Kodwa uma isikhathi sigxile ngaphezulu kwezingamashumi amathathu, kubonakala sengathi ubulili obuqinile bufile, njengalawo ma-dinosaurs nama-mammoths. Kulolu hlu ungaxhuma nalabo abaye baphuthela baneminyaka engamashumi amabili futhi baneminyaka engamashumi amathathu abaningi behla. Ngempela, ingxenye enkulu yalolu hlu iphinde isesha.
Eqinisweni, abantu abalungile nabakhululekile bahlale banele, udinga nje ukubhekana nalolu daba ngobuciko. Uma ubheka ngokucophelela endleleni yakho yokuphila, okuvela kuyo - ukusebenza, ekhaya, emsebenzini - kuphela ngezikhathi ezithile nemihlangano nabangani ngezimpelasonto. Futhi yini evimbela ukucabanga kabusha ngokuphila, ngemva kokusekela konke okusemandleni ethu. Yini evimbela wena ukwenza izinguquko ezintsha empilweni yakho? Umsebenzi usephuzile, asikho isikhathi esanele, akekho ozohamba, ayikho indawo yokuhamba, kunezizathu eziningi. Futhi impendulo yedwa kuphela - ukuphuma emgodini ompunga udinga ukunamathisela isifiso esikhulu kanye nokuthanda.
Indlela yokujwayela umfana futhi uqale ubuhlobo obude nobunzima naye? Nokho, amantombazane amaningi, ahlala enzima kakhulu. Into esemqoka lapho uhlangana nawe akufanele uvumele amaphutha alandelayo:
- Ungabonisi ngothando emininini yokuqala futhi ungavumi ukuthanda, ngisho nokubona kuqala, ngokushesha nje lapho ekutshela igama lakhe;
- ungabonisi ukubekezela. Ukusheshisa-ngezinye izikhathi iphutha elikhulu kakhulu, ekuqaleni kokuzijwayeza;
- ungakhulumi kakhulu, ulwazi oluningi lungaba yinhlebo;
- Ungazi kahle lo mfana, ngenkathi ungahlali encwadini;
- ungasheshi ukukhuluma kuqala futhi ungaboni kaningi ngehora;
- Unganaki imibono noma izimpawu zokunakekelwa kwakho.
Ngakho-ke, kuphi ukujwayela umfana, mhlawumbe ubuhlobo obunzima. Indawo yaseshashalazini noma ihholo lokubukisa - njengendlela yokuhlela impilo yomuntu siqu akukubi neze. Asikho isidingo sokukhetha izihloko zengxoxo, kukhona okunye okumele sikhulume ngakho, kanye nakho konke okungenziwa ngcono ngokweziko.
Ukuvezwa kwezobuciko kuyindlela yokukhetha. Kuphela, ungadluleli kakhulu ekulimeni amagama futhi ukhulume ngokubukeka okuhlakaniphile. Imvelo yindawo yokunethezeka. Uma ukwesaba ukusho okuthile okungalungile, ungagcina ushiya isikhwama noma ifolda yakho phansi ... Kukhona njalo umnumzane ofuna ukukusiza.
Ukukwazi ukuthutha, ngenxa yezizathu ezithile imithetho ye-good-natured ayivunyelwe. Njalo kuthathwa njengesenzo esingathandeki. Nakuba kunezibonelo eziningi, lapho ukuphola kwenzeka ezindizeni noma ezitimeleni. Ngesikhathi ingxoxo iboshwe, ingxenye yesibili yempi yayisivele isenziwe. Vumela le ngxoxo ilawulwe ngumuntu, futhi ulungisa kuphela ngokusebenza, ubuze imibuzo.
Ukukwazi ku-disco. Njengomthetho, bavakashela i-disco ekudakwa ngokweqile kotshwala. Amantombazane namantombazane baya khona lapho ukuze baphumule futhi bazi. Kodwa njengoba izibalo zibonisa, hhayi imibhangqwana eminingi kangaka, emva kokuzijwayeza okunjalo ndawonye kuhlangana nobudala. Njengomthetho, ukukhulumisana, nalabo abathandana nabo, okusheshayo.
Ukuze uhlangabezane nendoda ngobuhlobo obunzima, njalo ulalele izwi lakho langaphakathi. Hlola amathuba akho ngaphambi kokuba wenze umzamo. Ukuhlola okubukwayo kuzokunikeza kancane, kodwa, into engayitshela. Ngakho-ke, uku-ukuzethemba ngokwengeziwe. Kukhona izinsolo zokuthi imibono etholakele emasekhondini angu-30 okuqala wokuphola ahlale engaqondakali.
Akukho ubunzima obuningi endleleni eya enjabulweni. Kodwa udinga ukuzidonsa ndawonye, uhlomile ngemfanelo yakho siqu, futhi endleleni yomethemba ngokuqinisekile uzohlangana nomngane wakho womshado. Yiziphi, ukuthwala uthando lokuphila.