Eqinisweni, usizo lwabahlengikazi abakulesi simo aludingekile kithi, kaningi thina ngokwethu siyazi ukuthi singabhekana kanjani nokukhathazeka empilweni yomuntu kanye nokucindezeleka, singumqondo ovilaphayo ukwenza okuthile, ukuqonda ukuhlupheka kwethu ngokuthi, yini esingayithandi wenza - konke okufanayo sizohlala sizungu futhi singadingekile. Kodwa lokhu, ngokufanele, isikhundla sabafazi abuthakathaka, abajwayele ukudangala nokudabuka empilweni - futhi lokhu kuyindawo engafanele. Sekuyisikhathi eside saziwa ukuthi sibheka izenzakalo ezithile emakhayeni ethu. Ngakho-ke, uma unesifo sokucindezeleka, khona-ke impilo ithatha ijika elibuhlungu, wena yonke indawo ubona okungalungile futhi ucabanga ukuthi awukwazi ukuphuma kulo mbuthano, ukuthi ngeke ukwazi ukubhekana nalesi simo. Kodwa sizozama ukukunikeza izindlela eziningana ezizokusiza ukuba uphumule futhi uphumule - futhi konke ukunganeliseki kokuphila, ikakhulukazi empilweni yakho yomuntu siqu, kuzokwehliswa kancane ku "cha", uzophinde ukhule, njengoMeyi avuke ngaphansi kwelanga, futhi eduze kwakho kuzovela indoda engakwazi ukukuvikela futhi ngeke isabe ukunqothula ameva akho.
Indlela eyodwa: Ukuthenga
Yebo, lokhu kuyindlela enjalo futhi ethandwa kakhulu, esisiza thina, besifazane, sibhekane nokucindezeleka okujulile okusizwa sizizwe amandla ethu, ukuthola ukholo kithi kanye nobuhle bethu.
Ukuze uthengise ukuletha injabulo enkulu, yiqiniso, udinga imali eningi - ikakhulukazi uma uzobeka izinto ngendlela efanele ku-wardrobe yakho noma uguqule indlu, njengoba ukushintsha ikhabethe nokulungisa kuyizinto ezihlaselayo kakhulu zesabelomali sethu. Nokho, ngezinye izikhathi kungenzeka, futhi kudingekile! Futhi uma imali ishaya kakhulu - ungaya ezitolo nge-trinkets nezimpahla ezingabizi, othandekayo enhliziyweni yakho. Isibonelo, uma uthanda ukuhlomisa impilo yasekhaya futhi usebenzise imali ezintweni ezincane zangaphakathi - ugijime ngokuphepha esitolo esithengisiwe bese uchitha khona isikhathi esiningi ngangokunokwenzeka, ucabange ukuthi yini ekunika umqondo wokuncoma. Mhlawumbe ubuthakathaka kakhulu kwizesekeli nazo zonke izinhlobo ze-trinkets? Vakashela ama-salons, awukwazi ukuthenga-nje ubheke futhi wezindleko zamanani, hlukanisa uhlelo lwekusasa ukuze uzuze inhlalakahle enjalo, okuzokunika ithuba lokungazithengi ngisho nezikhungo zokuthenga! Futhi ake konke lokhu kungenzeka nje iphupho - kodwa udinga ukuphupha empilweni yethu. Imicabango ikakhulukazi yizinto ezibonakalayo - ungakhohlwa ngaleli qiniso elilula.
Kodwa mayelana nokuthenga iBabskiy kuphela - Ngisho izingubo nezicathulo - ke, uma kukhona ithuba, zama ukwenza isiwula ngenkazimulo! Thatha nawe izintombi zakho eziyizintandokazi, abacebisi, zilingani nakuba zonke izitolo ze-city! Zama ngemifanekiso - mhlawumbe njengamanje uzokwazi ukuqonda ukuthi wawungewona uqobo, ukuthi lokho obekugqoke akuhambisani nezwe lakho langaphakathi. Kodwa lokhu kuphazanyiswa kungenye yezimpawu eziyinhloko zokuhluleka empilweni yomuntu siqu, ngoba abantu babheka isithombe sonke, futhi uma kungakhulunywa noma cha nhlobo-ke abangeke banesithakazelo kulowo wesifazane.
Uma ngaphambi kokukhetha isitayela semidlalo nesigqoko sakho kwakuyindawo kuphela yezitshudeni zezemidlalo, ama-T-shirts, ama-tops, ama-shorts nama-sneakers - abe enye! Shintsha isitayela kuya okuphambene ngqo. Thenga izikebhe ezinhle nezembatho zokugqoka zase-chic, i-pair of blouses kanye neziketi - futhi uzobona ukuthi impilo yakho yonke izoshintsha kanjani kulolu shintsho!
Indlela emibili: Isithombe esisha
Lokhu akusebenzi nje kuphela izingubo esasikhuluma ngazo. Ngemuva kwalokho konke, ama-rags - lokhu kungenye yezingxabano zokwakha isithombe esisha. Umba ngokujula, shintsha izinwele zakho: umbala wendwele, izinwele. Ngakho shintsha, ngakho wamangala: Ngabe ngaba nesibindi sokwenza lokhu ngami? Into eyinhloko ukuthi isitayela sakho sezinwele esisha sithinta okuningi kunakudala. Futhi lokhu kuzodinga stylist omuhle.
Uma ufuna ukuba i-Amazon elishisayo - iya kwi-solarium, ubhalise inkambo yokusika, vakashela inkosikazi ye-manicurist kanye ne-pedicure - le nqubo elula izokusiza ukuqeda ukungabi nandaba nokucabanga okudabukisayo, ngoba isikhathi osisebenzisayo ngokwakho izimpukane asikwazanga futhi sigcwalisa imizwa emihle kakhulu. Ngemuva kwalokho, sibona imiphumela yalezi zenzo, njengoba zisho, ziyabonakala. Futhi kuhle kakhulu ukuzibona esibukweni, sijwayele futhi sijwayele, kodwa sisashintsha futhi sashintshwa. Ukuqaphela owesifazane omuhle obuka wena kusuka ekujuleni kwezibuko, izici zakhe ezivamile.
Indlela yesithathu: Ezemidlalo
Ngamunye wethu uyazi ukuthi ukudlala imidlalo nhlobo kungqongqoza imibono emibi ekhanda. Ngoba ngesikhathi sokuzivocavoca umzimba, asinaso isikhathi sokucabanga ngokuphila kwethu komuntu siqu, mayelana nokuthi sinokuthile okungafaki futhi akusebenzi. Ukucindezeleka kuqhuma kude nathi ngaphezu kwebhola ye-rubber ekuqeqesheni. Ekugcineni, sishisa futhi sithuthukiswa ngicabanga ukuthi ngomsebenzi ngamunye olandelayo sithuthuka, kahle, sibe ngenele. Futhi ungumuntu onjani ongathandi amantombazane amancane?
Okungukuthi, ngokuya esikoleni, ngakho-ke, sandisa amathuba ethu okuhlangana nomuntu ofanelekayo endleleni yakhe. Futhi nakuba sonke siphika futhi sithi asidingi umuntu obuka ingaphandle kuphela, kodwa masingabi ngobuqili: ukuthi indoda ifuna ukuhlola izwe lethu langaphakathi, okokuqala sidinga ukumbamba futhi siyithakazelise. Emva kwakho konke, owesifazane ngamunye kufanele abe nehlazo, elimhlukanisa namanye amantombazane amahle.
Indlela emine: Ngingumsebenzi wezemisebenzi!
Ukuze uqhubekele phambili emsebenzini wakho, ukuze ungene emsebenzini wakho, ukuze ufike esiteji esiphezulu sezinga lomsebenzi - enye indlela eqondile yokubalekela ngokoqobo, ukukhohlwa isifo esingaphambi komuntu siqu nokuphulukisa ngendlela entsha. Noma kunjalo, lokhu kuyindondo ezinhlangothini ezimbili. Uma usuka ezitolo, ukushintsha isithombe nemidlalo esebenzayo uthola futhi uthuthuke, ngaphandle kokudela noma yini, ngakho-ke uma kwenzeka uzosebenza ungayithola ingozi yokulahlekelwa ngumuntu siqu. Lokhu kungukuthi ungena engxenyeni ye-careerist ne-fanaticism, thola kuyo injabulo kanye nesisusa esisodwa sokuphila. Ngakho udinga ukwazi isilinganiso, ukusebenza ngomsebenzi, nomndeni ukuthi owesifazane kufanele abe ngowokuqala. Ngakho-ke, uma uzizwa unesizotha nowesifazane wesimanje ozinzile enhlalakahleni yakhe yezezimali, ayeke futhi ubheke nxazonke: ingabe kukhona umuntu ogqamile? Mhlawumbe othile ubelokhu ezama ukuphuluza izikhali zenduna yakho yensimbi, kodwa awuboni? Ungathathi kakhulu, uhlale unomfazi, hhayi ucezu lwensimbi.
Indlela yesihlanu: Kuyindaba yenhliziyo
Ngabe ngisho ukuzilibazisa. Iyini into yokuzilibazisa? Lokhu kuyinto ongayigcina isikhathi sakho samahhala. Angazi umsebenzi ngokuziqhenya njengendlela yokuzilibazisa, ngoba umsebenzi yilokho okukulethela imali, futhi kaningi - akukho injabulo. Ukuzilibazisa kuyinto efanayo enikeza umphefumulo wakho ukuthula nokuqiniswa. Ngikholelwa ukuthi ukucindezeleka kuphunyuka kubafazi abanomdlandla, njengoba kungabatholi abafanelekile ukukhishwa kwamandla.
Ngakho-ke, yisiphi isikhathi sokuzilibazisa esingakudonsa? Yini engingakunikela yona namuhla? Isibonelo, isibonelo, ubuciko obungunaphakade bokubamba. Ucabanga ukuthi yisikhathi? Cha! Bheka nxazonke: izinto eziboshiwe manje ziyazi kahle, njengangaphambili! Cabanga, ungaxhuma wena lokho okufunayo. Izindiza zezindleko nezindleko ezincane, kuhle kakhulu!
Ukubuyekeza i-wardrobe ngosizo lwezinyosi kanye nezintambo, ungaqala ukuvuselela ikhakethi nezesekeli. I-beadwork izokusiza. Okokuqala, le ndlela yokuzilibazisa inomphumela omuhle ohlelweni lwezinzwa, futhi, okwesibili, ngosizo lwakho ungazihlobisa ngendlela entsha, ngoba amabhande, namacici, namasongo nemigexo yebucwebe bebubuko ubuhle kakhulu futhi buhlelekile!
Uma ufuna, ungathatha uhlaka, inaliti nemicu enemibala - futhi ngemva kwesikhashana uhlobisa ikhaya lakho ngemidwebo eqoshiwe eyenziwe ngokwayo. Ingaphakathi lizoguqulwa, indawo yokuhlala izoba ngcono kakhulu kunalokho, futhi uzofudumala ngomcabango wokuthi konke lokhu okwenziwe ngezandla zakho.
Futhi ufuna ukwenza okuthile okungavamile - sicela ulandele isikhala kanye nokwenza ikhadi enkonzweni yakho! Kuyini? Kulula kakhulu. I-scrapbooking yokuqala - yiklamo yazo zonke izinhlobo ze-albhamu ngezandla zabo siqu ngosizo lwezesekeli ezikhethekile ezingathengwa esitolo esikhethekile. Ungenza i-albhamu ngokwakho noma i-albhamu ngokuphathelene nokuphila kwakho ngokufaka nje kuwo wonke ama-trinkets amancane owakhumbula. Isikhala somcabango nje siphutha! Ngokuqondene nenkampani yokwenza amakhadi, lokhu kubhalwe ngesandla kwamakhadikhadi.
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Indlela yesithupha: Ukusebenza Okusebenzayo
Yebo, ungafihliwe emzimbeni nasesikhunjini ekhaya, ulindele isikhulu ehhashi elimhlophe - emva kwakho konke, uzokuthola kanjani, uzohlangana kuphi, uma ungaphumi?
Ngokuvamile iya ezindaweni zomphakathi, uhole impilo esebenzayo kakhulu. Lapha unenzuzo ephindwe kabili: futhi ukucindezeleka kuzophela, futhi amathuba amaningi okusungula konke ekuphileni kwakho komuntu siqu kuyoba.
Njengoba ubona, kungenzeka futhi kudingekile ukubhekana nokucindezeleka nokuhluleka empilweni yakho siqu, ngoba ukudabuka kuvinjelwe ukushayela kwethu okuvamile!