Indlela yokufundisa ingane ukuziphatha okuhle?

Izingane zethu zihlale zidinga ukunakekelwa nokunakekelwa kwethu. Ungalokothi udalule ingane ngokwenza okuthile okungalungile. Zama ukumchazela ngokuthula. Uma ingane ikulalela, ngaso sonke isikhathi umbonge ngokufudumala kwakho. Ngokuvamile kwenzeka ukuthi izingane ziphathe kabi ngoba zifuna ukuba unake. Vele uzame ukungaziboni lokho akushoyo, futhi uzozilalisa lapho ebona ukuthi akekho owamnaka. Isibonelo esihle kakhulu kwengane yakho ngabazali bakhe. Izingane zizama ukukopisha abadala ngokuphelele. Futhi lapha konke kuxhomeke kuwe. Kumele umnike isibonelo ekhaya, futhi kude. Uma utshela ingane ukuthi kukhona okungeke kwenziwe, njalo mchaze ukuthi kungani kungenakwenzeka nokuthi kufanele baziphathe kanjani kahle. Wonke umzali ufuna ingane yakhe ikhuliswe. Ukuze wazi njalo ukuthi ungubani, ukusho kanjani, ukuze ungaphazamisi abazali ngenkathi kuxoxwa, kwakungumntwana ozolile futhi olinganiselayo. Kodwa ngoba lo mzamo omkhulu awudingekile. Hlala isiguli esiningi kakhulu futhi konke onakho ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kuzophuma.

Kunemithetho eminingana ingane yakho okufanele ikwazi ngempela.

1. Ungalokothi ukhulume nabantu abadala baze baqede ingxoxo yabo.

2. Uma umuntu engakhulumi ukukhuluma noma nje engafuni ukuxhumana, akudingeki ukuba amcindezele.

3. Awukwazi ukumemeza ezindaweni zomphakathi, ukhombe ngomunwe wakho.

4. Ngaphandle kwemvume, ungalokothi uthathe into engeyona eyakho. Kuphela ngemvume nemvume.

5. Awukwazi ukuthatha kubantu abangabazi izinto noma izinto abanikeza zona.

6. Njalo kudingeka uhlanganyele nenani labantu onakho.

7. Awukwazi ukuhlela amahlaya kubazali uma bengakathengi okuthile, udinga nje ukukucela futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi uma benethuba, nakanjani bayokuthenga lokho okucelile.

8. Uma ubuzwa umbuzo, kufanele uphendule ngaso sonke isikhathi.

9. Awukwazi ukuhamba eduze kwefulethini ngezicathulo.

10. Awukwazi ukuphonsa izinto ezungeze indlu. Kufanele njalo ukwazi ukubeka zonke izinto ezindaweni zazo.

Yiqiniso, kunemithetho eminingi futhi emndenini ngamunye bangabakho. Futhi isibonelo esibaluleke kakhulu, uma sifuna ukubona izingane zethu zihloniphekile futhi zilungile, singabantwana. Kumele, okokuqala, sibuyele kithi. Siziphatha kanjani ekhaya? Siziphatha kanjani uma sivakashele? Ingane kufanele ikhuliswe ngesibonelo sethu.

Futhi uma sifuna ukufezekisa kusuka kumntwana imithetho yokuziphatha, okokuqala kufanele siphila ngalezi zimiso ngokwethu. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ingane yakho izoqonda konke lokhu.

Hlala ubuqotho kulabo abaseduze nawe nabantu abaseduze nawe.