Yini ekulindele emva kwesehlukaniso? Ungamukela kanjani leli qiniso elidabukisayo? Yeka ukuthi ungalahlekelwa yini injongo yokuphila futhi ungayilungisi inkinga nosizi lwayo?
Ukuhlukanana kuhlale kuhlambalaza, ukucindezeleka, ukudumazeka empilweni kanye nomlingani, ukudabuka nokulangazelela.
Kodwa, isihloko sethu sizokufundisa ukuthi ungaqhubeka kanjani, ngemuva kokuhlukanisa. Ungaba nesibindi kanjani ngemva kwesahlukaniso? Ubuza, kungenzeka, akunjalo? Mhlawumbe into eyinhloko ukukhombisa isifiso esikhulu sokuhlala uqinile futhi nesibindi emva kwesahlukaniso!
Umthetho wokuqala: tshela "cha" ukuzisola . Funda ukuhlala ngokuqiniseka ukuthi njalo wenza konke, njengoba kuyadingeka. Ngisho noma wenza amaphutha, kusho ukuthi impilo ikufundisa ukuthi ungenzi kanjani esikhathini esizayo. Isahlukaniso sakho samukelwa njengento yangempela. Zama ukususa into enhle kuyo. Zama ukuba nesibindi.
Azikho izinkumbulo ezibuhlungu zesikhathi esidlule. Ucabanga ukuthi uma uchitha ubusuku bakho ngokubambisana ngomsila futhi ukhumbule injabulo yakho yangaphambili - lokhu kuzokusiza ukuba ube nesibindi emva kwesahlukaniso? Ungazifaki ukuphelelwa yithemba. Phupha okuningi mayelana nekusasa - ujabule futhi omuhle.
Khumbula ukuthi awulona iqembu elimele . Ucabanga ukuthi uyisisulu? Uzizwa uzihawukele? Yebo, uma ufuna kanjalo, yiba nesihe ngokwakho. Kodwa, kusihlwa nje kuphela. Akusaziwa ukuthi ubani onenhlanhla: umyeni wakho, owashiya akacaci, kuphi noma kuwe - owesifazane omuhle nowenkululeko manje onelungelo lokujabulela ukuphila nokunakekelwa kwabantu.
Okungasibulali - kusenza sibe namandla. Futhi, ke lokhu kungenye isizathu sokuba nesibindi emva kokuhlukanisa.
Ukuziphatha kowesifazane ngemuva kwesahlukaniso.
Uhlushwa yizimo ezimbi nokudabukisayo. Kubonakala sengathi umhlaba wonke wehlile, futhi ushiywe wedwa ngodabu lwakho. Wake wangikhathaza othandekayo nomuntu othandekayo kakhulu.
Amantombazane, izidalwa ezithandekayo nezinhle, zama ukuqina ngesahlukaniso, zizethembe ngokwakho. Wena uyidalwa enhle kunabo bonke oPhezukonke. Ziqhenye ngokuthi ungowesifazane. Umlingani wangaphambili uzobe ehlukumeza kakhulu ukuthi yena ngokwakhe ulahlekelwe owesifazane onjengawe.
Bheka isimo ngezindlela ezahlukene. Ukufa kuphazamise impilo yakho futhi, mhlawumbe, kukusindise kusuka kulowo muntu ongafanelanga ukunakwa kwakho.
Ukuhlukaniswa kuyisimo esinamandla esimweni sengqondo. Kodwa, kumelwe sihlale sisesandleni sethu futhi senze konke okusemandleni ethu ukuba sibe nesibindi. Ungaziphoqeleli ekhoneni, thola injongo ekuphileni.
Zithokozise - sebenzisa isikhathi nabalingani noma abangane. Akekho oye wakhathazwa yinkampani enhle, ukuhleka nokuhleka.
Ukuthandana nabesilisa, ukumomotheka ngabadlulile-uzoqinisekiswa ukuthi uhlukile.
Phakathi nesikhathi lapho ukhona nomlingani wangaphambili, wawusebenzisa kanjani isikhathi sakho samahhala? Izindlu ezinensimbi ezandleni noma esitofu? Manje akudingeki wenze lokhu. Yini owaliphupha ngayo ebusheni bakho? Yini ongenayo isikhathi sokwenza? Cabanga ngale ndaba - manje unethuba lokuhumusha imicabango yakho namaphupho wakho.
Umsebenzi uyindlela enhle yokuzihlukanisa nokucindezeleka futhi uqaphele ukuthi udinga abanye futhi uncike kakhulu kuwe.
Ake sithi, ukuze ube nesibindi emva kwesahlukaniso, ungavumeli isimo sokucindezeleka kuwo wonke amaqiniso hhayi amaqiniso, ungathanda kanjani ukungena kuwo. Umi emngceleni wokuphila okusha. Futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuyojabula noma kudlule ekulangazeleleni ubudlelwane obulahlekile - kungcono kuwe.
Ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi uzithanda wena futhi ufisa kuphela okusemandleni akho. Khumbula ukuthi ungowesifazane oqinile - uyakha impilo ngezandla zakho.
Ukuphumelela nenhlanhla kuwe empilweni yakho entsha, ngokukhululekile, i-Amazon enesibindi futhi enhle!