Intombazane kufanele iqonde ukuthi indlu yezwe ne "600 Mercedes" ayisho ukuthi unenkosana yangempela. Cishe, usengozini yokuba yisisulu sokukhohliswa, ngoba akunakwenzeka, ngaphandle kokuba nezihlobo ezicebile, ukuba uphile ngokucebile eminyakeni engu-25. Yebo, uma eneminyaka engama-40, unomsebenzi wakhe oqinile noma owazi kahle kakhulu - ungumnikazi wayo wonke lo mhlaba. Kodwa ungakhohlwa ukuthi ngokwesayensi, ukushada ngeminyaka yobudala phakathi kwabashadile abaneminyaka engaphezu kwengu-12 ubudala kuyinkinga ezimweni eziningi.
Indlela yokuqala futhi elula yokuhlola uma ufanelane nomunye nomndeni impilo yomdanso! Uma uzizwa ukhululekile, khona-ke lena indoda yakho, ngubani ozokuqondisa ekuphileni. Ukuqapha nokuqapha kwakhe kukhuluma ngomthwalo wemfanelo, isifiso sokusiza nokuvikela.
Isinyathelo esilandelayo ukujwayela umama wakho okhethiweyo. Uzothola ukuthi yikuphi ukugcina indlu ojwayele ukukwenza, mayelana nemikhuba yakhe. Khumbula, ukufana kwangaphandle nomama wakho kuzobonisa ukuthi cishe uzokushada!
Lapho uneminyaka engama-30, kulula ukuthola umbhangqwana emsebenzini. Iphumelele ngokukhethekile iveli, lapho bobabili abalingani belingana ezikhundleni. Kunezibonelo eziningi. Akunakwenzeka ukuthi unobhala uzothatha izinhliziyo zenhloko. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, laba baphathi ababili bazokwazi ukuthola injabulo emshadweni wabo.
Ngakho-ke, yini okufanele uyikhumbule ukuthi iyathandeka kubantu:
- Indodakazi yenkosi yangempela kufanele ikhumbule njalo ukuthi isikhulu asikhange izingubo ezinhle futhi ubuso obucwebeziwe.
- akudingeki ulungiselele umshado emva kokusondelana kokuqala - okokuqala udinga ukuthola ngezinhloso zakhe.