Ngezinye izikhathi sibona ukuthi amadoda ethu abukeka kanjani ngakwesobunxele nangakwesokudla, futhi abuyele futhi abuke phambili - futhi konke ukunakwa kwabo kuqondiswe kumuntu omude, omncane wesintombazane enhle. Kodwa akusiyo imibono yabantu mayelana namafomu okujabulisa abesifazane, kodwa ngokuphathelene nabesifazane. Uzizwa kanjani uma ubuhle obunemilenze obude, obunomusa obunamehlo amakhulu buhamba nawe? Ukuzonda, ukuhlambalaza kwengqondo emva kwemibono ephazamisayo, uyamnciphisa kanjani lokhu okujabulisayo, noma uyamthanda ngempela?
Ekuboneni kokuqala, izintelezi zesifazane zisho isifuba, isisindo, isisindo nemilenze, kepha lokhu kuyiphutha kancane. Izintelezi zesifazane zisengamehlo kanye nama-eyelashes, izindebe, izinwele, izandla, iminwe kanye nezipikili, ngokuvamile, yilokho owesifazane anakho. I-charm yilokho omunye owesifazane ozinikela kowesifazane othile. Yebo, kusukela ekuqaleni, yizifuba eziwela phansi nalabo abangaphansi. Ngakho-ke yamukelwa amadoda ethu ngokubona kwawo kokuqala nokuyisisekelo. Yiba njalo.
Ngakho-ke, bangaki abesifazane, izintelezi eziningi, nemibono eminingi yabesifazane ekujabuliseni. Umuntu ohloniphayo ubheka umakhelwane noma osebenza naye futhi uzifisa ngokwabo izinhlobo ezinjengalezi, azivelele ngokudla kanye namahholo wezemidlalo, futhi othile onenzondo ubheka intombazane efanayo futhi uyifisa ukuhlukunyezwa okumbi, kanti omunye unalezi zintelezi kanye nobuchule Uwasebenzisa ngezinhloso zawo siqu. Imibono yabesifazane abathile kulezi zijabulisa engizizwe emlonyeni wabangane bami nabangane bami.
Nginomngane oyedwa obuka isifuba esikhulayo, esinobuhle nesimile futhi uthi "Ngangikhuphuka kuye uma ngingumuntu". Cha, cha, uthanda abantu besilisa, uthanda amadoda futhi unomndeni, lokhu kungomunye wemibono yabesifazane abaningi ekuthandweni komunye owesifazane. Ngicabanga ukuthi yedwa owesifazane ongekho izinkimbinkimbi futhi onomuntu omuhle ongasho kanjalo ngomunye wesifazane. Akabheki kuphela ekubukeni kwesilisa kumnandi, kodwa futhi ubonisa umbono wakhe nokuzibonga. Njengoba ngiyazi, ngokuvamile amantombazane abonisa ukunganaki nokungazithandi abantu abaphakeme kunabo, okufaka umona omnyama.
Omunye umuntu engangibajwayele uqala ukukhuluma ulimi olubi lapho ebona intombazane enhle, futhi kuphela lapho eqonda uma ejabule noma enengwa. Njengoba umculi wasePoland uJanina Ipokhorskaya wathi, "Ukubukeka komunye wesifazane komunye kungikhumbuza ukulawulwa kwemithwalo kwamasiko." Abesifazane bahlale bebukana ngokucophelela futhi ngokucophelela, benethemba lokuthola noma yikuphi ukwehluleka okubuyisela ukulimala kwabo ekuziphatheni, ngisho nalabo abakuqalayo abadingi isinxephezelo.
Futhi eqinisweni, kukhona okuningi okumnandi. Ngomuntu siqu, ngiyajabula ngaso sonke isikhathi, noma ngicabanga ukuthi, "Ngingaba nalokhu ..." uma ngibona umdwebo ohlotshisiwe kahle, futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isibalo sithathwe ngosizo lomhlinzeki wezinambuzane epulasitiki noma emvelweni ngokwayo. Yebo, futhi ngokuthola uhlobo lwezinhlobo ze-chic udinga ukuzigcina, futhi lokhu kudinga ukusetshenziswa okukhulu kwesikhathi nemali.
Emandleni ahlakaniphileyo womnikazi wayo, noma yiziphi izingxenye zomzimba zingaba zilingo futhi zimema amadoda, zibangele umona ngabesifazane, ngokuphathwa ngendlela efanele futhi efanelekayo. Akusikho esifubeni esikhulu noma ku-papa oqinisiwe. Konke okuphathelene nokuzethemba kwakho kanye nesethulo esifanele kwabanye. Indlela ozizwa ngayo, kanjalo uzobona abantu abakuzungezile. Khumbula lokhu!