo ngobusuku bokugcina. Owesifazane onesizungu uvame ukukhuluma ngokuthi waya kanjani ejimini lokudoba, echibini lokubhukuda. Wayebuka kumbhali ukuze avuselele izinwele zakhe, wabe esegijimela kumuntu, ukuze alungise izipikili zakhe. Ngangena e-boutique futhi ngathenga ama-blouses amasha amasha. Wafika ekhaya, ekhululekile endlini yokugezela enezambatho ezihlukahlukene, wazithela indebe yetiyi elimnandi futhi wazibophezela ngokubukela uchungechunge lwakhe oluthandayo lwe-TV. Futhi ngolunye usuku umthandi ophethe izimbali eziningi nesipho kufanele eze kuye.
Indaba yowesifazane oshadile onamabbits amabili. Kusihlwa, njengoba njalo, "kwakuyimpumelelo". Endleleni eya ekhaya, ngagijimela esitolo, ngithenga ukudla. Njengoba izikhwama ezimbili ezisindayo zikhishwa endlini, ngokwemvelo kukhona ukuphikisana okungaqondakali. Kusukela emngceleni, ukungcola kanye nezinhlayiya ziqala futhi ezinyathelweni ongazimisela ukuthi ungubani nokuthi uhambe kuphi ngaphandle kokukhipha izicathulo zakho. Ngakho-ke ubusuku obunye "bokusebenza" buqala. Owesifazane ompofu uqala ngokushesha "ukufaneleka" kwakhe ekhaya, ukuhlanza, kufanele upheke ukudla komndeni wakho, bese ugeza zonke izitsha, bese ugeza izingubo zakho. Siza izingane zifunde izifundo, lo mdala uphinde aqoqe izicathulo zakhe, ngosuku ozophuma ngalo azodinga amthengise amasha. Osemncane wasihlephula ibhantshi kwenye impi, waphinde wachitha. Futhi owesifazane akakwazi ukukhumbula lapho egcina athenge okuthile, yena ngokwakhe. Umyeni olele embhedeni usazama ukuyala. Owesifazane ompofu usondele phakathi kwamabili, ukudla nokushisa konke, uyalala. Futhi kukhona indoda eyanikeza izimbali kwabangakaziwa ngesikhathi sokugcina lapho, futhi ekhuluma amazwi amahle ekuphileni okudlule. Kodwa lokhu okungenani akumkhathazi, owesifazane kumele afeze umsebenzi wakhe we-conjugal. Hhayi, ekugcineni, eduze nehora elilodwa ekuseni, wonke umuntu wagxila. Futhi lona wesifazane ulala ngokuzumayo elele ukuze avuke ngo-6 ekuseni, ulungiselele kwasekuseni futhi uthumele bonke ezindaweni zabo.
Ngemuva kwalolu daba ehhovisi ungacabanga, futhi ubani onenkinga engcono. Ngamunye unayo eyakhe, ejabule futhi edabukisayo ngesikhathi esifanayo. Futhi wonke umuntu uyakhela yena futhi uqobo lwakhe. Into ebaluleke kakhulu okumele uyikhumbule ukuthi wena ngokwakho ungaqondisa ikusasa lakho ngendlela efanele.