Ingabe yisikhathi sokuhlukanisa ne-diapers? Indlela yokwenza le nqubo ikhululeke ngayo kumama, nendlela yokujwayela ingane embizeni emva kweminyaka emibili?
Lapho ingane ibhekwa ngokuthi "kakade inkulu kakhulu"? Njengoba ithathe izinyathelo zokuqala? Ngemuva kokumemezela "umama" oyigugu? Ufunde ama-alphabet? Mhlawumbe, kunomama abaningi, umkhawulo ohlukanisa isana nengane "yobudala" yikhono lokusebenzisa ibhodlela.
Ngilungele njalo?
Ukuphela kwezinsuku lapho zonke izinyane kudingeka zifunde indlela yokuya embizeni iminyaka emibili - ngoba nje kule minyaka yanikezwa i-nursery, lapho kwakungenakwenzeka ukushintsha amathayi ngesikhathi. Kodwa-ke, ngisho nanamuhla, ngenkathi ebusisiwe yama-diapers alahlekile, omama abaningi abakwazi ukulinda ukufundisa iziqu zokubhekana nezidingo zemvelo ngendlela echane kakhulu (ngokubona kwabo). Okusho ukuthi, ebhodweni. Ukuqala ukuqeqeshwa okusebenzayo, ngokushesha lapho ingane ithola ikhono lokuhlala. Ingabe lokhu kunengqondo?
Abaningi bezingane zanamuhla bazophendula lo mbuzo, indlela yokujwayela ingane embizeni ngemuva kweminyaka emibili, ngokuqinisekile. Kukholelwa ukuthi ingane kufanele "ikhulile" ngaphambi kokutshala, futhi kwenzeka eneminyaka eyizinyanga ezingu-18-24. Lesi sikhathi izinzwa nemisipha elawula izenzo zezinyosi nokunyakaza zingacatshangwa ukuthi zakhiwe ngokwanele.
Kunezibonakaliso eziningana ukuthi i-crumb isilungele ukuqala izifundo "zamanzi"
uhamba ngokuzethemba, uyakwazi ukuhlala phansi avuke; UF uqala ukulawula ukuchama: uhlala owomile isikhathi esingaphezu kwamahora amabili, ikakhulukazi, emva kokulala komuntu;
uyaqaphela izidingo zakhe (isibonelo, ukuthi ulambile noma ufuna ukubhala) futhi uyakwazi ukubika ngezimpawu noma amagama;
ususa ama-diapers amanzi noma angcolile;
ufunda umzimba wakhe kanye nemikhiqizo yokuphila kwakhe;
4- uyazi amagama abonisa inqubo yokugcoba kanye namanzi - "ukubhala", "kakat" noma izinguqulo zabo ezifingqiwe.
Hooray, ukuqeqeshwa!
Ngakho-ke, abanye (futhi mhlawumbe konke?) Kwezici ezibalulwe kusobala. Uqala kanjani ukwazi ingane yakho ngokuhlakanipha kwamanzi?
Qaphela ngokucophelela ingane bese uzama ukuyihlwanyela "ngokufunwa", okungukuthi, ngalezo zikhathi uma kubonakala sengathi "inqubo ihambe." Isibonelo, uma izinyane lizolile, liyeka umdlalo, lingene ekhoneni elingasese, ama-squats, ama-squats ama-panties akhe. Zonke lezi zibonakaliso zibonisa ukuthi uzizwa enesifiso sokuchama noma ukuhamba kwesisu. Umsebenzi wakho ukusiza u-crumb ukudala uxhumano phakathi kokuzwela nesenzo. Ngenxa yalokhu, ngokushesha nje lapho unomuzwa wokuthi ingane ifuna ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese, mcele ukuthi ahlale phansi ebhodweni. Uma ingane ingaphenduli kwezicelo, ihlehlise "ukuqeqeshwa", ngokusobala, isikhathi sabo asikafiki.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, zama ukutshala imvuthu ngezikhathi ezithile. Okokuqala emaminithini angu-20-30 emva kokudla kwasekuseni. Kukholelwa ukuthi ngalesi sikhathi isisu esigcwele sikhuthaza ukuthi i-rectum ichithe. Ngemva kwemizuzu embalwa ngaphambi nangemva kokudla, emva kokulala komuntu nokuhamba. Nje ungadluli! Ungaphoqeleli ingane ukuba ihlale embizeni isikhathi eside, ingaba nesimo sengqondo esibi mayelana nenqubo futhi iholele ekuqotheni. Into esemqoka akuyona isikhathi se-plantings, kodwa njalo.
Ungaqala ukujwayela embizeni uma ingane igula noma empilweni yakhe isimo esicindezelayo. Xhumana nodokotela futhi ufunde indlela yokujwayela ingane embizeni emva kweminyaka emibili. Qaphela isimo sakho siqu: uma umatasa emsebenzini noma ukhathele umnotho, uphinde ufundise embizeni kuze kube izikhathi ezingcono.
Ukusheshisa inqubo yokufunda, izinyane kufanele zibeke isibonelo sakho - zithinte uma uhamba endlini yangasese, bese utshala eduze kwamanzi;
ontanga noma abantwana asebekhulile - ezinye izigqoko ze-carp ngokwanele ukuba zivakashele izingane eziye zafunda kahle imbiza;
amathoyizi - faka idoli yakho oyithandayo noma ibhere phezu "embizeni" eceleni komntwana.
Khumbula ukuthi ukutshala kumele kube nokuqonda futhi ngokuzithandela. Ungalokothi uhlukumeze ingane, ngisho noma ingabe esikhundleni sebhodlela ayibhala ephepheni elisha, futhi njalo udumise, ngisho noma manje uhlala ebhodweni ngokuyisimangaliso.
Ukusebenza ebusuku nobusuku (okungukuthi, ukulala nokuhamba ngaphandle kwe-diaper) kufanele kuqalwe kuphela ngosuku lapho ingane ihlezi ebhodweni "ngaphandle kokuphuthelwa."
Qala ngaphezulu
Izinsana eziningi, ezijwayele ibhodlela ezinyangeni ezingu-7-8, zikhula, zilahla ngokwezifiso leli lwazi eliwusizo. Kungani lokhu kwenzeka? Abahlengikazi bakholelwa ukuthi kuze kube unyaka wokufundisa okuqaphelayo embizeni nasenkulumeni ngeke kube: izingane azikwazi ukuya embizeni, kodwa yenza umyalo womama. Esikhundleni sezenzo zokubangela-futhi-effect "ufuna ukuya endlini yangasese - ihlezi phansi ebhodweni - ingabe umsebenzi wakhe" uhlelo "uhlezi ebhodini ngesicelo samama-pisses / croaks ekuphikeleni kukaMama." Futhi ekubeni ozimele ngokwengeziwe, ingane iqala ukuphikisana ...
Ukulungiselela inhlabathi
Abasekeli bemfundo yemvelo bakholelwa ukuthi wonke umntwana unesifiso esiyingqayizivele sokuhlala esomile futhi ehlanzekile. Kanye nokugqoka okugqoke ezandleni nokuncelisa ekufuneni, ingxenye ebalulekile yale ndlela yindlela yokutshala ekuqaleni (hhayi ebhodweni!).
Ngisho nalawo omama abangenayo izikole zabazali bayakwazi ukubona ukuthi lezi zingane zivame ukunikeza izimpawu ezizwakalayo zalokho abafuna ukuya endlini yangasese: ukububula, ukuphenduka, ukuqhuma noma ukukhanda, kubheke "kungabikho." Kulezi zikhathi ukuthi kumele "zilahleke" ", okungukuthi, yibeke phezu kwesitsha noma isitsha. Lokhu kungenziwa ngokoqobo kusukela ezinsukwini zokuqala zokuphila kwengane. Cishe ingxenye yonyaka, i-crumb iqala ukumelana nokutshala futhi ijwayele ukuya endlini yangasese ekhoneni elingasese. Uma umama engakwazi ukukhuthazela ngokwanele ngalesi sikhathi, ungabeki izingubo zemfucumfucu futhi ungamphoqeleli ukuba angene ebhodweni, bese uneminyaka engamashumi nesigamu ingane ingase iqale ukucela ukuba ilahlekelwe. Emva kwalokho, kuhlale nje ukumnika imbiza.
Akusebenzi?
Kubonakala sengathi yenza konke okulungile, kodwa okwamanje akusebenzi? Sinikeza izinketho eziningana kulabo abazali abangabantwana abaphikisana nabo noma ngokungazinaki izipesheli ukuze babhekane nesidingo sembiza. Ngokuvamile udumisa umntwana ngalokho ayehlala nje ebhodweni, ngisho noma engenakukwazi ukugunda noma ukugunda, futhi ngokucela imbiza, ngisho noma ungazange ufike lapho. Ngaleso sikhathi, lahla izinhlayiya (ntambama).
Vula imfundiso ebhodweni ekuthwalweni komdlalo. Isibonelo, vumela i-kid ithulule okuqukethwe kwebhodlela endishini yangasese, bese ukhulula amanzi. Ngenxa yalokhu abaningi bazimisele ukuya embizeni kaningi.
Phakamisa ingane ukuba ikhethe esitolo embizeni oyithandayo. Lowo owabonakala kuwe ukuthi ukuphakama kokuphelela angeke amjabulise ingane.
Phakamisa okunye ngesimo somntwana endaweni yangasese kanye ne-podstavochki ngaphansi kwezinyawo. Ezinye izingane zikhetha ukuzenza "ngokushesha" ngendlela endala, endlini yangasese, ngokudlula isiteji "samanzi". Uma konke okungenhla akusizi, vele ushiye umntwana: susa ibhodlela emehlweni emehlweni amasonto amabili.
Futhi umthetho owodwa ujwayelekile kubo bonke abazali: ukuze ugweme ukuzihlanganisa okungalungile, sebenzisa amagama angaphathi hlangothi ukukhombisa izenzo zezinyane ezihlobene nobhodwana, futhi ugweme ama-pejorative, njengama-"panties ezonakele", "ama-bika", "amahlumela".
Ukukhetha okunzima
Ukuthenga ibhodlela lokuqala kuyisenzakalo esibaluleke kakhulu. Okufanelekile, kufanele kukhethwe phambi kwengane futhi "ngokufanelekile." Vumela izinyane lizame ukuhlala phansi ebhodini bese zikhetha lokho akuthandayo. Ngokuvamile ukumelana nokutshala kungenxa yokuthi ibhodlela alizwa kahle noma alifani nemincintiswano.
I-Pot-saddle
Mhlawumbe, lo modeli uyathandwa kakhulu. Inzuzo yayo ihlelwe ngendlela ejwayelekile. I-protuberance phambi ayivumeli ingane encane ukuba ikwazi ukunciphisa amadolo, ngaleyo ndlela inikeze i-positi ephathekayo "phezulu", njengesihlalo. Kodwa-ke, ekuqaleni kunzima ukuhlala ebhodweni elinjalo kunomjikelezo ovamile, ngoba kuqala kufanele ume endaweni "yobubanzi besikhwama" futhi kuphela bese uhlala phansi.
Pot-esihlalweni sobukhosi
"Isihlalo sobukhosi" sithokozela uthando olufanelekayo lwezingane ezisencane kanye nomama wabo.Inezikhali zokubamba izingubo kanye nebhodi elikhishwayo, ngokuvamile liphethe i-lip ngaphambili.Amadolo omntwana ahlukanisile ngokuzenzekelayo ezinhlangothini, futhi emuva kokunethezeka kwesihlalo "sobukhosi" kunikezela ukusekela emuva.
I-Pot-toy
I-duckling, imvubu, inja, umshini wokubhala-okude kude nohlu oluphelele lwembiza ezikhanga ezenziwe ngezinhlamvu ezahlukene. Ngomngane onjalo awukwazi ukuya kuphela endlini yangasese, kodwa futhi uxoxe ngalokhu, ngalokhu. Kodwa umsebenzi wethu oyinhloko ukubeka uxhumano phakathi kwesifiso sokuya endlini yangasese kanye nommbizi engqondweni yomntwana, futhi ingane ihoxisa ebhodweni lokudlala, ngezinye izikhathi likhohlwe ukuthi kungani ehlala kulo, ihlala isikhathi eside kunesidingo.
Classic
Okuvamile kakhulu, nxazonke, ngendwangu yokubhukuda nokuphatha - ibhodlela elinjalo yisimenywa esingapheli sezitolo zanamuhla zezimpahla zezingane. Futhi lokhu kungavumelekile okungafanelekile: ibhodlela elidala lisebenza kahle, futhi ukubukeka kwayo okuthobekile kuklanyelwe, njengoba bekushoyo, ukuze kulandiswe amateur. Lezo amakhophi ezisekhona ngezikhathi ezithile ezithengiswayo, ngokwemvelo, zenziwe ngepulasitiki, hhayi zensimbi, njengombono wazo waseSoviet.
Umculo
Ibhodlela elihle kunazo zonke - uma ligcwalisa, ngenxa yomsindo wezinzwa ezishintshayo.Ubhubhe oluvame kakhulu lubonakala lulahlekelwa kancane kancane abalandeli.Izicelo ezinkulu zifana ne-toy-toy: ingane ihlala ebhodweni ukuze imnandi. , ezinye izingane zivame ukwesaba umculo ngesikhathi esifanele kangaka.Zizibonele endaweni yazo - uhlala endlini yangasese, futhi ngokuzumayo imisindo ye-orchestra izwakala.
Ngesikebhe
Ipopi epulasitiki ivame ukunamathela kupapa. Ukuvuka, izingozi zezingane ezifaka okuqukethwe. Ukuze ugweme lokhu, imodeli ngayinye engenhla ingahlonywa "isinyathelo" - umshini ohamba phambili eduze nomkhawulo ohlangothini olungezansi webhodini.Uma usukuma, ingane iyahamba ngezinyawo futhi ibhodlela lihlala endaweni.Ukusebenza okufanayo (ukuvimbela ukujula nokushayela) kwenza i-silicone ihlelwe phansi .
With lid
Namhlanje le mininingwane ihlobisa kakhulu. Kunzima ukucabanga ngesimo lapho umama angakwazi ukukhipha khona okuqukethwe bese ugeza ibhodlela isikhathi eside kangangokuthi ivividu iyadingeka.