Phakathi kwabakhileyo kuyi-intanethi amasayithi athandwa kakhulu okuthandana nawo, lapho abantu bebeka khona amaphrofayli womuntu ngokufuna ingxenye yesibili. Kumantombazane, ukuphonsa induku yokudoba olwandle "Ukuthandana" kuyisiko. Emva kwakho konke, ufuna ukubamba inhlanzi enhle. Ngenxa yalokhu, thina, amantombazane, sithuthukisa izinhlanzi ezihlukahlukene. Noma kunjalo, ukuze kubanjwe ukubamba iqhaza, kuyadingeka ukwazi ukuthi futhi kanjani, okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuheha umuntu. "Kodwa kulokhu akukho lutho oluyinkimbinkimbi!", - uzothi. Ngilungele ukuphikisana lapha.
Iqiniso lokuthi owesifazane nendoda bacabanga ngendlela ehlukile. Ngokuvamile, yiziphi abesifazane abathola ukuwina ukunqoba komuntu kumane kungamukeleki. Ngakho-ke, udinga ukwazi ezinye izinkolelo ukuheha umuntu. Ake sithole ukuthi, ngokombono wabantu, kudingeka wenze kanjalo ukuze ukwazi ukunakwa. Njengoba bethi: "Bahlangana ngezambatho zabo, kodwa bayazibona engqondweni yabo". Ngakho-ke, ekuqaleni, sizozama ukwakha uhlu lwemibuzo ngokufanele. Ngakho yini engingayibhala ukuze ngidonse indoda?
Ukulawula ubuso.
Into yokuqala kakhulu abantu abaye bayibheka ngayo kuyisithombe. Isithombe esihle kakhulu sesivele, okungenani, amathuba angu-70% wokuthi iphrofayela yakho izobukwa.
Ukuze uqale, isithombe kumele sibe nesayizi evamile futhi sicacise, ukuze indoda ikwazi ukukuhlola ngokuthula, futhi ungacabangi, isibonelo: "Uhlangani ezandleni zakhe? Inja noma isikhwama! "
Okwesibili, thola izithombe lapho izingubo zakho zikhethwa khona ngunambitha. Ngesikhathi esifanayo ngiyaxwayisa labo abathanda ukufihla "lokho kumbimbi", kungakhathaliseki ukuthi labo abathanda ukukhombisa zonke izintelezi zesibalo. Amadoda angeke athwale ngokweqile, ngakho-ke susa isithombe lapho ugqoke khona izingubo zokugqoka ezigqamile, kwi-supermini noma esikhwameni se-swimsuit bese ugoqa nge-neckline kuya kwinkaba. Uma kungenjalo, ngeke nje bakubone, noma bazokwenza kube lula ngathi intombazane, futhi bayohlinzeka okuthile okuhluke ngokuphelele.
Okwesithathu, uma ngesizathu esithile ungafuni ukuthumela izithombe kumawebhusayithi, khona-ke ungashiya uhlu lwemibuzo "ngaphandle kobuso", kodwa wenze umbhalo oqoshiwe, isibonelo: "Ngizothumela isithombe ku-Imeyili."
Yini okufanele ngikubize, ubuhle?
Ngokuyinhloko, kumuntu lokhu akubalulekile, into eyinhloko ukuthi igama lesidlaliso sasingabonakali, noma likhohlisi kakhulu, ngakho-ke udinga ukubhala okuthile okulula. Ngokombono wabo, inketho enhle kakhulu ukubhala ngendima yegama lakho siqu noma inkulumo eqobo kakhulu. Uma ukhetha kuyinto efiselekayo ukugwema iziteketiso eziyimfihlakalo noma iziteketiso ezifana "Ukulinda wena, othandekayo wami", "DlRm159Rn", njll. Ukusuka ngaphandle babheka, ukubeka kahle, okungokwemvelo, futhi kubonakala sengathi owesifazane akasazi ukuthi angaphumelela kanjani ukuze akhethe othile.
Khangisa wena-ozithandayo.
Ake ucabange isithombe: inhlanzi enhle egeleza echibini phakathi nendawo, futhi icabanga: "Lesi sinkwa futhi. Isinkwa! Yeka ukuthi akunjalo. Hhayi, okungenani othile, uphonsa okuthile okuthakazelisayo! "Isiphetho yilokhu: eziningi zale mibuzo zikhona kusayithi futhi zonke, njengomthetho, zinehlobo olufanayo, olungenalo ukuqala, olusha. Ukuheha umuntu, kuzomele ube ngowokuqala. Khumbula, intombazane kufanele ibe nenhle. Othandekayo besifazane, cabanga, ekugcineni into yokuqala, ngokuhlekisa, ekhanyayo futhi umphumela wayo ngokwayo ngeke ukwenze ulinde isikhathi eside. Kodwa kuyadingeka ukubhala ngokuphumelelayo, ngobuqotho.
Mhlawumbe sizohlangana?
Ngemuva kwesikhathi esithile emva kwengxoxo yokuqala, kunesifiso sokubona ukuthi ubani ohlangothini lwesikrini esibuhlaza. Ingabe ufuna ukuhlangana okuningi, kodwa akafuni ukunikela noma yini? Thatha isinyathelo sokuqala, unikeze umhlangano omncane ongenamkhawulo! Amadoda angeke abekwe icala ngalokhu.
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Lapho umhlangano omelwe isikhathi eside, wonke umuntu uyaqaphela indlela okuthandekayo ngayo i-interlocutor. Uma umuntu omusha enesithakazelo kuwe, uzocela noma inombolo yocingo noma ukunikela ukuze aphinde ahlangane. Futhi uma kungenjalo? Awudingi ukumbiza futhi uphinde ukumemele ngosuku - amadoda awashiseki ngokukhungatheka. Ungadonsela umuntu ngezinye izindlela. Kuhle ukuqhubeka usesho lwakho. Kunezinhlobo eziningi zama-questionnaires ku-inthanethi futhi ngolunye usuku uzothola lowo owawukufunayo!
Ekugcineni, ngifuna ukuveza umbono wami mayelana ne-Inthanethi. Ngokwethembeka, ngiphinde "ngona i-intanethi," kodwa ngivame ukuphumula ngokujwayelekile. Anganikeza injabulo eyengeziwe. Uma abantu basekuqaleni bezinikele isikhathi esiningi samahhala emaphakathini, e-cinema, ekukhulumisaneni nabangani, manje ezimweni eziningi lezi zingamapheli amakhompiyutha angenamkhawulo futhi ezingenamsebenzi ezingenamsebenzi ezihamba ngezindawo ezihlukahlukene. Yebo, ngiyavuma, kwi-Inthanethi manje ungenza konke okuphelele: funda incwadi, ufunde izindaba zakamuva, ukhokhe izikweletu, njll. Ngokungangabazeki, lokhu kuhle, i-intanethi yenza kube lula ngathi ukuba sibe khona. Umbuzo: "Kungani sidinga lokhu?". Kusukela ngemuva kwalokhu "induduzo" asikwazi ngokuphelele umhlaba osizungezile. Futhi manje akukuhle yini ukucabanga kancane futhi wenze i-inthanethi ithembele kithi, futhi singabi ncike kwi-Inthanethi?