Izazi zezenkolo aziqapheli kuphela ukwanda kwenani lemishado ehlukanisile, kodwa futhi nokubonakala kwezinkinga ezingenakwenzeka emndenini womndeni. Imibhangqwana eminingi eshadile ayikwazi ukuqeda ngokusemthethweni ubudlelwane ngenxa yobunzima obubonakalayo obuvela phambi kwabo, ngenxa yokungabi nesivumelwane ezindabeni zabantwana abangaphansi kwabo abazali babo. Ukwahlukanisa, ukwehlukanisa, ukuhlukaniswa kwempahla - konke lokhu yizona zizathu ezilahla oshade nabo ukuba babe khona ngokuhlanganyela naphezu kwezifiso zabo. Kodwa isizathu esivame kakhulu sokuvela kwezimo ezinjalo ukungazi imithetho.
Ngakho-ke, isibonelo, umthetho uhlinzekela ukulingana kwengane, ngenkathi emshadweni, futhi ezimweni ezikhethekile kungenzeka ukuthi oshade naye oswele (oshade naye). Ungasebenzisa futhi ilungelo lokusekela izingane ngaphandle kwehlukaniso ngisho noma zingekho izingane ezivamile emndenini. Ngenxa yalokhu, inkantolo kumele iqaphele ukukhubazeka komlingani (umlingani).
I-Alimony, ngaphandle kokuhlukaniswa ngokomthetho, ingabuyiselwa ezimweni lapho oshade naye engagcwalisi izibopho zakhe zabazali ngokuqondene nengane. Khona-ke oshade naye oswele uyangenisa ngokuvumelana, ngenkathi esemshadweni womthetho. Umthetho uhlinzekela amacala lapho kutholakala khona icala lokubulala ingane nomlingani. Izimo ezinjalo zibandakanya amacala lapho owesifazane ekhulelwe noma ingane ingakafiki eminyakeni engama-3 kusukela ngosuku lokuzalwa kwakhe. Kulezi zimo, unina angaphinde abuyele kumzali wengane yomntwana yena kanye nokugcinwa kwengane. Isicelo se-alimony ngaphandle kwehlukaniso sinenqubo efanayo yokufaka, ngokuqondene nokulandelana ngemva kokuhlukaniswa ngokomthetho.
Abashadile bangafaka izimali ezidingekayo futhi, uma kungekho ukungavumelani, bayibeke enkontileka ngokuzimela. Kodwa ngenxa yamandla omthetho inkontileka kumele iqinisekiswe ngumbhalisi.
Uma kwenzeka izingxabano, ukungavumelani komunye womlingani ukufeza izibopho ngokuphathelene nomlingani noma ingane encane, ungafaka isicelo ngesitatimende sesimangalo se-alimony kanye nesahlukaniso. Khona-ke ukuphazamiseka kutholakala ngosuku lokufaka isicelo, hhayi ngemuva kwesahlukaniso esisemthethweni. Uma kwenzeka ukuthi isehlukaniso singenakwenzeka, kumele ufake isicelo se-alimony.
Ukuqoqa ukulinganisa, kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi inkantolo ingakhokhisa kuphela amaphesenti athile wemali ekhokhelwa ngumlingani noma umlingani ngokulinganiselwe. Inani lezinkokhelo zokukhokha lihlushwa yizici eziningana. Lezi zihlanganisa: isimo sompilo wengane, izinga lemali engenayo, isimo sempilo yomlingani, okuphoqelelwe ukukhokha ngokulinganayo, kanye nokuba khona kwezinye izingane.
Ngakho-ke, ngokuthola imali engenamkhawulo, ukungabi namsebenzi noma isimo lapho imali engenayo esemthethweni ihluke kulokho okungekho emthethweni, kunconywa ukuba ifune ukulingana ngemali ehleliwe. Kodwa lokhu kungadinga ukuqoqwa kwamadokhumenti ukuthi inzuzo yangempela iyinani elikhudlwana kunalokhu kuboniswe isitatimende seholo. Lokhu kungaba yimibhalo mayelana nokwenza amadili, ukuthenga izinto ezibiza.
Ngaphandle kokukhokhela ukukhokhelwa komthetho, umthetho uhlinzeka ngokubamba iqhaza kwabazali bobabili ekuphileni, ukuthuthukiswa, ukwelashwa kwezingane ezivamile. Uma kungekho imvume yokuvumelana, isicelo sithunyelwa enkantolo ukuze oshade naye akhokhe izindleko ezengeziwe, ngisho noma ukusekelwa kwabantwana kutholakala ngaphandle kokuhlukaniswa.
Esikhathini lapho ukusekelwa kwengane kungasetshenziselwa izidingo zomntanakho, lowo oshade naye okuqoqwa naye oqokiwe unelungelo lokufaka isicelo enkantolo. Khona-ke imvume ingatholwa ukuze idlulise ama-50% ekusekeleni kwenyanga yenyanga kumuntu siqu we-akhawunti yengane.
Ukuhlukumezeka okunobungozi kokukhokha okunye kujeziswa yisimangalelo sobugebengu. Ngesikhathi esithile lapho ukukhokhelwa kwesondlo nganoma yisiphi isizathu akunakwenzeka, ingane ingakhishwa usizo lombuso. Ngaphezu kwalokho, inani lolo sizo luzoqoqwa kusuka kulowo oshade naye okhokhela i-alimony.
Uma kukhona umyalelo wenkantolo, lapho kuvele ukungabonakali kokungabikho kokugcinwa kokugcinwa kwesondlo, umnikazi we-defaulter angase afakwe uphawu noma ezinye izinyathelo zokuqoqa imali ehambelana nayo.