Ngokujwayelekile abesifazane bathule ngalokho abakwazi ukukusho. Kuncike kokwenzekani empilweni yakhe, yiziphi izinguquko ezenzekile. Abesifazane bathule ngothando nangomndeni. Ubani onesizungu, ucabanga ukuthi ungakha kanjani umndeni, uthole uthando lwakhe kuphela. Bathula futhi ngokuhlupheka kwabo, okuletha kokubili uthando nokuphila kwethu. Ngokujwayelekile abesifazane bathula ngokuhlupheka abathandekayo babo, abathandekayo nabathandekayo abakwenza. Kodwa awukwazi ukuzigcina kuwe, kungcono ukuzitshela ngakho ukuze zingabangeli futhi.
Owesifazane angahlala ethule hhayi nje ngalokho okwakushiwo ngenhla, uhlale ecabanga ngesikhatsi esidlule, samanje nesikhathi esizayo. Uqhathanisa ubuhlobo bakhe, imizwa yakhe. Kukhona nabesifazane abaningi abaphuphayo. Bahamba ngomkhumbi kusukela manje, bakhohlwe ngakho konke futhi bavele baphupha. Ngakho balahlekelwa isikhathi sabo esiyigugu, esikhundleni sokujabula nokuphila okwamanje. Ukuze ugweme lokhu, owesilisa kufanele amthande, amvikele, amthande, mtshele ukuthi uyena ohamba phambili. Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi owesifazane uthanda "izindlebe". Ngenxa yokunakwa kwabathandekayo, ngeke alahleke ngaphakathi kwakhe, emicabangweni yakhe.
Uma kuqhathaniswa nabesifazane, amadoda ayingxenye yobugovu, bacabanga kabanzi ngokwabo nangokwamanje, kunokuba baphuphe ngento ethile. Kodwa lona wesifazane unesineke, okungenasikhathi esingenamkhawulo. Owesifazane unakekela izindlu zakhe, ikhaya lakhe, izingane zakhe. Uyabakhathalela. Ngenxa yokuthandana nezihlobo, uyakwazi ukujabula kakhulu.