Ngabazali babo, umuntu omncane ufunda izwe elibazungezile. Naphezu kokuthi ingane isengane, isivele iyakwazi ukuthuthukisa ngokushesha. Ukuthi uchitha isikhathi esiningi ephusheni akusiyo isizathu sokunqaba ukuxhumana naye.
Ukuze uqonde ukuthi ungaziphatha kanjani nabazali ezinyangeni zokuqala komntwana wengane, udinga ukuthembela ekufundeni kwakho nangokwemvelo.
Abazali abaningi bangase bacabange ukuthi ingane isencane kakhulu futhi ayiqondi lutho, kodwa okwamanje kuyadingeka ukuqala ukuxhumana nomntanakho. Uma ingane ingalali naye kuyadingeka ukudlala, ukumomotheka, ukukhuluma amazwi amnandi, nakuba engaziqondi, kodwa uyaqonda ukuzwakala kwezwi abakukhulumayo. Ungenza ingane ibe i-massage ekhethekile, okuyinto yakhe yokuzivocavoca umzimba. Ngendlela, ngenxa yokusikhipha, abantwana bahlakulela ukuhlakanipha, isimiso sezinzwa. Kubalulekile ukuthwala ingane ezandleni zakhe, le ndlela ikuvumela ukuba uqale ukuxhumana phakathi kwabazali nengane yabo - yilokho okudingayo ukuxhumana nomntwana ezinyangeni zokuqala zokuphila.
Ezinyangeni zokuqala zokuphila komntanakho, abazali badlala indima ebalulekile, abagcini nje kuphela ukudla, ukugeza, kodwa futhi bathande. Futhi uthando ngomntwana kunoma yikuphi ubudala kuyinto esemqoka.
Kumele kuthiwa ngaphandle kokubamba iqhaza kwabantu abadala ekuthuthukiseni ingane, akukho lutho oluyithakazelisayo kuye, ngisho namathoyizi aqhakazile owamphonsa kuye, ukuze adlale nabo futhi angaphazanyisi izinkathazo zakho zansuku zonke ezivela kuwe. Abazali kudingeka bahlehlise zonke izindaba zabo futhi bafundise ingane, banesithakazelo, bathathe ithoyizi futhi babonise ukuthi badlala kanjani nayo, kusho ukudlala kanye nomntwana bese emva kwesikhathi abazali bazobona ukuthi ingane ngokwayo, ngokusho kwesibonelo sayo esiphilayo, isivele idlala ne-toy. Ukusebenzisa ithoyizi njengesibonelo, sibona ukuthi ingane ikhophi zonke izenzo zethu, imodeli yokuziphatha emphakathini nakithi abazali, kuye ngokuthi yikuphi ubuntu obuyovela kumntanakho.Ukufundisa abazali ngabanye kufanele bakhumbule imithetho embalwa yokuziphatha nezingane zabo.
Umthetho obaluleke kunawo wonke, ngokusho kwengqondo, ungabonakaliswa ngomusho owodwa - kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yiziphi izimo, abazali abathandekayo abacasuli, ngoba imiphumela yokucasula kwakho ingaba yinto engaphendukiyo, into yokuqala engase iphakanyiswe yi-neurosis, khona-ke ingane ingaba yinto enhle neyomhlophe, angase abe nesifo sokulala.
Umthetho wesibili ungabonakaliswa ngalendlela elandelayo: Abazali abatholi ubudlelwane phakathi komunye nomunye ngosizo lokumemeza ingane - kungamethusa futhi kuhlale engqondweni yakhe. Ingane ikhula ukwesaba, iyesaba
umsindo - lokhu kuyimiphumela yokwehliswa kwabazali. Ezinyangeni zokuqala zokuphila komntanakho, kubaluleke kakhulu ukwakha ikhaya elinokuthula nelomusa, ngaphandle kokukhamuluka, ama-hysterics, amahlazo.
Umbuso wesithathu uthando, ukuqonda okufanayo kanye nenhlonipho phakathi kwabazali uma konke lokhu kukhona emndenini wakho, khona-ke ingane izobe ihamba kahle - iyokhula endaweni ehambisanayo futhi izokhula nobuntu obanele.
Ubuhlobo bomzali, imikhuba nakho konke okunye kuyisibonelo sokulingisa futhi uma ingane yakho inenkinga yokuziphatha, ilahlwe yedwa, ishintshe isimo sengqondo ngokuqondene nokuphila nokuyiqiniso kwengane yakho. Phela, izingane akuzona nje injabulo yethu, kodwa futhi nomthwalo omkhulu, kanye nokuzindla esibukweni.
Abazali, kusukela ezinyangeni zokuqala emva kokuzalwa kwengane, kufanele bamlethe ukuze umntwana akhule futhi aqiniseke ukuthi abazali bakhe bazohlala bewasekela.