Izindlela ezintathu zokubhekana nokukhwabanisa: kusebenza ngempela!

Ziba. Akukhona ngokuthula okudidekile, kodwa mayelana nebanga elilinganiselwe igazi elilinganiselwe: le ndlela iwusizo kulawo maqiniso lapho ukuxabana okuvulekile kungamukeleki. U-Hamya, umhlukumezi ufuna ukuthola impendulo - imizwa ebukhoma, ukuhlambalaza noma ukuzwa: ungazivumeli ukuba usetshenziswe njengomthombo wamandla "ukukhishwa".

Kodwa kanjani ukuzolahla uma uphonsa esiqondisweni sakho? Sebenzisa izinyathelo ezilula: zifake ngokujulile, zibalekele eziyishumi, ucabange ngodonga lwangaphakathi lwesithulu phakathi kwakho nomenzi wephutha ... noma umdwebe ngengqondo kuye: amahlaya angakusiza ukuba uphile.

Gcina ibhalansi. Yiqiniso, kunzima ukungaphumeleli ekubhekaneni nokuhlambalaza, ukuhleka usulu noma ukukhwabanisa okungaqondile. Kodwa ukuzola kuzokusiza ukuba ulawule isimo futhi, ekugcineni, ukunqoba impikiswano. I-interlocutor ebonakala sengathi ingenakuvinjelwa kuyisisulu esinzima somhlukumezi: ukuhlaselwa kwakhe kuhlasela isisulu, ukudideka kuyanda, futhi ukuziphatha kuqala ukubukeka kungenangqondo futhi kuyisiphukuphuku. Khuluma ngokucophelela futhi ngokucacile, ungesabi ukubheka owenze icala emehlweni - inkulumo ebandayo kanye nokubukeka ngokuqondile kungaphazamisa ngisho nesibhakela esishisayo.

Vula futhi ujabulele amalungelo akho. Ungakhathazeki, wesaba ukwephula isimo se-quo - umhlukumezi usufezile lokhu ngokuziphatha kwakhe. Unganqikazi ukusho ukuthi yiyiphi inkinga yenkinga ("awukho kahle", "uwela imingcele", "udlula amandla") futhi uhilele abantu abanekhono kwisinqumo sawo. Ikholi ku-hotline, isitatimende kubaphathi abaphezulu, isikhalazo ku-Society Conservation Protection Society singasebenza kakhulu. Khumbula: ukuthulisa kungukuzijabulisa okungcono kakhulu kwebhola.