Zombili lezi zimo zijwayelekile ngokuphelele. Ungakwazi ukubamba izikhathi bese uphonsa umntwana ebhodweni, ufeze inani elincane lamapenties anamanzi ngosuku, kodwa lokhu akuyona isikweletu somntwana, kodwa umama kuphela. Futhi ngokuqinisekile, lokhu akusho ukuthi ingane iyajwayele imbiza, kunalokho, unina ujwayele. Kodwa wonke umuntu uzovuma ukuthi uma lesi sigaba esibalulekile empilweni yomama nengane siphela ngokunqoba kwembiza, wonke umuntu uyakhululeka. Ake sizithole ukuthi kanjani nokuthi ingane ijwayele kangakanani ekubheni.
Ama-Nappi aphazamisa
Lokhu kungcono kubazali. Kodwa-ke, izingane zizwa zingakhululekile kuma-diapers, futhi kusukela ekuboneni kwezokwelapha, ukusetshenziswa kwazo njalo akusizi kakhulu. Ngaphezu eyodwa kuphela - izingubo zokugqoka zangomntwana ezomile. Izinkinga zikhulu kakhulu, okungukuthi: ukuthola ingane emfucuza wabo, ukungabi nokuqonda ngezidingo zemvelo nokunciphisa ukwakheka kwengqondo yokugcoba.
Kuze kube ngu-1.5 iminyaka ukukhawulela ukuhlala kwengane kuma-diapers. Isibonelo, sebenzisa kuphela ngenkathi uhamba, uhamba, ngenkathi ebandayo.
Ngaphambi kokuba ugibele ingane embizeni, kufanele uyeke ukusebenzisa ama-diapers ngokuphelele. Lokhu kuyadingeka ukuba umntwana abe nomuzwa wokuphazamiseka kokuhlala emanzini amanzi, echaza ukuthi kungani lokhu kwenzeka, okungukuthi, ukuthi umntwana abe nobuhlobo obangela imbangela. Uzizwa ungakhululekile ekugqokeni izingubo ezimanzi, ingane izama ukukwazisa ngakho ngemisindo kanye nezenzo. Kulesi simo, udinga nje ukuqapha ukuziphatha kwengane.
Ithiphu
Ngesikhathi sokufundisa ingane ebhodweni, kufike kuwe. Ungalaleli iseluleko sabangane nabangane. Lena ibhizinisi lakho lomndeni wangaphakathi
Isayensi eyinkimbinkimbi yokuthi nokuthi ingane ifundiswa kanjani ekudleni akuyona elula. Kodwa-ke, usebenzisa iseluleko sethu, wena ngokushesha imivimbo imifino ekuphileni "omdala":
- Yenza ngendlela ehlelekile, hhayi kusuka ecaleni kuya kwecala;
- Nikeza abadwebi;
- Ungaphazamisi ngolwazi lomntwana ngesenzo sokuvuthwa: ingane kufanele ikwazi izitho zayo zobulili futhi ibone yonke "inqubo";
- Faka ummbila endaweni eyodwa, okungcono endlini yangasese - ingane kufanele ithole kalula;
- Buka ingane yakho (angathula phansi, afihle, avuke, ahlume, aqhube, angahlala emsebenzini wakhe);
- Gqoka ubuncane bezingubo ezinganeni ukuze zisuswe kalula;
- I-accustom ebhodweni ngenkathi efudumele (ehlobo);
- Ungacindezeli ukuba uhlale ebhodweni - uma ingane ingafuni, imicibisholo, ukukhala, inqubo yokufunda ilahlekelwa incazelo yayo: ingane enomsindo ayifundi lutho;
-Kuhlahlela emva kokulala kanye / noma emva kokudla;
- Dumisani ngothando uma konke kuvela ngendlela efanele, kodwa ungayidluli. Akudingekile ukuhlangabezana nomzamo ngamunye ophumelelayo ngehlombe;
- Ukuhambisana nenqubo ngemisindo (ngokuqonda kwakho - "ps-ps", njll, ngokuya komcabango womama);
- Ungaqali inqubo yokufunda uma ingane igula noma ishaya;
- Ngaphambi kokuhamba nangemva kwayo, zama ukubeka ingane ebhodweni;
- Ukuhamba, buza njalo ingane ukuthi ihambe "emahlathini" (uma uhlala kude), thatha izingubo zokugqoka;
- Ungamhlukumezi ingane ngenxa yezinqola ezimanzi;
Fundisa ngokushesha ukususa nokufaka ama-panties, ukuze esikhathini esizayo, uma kunesidingo, ingane ingasusa izingubo zayo futhi ihlale phansi ebhodweni. Mhlawumbe, okokuqala uzozama ukuhlala phansi ebhodweni futhi enze zonke "izinto" ngokuqondile ezembatho - kulungile, lesi sigaba kumele sibe nakho. Phatha le nkinga kancane ngefilosofi futhi ngokuhlekisa, ungenzi inhlekelele ngenxa yokuhluleka.
Fundisa abafana ukuba babhale ukuma
Ukwakhiwa kwe-reflex eyaziwa kahle, isifiso sokudonsa indlu yangasese, ngokuvamile kwenzeka eneminyaka emibili (ububanzi - kusukela ezinyangeni ezingu-14 kuya kwezi-24). Ingane enjalo iyaqonda inkulumo, ingakholelwa, ichazwe, inentshisekelo kwinqubo. Kodwa umntwana oneminyaka engu-year ngisho ne-reflex echazwe kahle ayinqaba kakhulu futhi ukhohlwe ngokushesha.
Kunzima kakhulu ukucacisa ukuthi lo mkhakha omuhle, uma ukuvuthwa njalo kuphenduka isifo. Uma ubona ukuvuthwa kaningi kwengane ngesikhathi sosuku noma uma unomvuthwa wokuzibandakanya ebusuku emva kweminyaka emihlanu, ungakhuluma nge-pathology. Ngaphansi kwesigqoko se-enuresis, izifo eziningi zezingane ezingenabuhlungu - izimo eziphuthumayo zokubeletha ekuthuthukiseni i-urinary tract, izifo ezivuthayo ezithinta umchamo, ukuphazamiseka kokusebenza kokuchama, kungazifihla.
Ngakho-ke , uma ingane, naphezu kwemizamo yakho yokuzijwayela ebhodweni, igcina ukuvinjelwa okungalawuleki (ngosuku olulandelayo emva kweminyaka emithathu ubudala, ebusuku emva kokuzalwa kweminyaka emihlanu), ingane kufanele ihlolwe.
Inkinga yokuphazamiseka kokuvuthwa kuhlangothini lwe-urology neurolology, futhi abazali abaningi bazithola belahlekelwa, yiliphi uhlobo lochwepheshe oludingekayo ukubonisa ingane. Ukuhlolwa kufanele kuqale ngo-urologist ozohlola ngokuqondile ama-genitalia wangaphandle kubafana, okuvumela ukuba akhiphe izifo ezinjenge-phimosis, i-balanoposthitis, i-edema yamagobolondo we-testicular, amathemikhali angabonanga (cryptorchidism). Ngokufanele, wonke umama womfana kufanele akhombise urologist oneminyaka engu-1 ubudala. Emantombazaneni, ukuhlolwa kwangaphandle okuyinhloko nakho kungenziwa ngudokotela we-urologist. Uma enezinsolo ekudleni kokuthuthukiswa kwesimiso somchamo, umntwana uzothunyelwa ekwamukelwa ku-gynecologist yezingane.
Futhi, i-urologist izohlinzeka ukuhlolwa okujwayelekile nokungabizi kakhulu - ukuhlolwa komchamo jikelele, i-ultrasound yezinso. Ingane eneminyaka engu-2.5-3 engakwazi ukuvota amahora angu-2-2.5. Leli xabiso lincike ezintweni eziningi - amandla omzimba, isamba se-fluid esithathwe, izinga lokushisa kwemvelo, izinga lokushisa lomzimba ngokwayo. Umthamo wesifiso ungabalwa kakhulu - ngokuvamile u-30 ml wonyaka ongu-1 wokuphila wengane ngencazelo yesamba somchamo wokusala. Ezimweni ezingavamile, isifundo esiyinkimbinkimbi seCI-CI, isifundo esiyinkimbinkimbi se-urodynamic, ngesisekelo sokuthi kungani imbangela yokuphazamiseka kokuvuthwa kungacacisiwe, kuboniswa. Uma imiphumela yalezi zifundo, ukukhubazeka ngokweqile kungabonakali, ngakho-ke kuyadingeka ukukhombisa ingane ku-neurologist.
Ungangikhali, Mama!
Inqubo yokuqeqesha ingane embizeni idinga kumama ukubekezela okukhulu, ukubekezela kanye nokuthanda. Ngakho-ke, ungalokothi usebenzise kabi ingane uma kuchazwe. Yiqiniso, ngezinye izikhathi ungase uzizwe kungento engenamsebenzi yonke imizamo yokutshala imvuthu embizeni, kodwa, ekuhlaziyweni kokugcina, akukho lutho oludlula ngaphandle kokulandelela. Ngemuva kwesikhathi esifushane, uzodinga isidingo sokusebenzisa ummbila ngokwakhe, futhi lokhu kuyisimo esiphakeme sokuthuthukiswa kwengane.
Kungenzeka futhi kuyadingeka ukuqeqesha isisu, ukufundisa ingane ukuba ibekezelele, Yebo, ngaphakathi kwemingcele efanele. Ukuze wenze lokhu, zama ukuphazamisa ingane emcimbini wokugwedla, sengathi sengathi ufuna ibhodlela. Lokhu kuzokugwema "izingozi" ngesikhathi sokuhamba, ukuhamba kanye nezimo ezihlukahlukene ezingalungile ngokukhulisa amandla okusebenza kwesisindo. Lokhu kuqeqeshwa kudinga ukubekezela nokuqina okuningi kumama, kodwa umphumela uwufanele. Ngingathanda ukuncoma ukuyeka ingane njalo amahora amabili.
Ukukhetha okumbi
Ibhodlela liyadingeka kuphela into eyodwa: ukuthunyelwa kwezidingo zemvelo. Kumele kube nokuzinzile, okuphansi, okulula futhi ephephile. Namuhla, abakhiqizi "bezingubo" zezingane banganikeza omama ukhetho olukhulu futhi oluhluke kakhulu olukwazi ukwanelisa ukunambitheka okudinga kakhulu.
Umbhobho ojikelezayo
Ngomgodi ojikelezayo. Ukungabi nalutho kwalesi sitsha kungukuthi lapho ingane ihlala kuso, imilenze yengane iqhutshwa ndawonye. Lokhu kwenza abafana bangakhululekile.
Ibhodlela le-anatomical
Umoya we-oval, emuva nangemuva, phambili - ukuvikelwa okhethekile kwabafana. Izinzuzo zihlanganisa isihlalo esihle, ingane isesikhundleni somgibeli, imilenze ihlukanisiwe. Izimbiza ezinjalo zikulungele kakhulu amantombazane nabafana. Ngomubho wesimo esifanayo, ama-puddles phansi awasongeli.
I-Potty-stool
Ibhodlela ngesimo sesihlalo esinamasongo, lapho ithangi lisuswa khona. Le mibhodwe ilula kakhulu ukusebenzisa.
I-Pot-toy
Ngaphambi kwalezi zimbiza ngokuvamile zitholakala ngesondo, ipeni noma ikhanda lomlingiswa wezintambo. Lokhu kudala ukuphazamiseka kwengane encane enezintambo phansi - kudingeka ukuthi asuse ngokuphelele izingubo zakhe bese ephonsa unyawo lwakhe ebhodweni, ngenkathi esebenzisa ibhodlela le-anatomical ingane inganciphisa ama-panties bese ihlala emuva ebhodweni. Ukuvuka ngebhodlela elinjalo futhi akulula kakhulu iziqu. Ingane ingawa, vula ubhodlela phezu kwakhe, wesabe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ingane iphazamiseka ngumdlalo ngebhasi futhi ingakhohlwa ngokuphelele umsebenzi wayo.
Ibhodlela lomculo
Igama likhuluma ngokwalo - ngokushesha nje lapho ingane yakho iqala ukwenza izinto "ezincane" zayo, ukuhambisana komculo kuqhubeka. Ingozi yokusebenzisa izimbiza ezinjalo ukuthi ingane ine-reflex condition condition to a certain song, bese ingakwazi ukubhala embizeni. Ngezinye izikhathi kunezimo lapho ingane izwa ingoma yakhe "siqu" endaweni ethile endaweni engafanele nayo yonke imiphumela (kokubili ngomqondo oqondile nangokomfanekiso). Ngaphezu kwalokho, umculo awudingekile ebusuku, ngesikhathi sokugula kwengane, ngezimpawu nemizwelo. Kungaba okungalindelekile, wesabe ingane futhi, ekugcineni, ube nesithukuthezi.
Umculo, ukukhanya nokunye okunye "okukhethekile" okuhambisana nokugonywa kwengane akuvumelekile neze. Ingane, ejwayele ukuya endlini yangasese "ngaphansi kwezingxabano", kuyoba nzima kakhulu ukuncibilikisa kulokhu futhi ufundise kabusha ubumbano bokusebenzisa ibhodlela.