I-Code Family yamanje ye-Russian Federation iqukethe umthetho wokuthi kwamanye amacala avumela ilungelo lomyeni lapho engenqatshwa isahlukaniso. Ngokwe-Article 17, indoda ayifanele ifake isahlukaniso ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa komfazi nangemva kokuzalwa kwengane engakapheli unyaka ngaphandle kwemvume yomlingani wayo.
Uma isehlukaniso senqatshelwe
Le mithetho iyakwamukelwa ukuvikela izithakazelo zomama nomntwana, ngakho-ke akukho okungafani nomthetho lapha. Futhi, indoda ayikwazi ukufaka isicelo sokuhlukanisa uma ingane engakafiki ngonyaka owodwa futhi ihlala nogogo nomkhulu wayo, ngokuhlukile kwabazali bayo.
Le nqubo izosebenza futhi kulokhu uma kuzokwenziwa ukuthi umyeni akayena uyise wengane. Kulesi simo, umthetho awukwenzi okwehlukile, njengoba kwaziwa ukuthi okuhlangenwe nakho kwezehlukaniso nokuhlukana ngokwayo kungaba kubi empilweni yengane nomama. Kunzima ukucabanga ukuthi indlu izobe ithule, uma indoda ngokucela komthetho kufanele ishade nomfazi ongazange agcine ukwethembeka emshadweni. Umuntu angethemba nje kuphela ukuthi umfazi, ngaphansi komthetho, uzokwenza ngokuhlakanipha futhi ngeke agcine umyeni wakhe emshadweni. Khona-ke amathuba okuba ingane ekhulayo endaweni enokuthula izokhula kakhulu.
Indoda akufanele ifake i-divorce ukuze ihlukanise uma ingane ishona, ingakafiki iminyaka yobudala, noma yazalwa ifile. Ngoba owesifazane olahlekelwe ingane usemweni okhuni wengqondo futhi udinga ukuvikelwa ezimweni ezicindezelayo.
Ukuze indoda iqale icala lesahlukaniso ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila kwakhe noma ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, umfazi kufanele amnike imvume yokuhlukanisa, okumele akhulume ngokubhala.
Uma kudingeke wenze isehlukaniso ehhovisi lokubhalisa, kuyadingeka ukuthi umfazi, kanye nomyeni wakhe, bafake isicelo sokuhlukanisa. Esimeni somyeni, umfazi kufanele enze umbuzo wokuthi umfazi akaphiki nesehlukaniso. Uma kungekho isitatimende esihlangene sabashadile noma okubhalwe phansi okuhambisana nesicelo akukwenziwanga, abasebenzi bombhalisi bayenqaba lo muntu ukwamukela isitatimende esinjalo.
Uma umyeni esebenza enkantolo yesehlukaniso, umfazi wenza umbhalo oshiwo esitatimendeni somyeni wakhe noma ufaka isicelo esimweni sokuba isitatimende sokuthi umyeni akaphikisana nokuqedwa komshado. Yonke into yaseRussia edinga isahlukaniso iwukuthola imvume yomshade naye ngesahlukaniso. Kunezimo lapho ngenxa yesizathu esisodwa noma esinye umfazi wenqabe ukuvuma isehlukaniso. Omunye ufisa ukuthi ungasindisa umndeni, akusikho konke okulahlekile futhi ekuqaleni uzama ukugcina umyeni ngosizo lomntwana. Omunye akafuni ukuvumela umyeni wakhe aphinde athole injabulo nomunye owesifazane futhi uya esimisweni. Omunye wesaba ukuthi uyedwa ngaphandle kokusekelwa ngezinto ezibonakalayo. Kuzo zonke abesifazane, izizathu zokwenqaba zingase zihluke. Kudingekile ukuba sifinyelele futhi sichaze abesifazane, ukungabi nalutho kobudlelwane obuseduze, kodwa inzondo yenza abafazi babe izithulu ezimpikiswaneni ezahlukene zamadoda.
Kulesi simo, amanye amadoda azinikezela, amanye athinte isinqumo somkakhe sibheke kummeli womndeni. Ummeli angakwazi ukuqonda lesi simo futhi abonise izinzuzo ukuthi isahlukaniso siletha owesifazane, asuse konke okwesabayo, uphendule imibuzo mayelana nokugcinwa kwempahla yengane nomfazi. Uzomsiza ukuba abone ukuthi le ndoda ngeke ilondoloze ubuhlobo obuseduze naye. Futhi kuyoba ngcono ukuhamba, hhayi ukuwugcina ngokuphoqa. Nakuba umyeni wakhe ayevame ukusho lokhu ngaphambili, kodwa akazwanga. Kodwa ummeli onembile futhi onobulungisa unamathuba amaningi okuletha engqondweni yomfazi imibono enengqondo futhi uzokwazi ukunqoba inzondo yakhe.