Wedding, njengesenzakalo esicacile kunazo zonke ekuphileni

Kusukela esemncane yonke intombazane encane iphupho lokubona umyeni wakhe wesikhathi esizayo njengenduna ehhashi elimhlophe. Kodwa emva kweminyaka, la maphupho ayanyamalala kanti nokho, maduze nje, amantombazane amancane aphupha ngothando olukhulu futhi oluqhakazile.

Futhi isikhathi sifike lapho izingane zethu zikhula futhi zifunde ukuthi umuzwa omuhle, othakazelisayo, ongenakulibaleka wothando. Baqala ukwazisa lezo zikhathi ezimangalisayo, ababengazange bacabange ngaphambili.

Njengomthetho, umphumela womzwa oqotho ukudala iseli elisha lomphakathi womndeni. Ngakho-ke, lomshado yisenzakalo esihlaba umxhwele ekuphileni kwabo bonke abantu abaye bathatha isinyathelo esinjalo esinomthwalo wemfanelo.

Konke kuqala kusukela ngesikhathi ufaka isicelo ehhovisi lokubhalisa, okuyinto futhi ngokuqinisekile umcimbi wabantu ababili. Inhlangano yomshado ingenani ibhizinisi eliyinkimbinkimbi nezinkinga, kodwa linikeza injabulo nokwaneliseka kubo bonke abazokwenza.

Ukukhetha abaculi abaqeqeshiwe kuyindaba ebaluleke kakhulu, yingakho kungcono ukukwenza ngokwakho, ukuze wena nezivakashi zakho ujabule futhi ujabule. Isihluthulelo sokuphumelela kwanoma imuphi umshado umculi wezinhlanzi othakazelisayo, othakazelisayo. Ukuthokozisa, ukuhlambalaza, ukujabulisa wena nezivakashi zakho ngumsebenzi wakhe. Ngaphandle kokudubula kwevidiyo okuqeqeshiwe, akudingekile noma kunjalo, ngoba lesi senzakalo esingenakulibaleka kufanele sigcinwe iminyaka eminingi. Umhlobiso wehholo, lapho umkhosi uzokwenzeka khona, uthathe. Ukuhlobisa ngezandla zakho kuyathandeka kakhulu futhi kumnandi. Kuyinto enhle kakhulu ukubuka umsebenzi wakho futhi uthole ukubuyekezwa okuhle kakhulu kusuka kuzivakashi ekhelini lakho. Umcimbi onjalo obala, yiqiniso, ngaphandle komthwebuli wezithombe, ukuthi ungaphathi kanjani. Umakoti egqoke izingubo ezimhlophe nomkhwenyana ngendoda enhle, lokhu akufanele kwenziwe ngaphandle kwekhamera yekhamera. Ukukhetha isembatho kunoma yimuphi umakoti kuyisikhathi esithakazelisayo kunazo zonke nokuthakazelisayo, futhi ukukhetha isixha somshado somfazi ozayo kuyisinyathelo esibaluleke kakhulu kumkhwenyana.

Kwabe sekufika lolo suku olujabulisayo futhi ngemva kwamahora ambalwa nje waba umyeni nomfazi. Emphakathini wethu wanamuhla, umndeni omusha omusha usuvele ukhona, kuyilapho uvela kubantu ababili, kodwa eduze kwekhoneni ukubonakala komuntu omncane. Lo mzuzu uzokhunjulwa ngokuphila. Konke kusihlwa ungabantu abalingiswa abakhulu, umculo odlalwayo, imiklomelo idlalwe, imincintiswano ezithakazelisayo nezomnandi ziqhutshwa, ukucula izingoma zomshado, abantu abasha abavunyelwe ukuba babe nesithukuthezi, bameme embuthanweni bese bememeza "Okubi!". Ukukhala ngokukhala okukhulu kwezibuko, izingxoxo zezivakashi ezizwakalayo, ukuhleka kwezingane nokudansa okujabulisayo yizo zonke izici ezibalulekile zomshado. Intsha ayihambisani nayo yonke into, kodwa bonke "Babuhlungu! Kuyabuhlungu !!! Kuyabuhlungu !!! ". Isizwe ngasinye sinezibonakaliso zomshado kanye namasiko, okusemandleni abo, azama ukulondoloza nokufeza. Isibonelo: ukuhlengwa komlobokazi, ukuphonsa izimbali zomlobokazi nokunye okuningi. Isibusiso nokuhlehliswa kwabazali, ukubonga ngabahlobo nezihlobo. Konke okulungiselelwe kahle: izinkulumo ezinhle nokuhalalisela, izimbali, izipho.

Wonke umuntu ujabule futhi ujabule ngabaselula, ebona ukukhanya kwawo emehlweni abo, akekho ongabaza ukuthi bayohlala ukuphila komndeni omude futhi ojabulisayo.

Nakuba ukuphila kungeke kwenzeke ngaso sonke isikhathi, kungenzeka ukuthi lo mshado kubo ngeke ube ngowokuqala nowokugcina. Kodwa siyohlale sithemba ukuthi umshado ngamunye wethu ungomunye futhi impilo yonke.

Umshado ekuphileni komunye wethu uhlala enkumbulo yethu kuze kube phakade. Lesi yisikhathi esingakhohlwa lapho sikhula, siba abahlakaniphile, sizizwa sithandeka impilo, sifunde ngomunye nomunye esimweni sokuhlala ndawonye, ​​siphile impilo ilungu elisha lomndeni wethu, sikhulise abantwana, sisize umndeni wethu nabangane, futhi sifunde umhlaba oseduze nathi.

Umshado, njengoba isenzakalo esicacile kunazo zonke ekuphileni esizohlala sikhumbule kokubili umlobokazi nomkhwenyana. Phela, babumbene ngomuzwa omuhle wothando.