Kwabaningi omama (futhi ngokuvamile abadade) balungiselela ukugubha unyaka wokuqala kufana nokushada komshado. Kunezimo ezibhaliwe, ukuhlobisa kuyathengwa, amaphephandaba amadonga akhathwe, amaphepha amaningi afundiswa, izincwadi, omagazini. Imibono iyinani elimangalisayo futhi aziwa kanjani ukwenza iholidi kakhulu kunazo zonke? Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu ukugubha usuku lokuzalwa lokuqala? Ngabantwana noma abadala?
Indima yomntwana ekuqeqesheni
Ake sizame ndawonye ukuze sibone ukuthi kungcono kanjani ukukwenza kule nkinga.
Eqinisweni, impendulo yombuzo: ingane iholide noma umuntu omdala akuyona yonke into engavamile. Ngemuva kwalokho, abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi ingane ayisayiqondi lutho futhi ayikho isidingo sokuqoqa isixuku sabomama abanezingane ezizophikisana ngisho nokungaqondi ukuthi umhlangano uthini.
Futhi kakhulu kakhulu, ukuthi abadala bayalahla ama-akhawunti ezithakazelo zezingane.
Emva kwakho konke, noma ngabe kwakunjani, kungumntwana wakho. Futhi kakade kule minyaka ubudala ingane izozizwa ngokuqinisekile ukuthi lolu suku aluvamile, ukuthi yonke into ihambisana naye, ukuthi ungumfana wokuzalwa!
Kusukela ukulungiselela iholidini, nikezele ama-plumb kuya ezinhlelweni zakho. Ngitshele ukuthi wenzani nokuthi kungani. Mayelana nokuthi ujabule kanjani futhi uhlushwa kancane ukubona ukuthi sikhula ngokushesha kangakanani.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unquma bani ukugubha usuku lwakho lokuzalwa, kunengqondo ukucabanga ngakho ngokucophelela.
Abazali abaningi bagcina i-computer ama-gigabyte amaningi wezithombe namavidiyo omnyaka wokuqala wokuphila. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, izingane zikhula ngesilinganiso esinjalo kangangokuthi ngezinye izikhathi zingathola isikhathi sokubuka izinto ezivele zifakiwe, akuncane, akunakwenzeka. Kulesi simo, siza ukusiza izinhlelo ezihlukahlukene zokufaka amavidyo kliphu noma umbukiso we-slide.
Ungathola kokubili izinhlelo ezaneleyo, izinga eliphakeme lochwepheshe, futhi elula, ejwayelekile, lapho umama ngamunye angaqonda kalula.
Ukudala ifilimu yeholide yokuqala yomntanakho, uzokhumbula eziningi ezimnandi, futhi, ngokungajwayelekile, izikhathi ezikhohliwe zenyanga ezidlule.
Futhi wena nezivakashi zakho kuzobukela ividiyo ekuqaleni kweholidi lakho. Yiba ugogo nomkhulu, okungabazeki ukuthi ngeke bakwazi ukubona okubonwayo noma izingane nabomama.
Mhlawumbe, akudingekile ukuhlela iholide lomuntu oneminyaka engaphandle kwendlu kanye nesimo esivamile. Izikhungo zokuzijabulisa ne-animators zingesabisa izikali zabo, futhi akuzona izinsiza eziningi zokudlala zengane ezinjalo ezingatholakala. Ekhaya kuzoba nokuthula, okunethezeka futhi okungenani ungeyena umlenze ozozizwa ekhululekile futhi aqonde ukuthi ngubani umkhosi wamanje.
Uma unquma ukugubha usuku lokuzalwa nezingane, qaphela ubuningi bezivakashi. Qinisekisa ukuthi uvuselela indlu, uhlanze izinto ezingadingekile. Uma ucabanga ukuthi igumbi lizohlotshiswa, kubalulekile ukuthi ungalifaki ngaphezulu ngemibala ekhanyayo nezinto ezinkulu. Susa izithombe ze-brainy noma ezinye izinto ezibuthakathaka noma ezingabalulekile kusuka etafuleni lekhofi. Ungakhohlwa ngokuphepha. Uma i-egoza yakho iqaphela ukuthi amasokhethi angaphansi kwe-counter, lokhu akusho ukuthi bonke abazali baya emnyakeni wokuncelisa izingane ukuba zikhuphuke, lapho zingakufanele khona.
Itafula lezingane ezincane
Mhlawumbe ungathanda umbono wesiteshi sebhasi. Izithameli ezincane cishe akunakwenzeka ukuba ziyi-plodding, futhi omama akudingeki baphume njalo etafuleni befuna izingane ezihlukumezayo. Ithebula elikhanyayo ngokudla okulula, amaswidi, iziphuzo eziphuziwe ngejusi, i-compote noma itiye. Ungafika ngama-tartlets ane-saladi noma ama-canapés, ngakho-ke kulula ukumbamba.
Uma ungemukeli okwehlukile futhi ufuna ukwenza wonke umuntu ahlale etafuleni, akufanele ulindele ukuthi izingane zigcine izimo ezinjalo.
Ukufuna ukwazi ukuthi iziphi izidlo ezijabulisayo izivakashi zakho ezizijabulelayo. Ezinye izingane zijwayele ukwelashwa, kubalulekile futhi ukucacisa abazali.
Abaningi sebehamba kancane kancane etafuleni elijwayelekile, kodwa noma kunjalo, akufanelekile ukukhuthazela futhi banikele izingane izitsha ezihloselwe abazali bazo.
Ukudla itafula lezingane kunengqondo ukwenza isithelo se-puree, ikakhulukazi e-apple ephansi, i-yogurt, i-kefir, ehlanganisa izithelo ezomile.
Vele ubeke abakwa-box boxers uma kwenzeka, ngokungazelelwe umkhosi wakho uzophela ngesikhathi sokudla komuntu ovela emantwaneni amenywe.
Faka esikhundleni ikhekhe le-cream, elizohlolwa yi-senior, i-charlotte ngaphandle noshukela noma nge-add minimal cream.
Kunemincintiswano eminingi yokucabangela ukungazi lutho. Izingane zizodinga isikhathi sokujwayela omunye nomunye (naphezu kokuthi sezivele zijwayele), futhi qaphela izipho, amathoyizi amasha, ama-clutter, okuqinisekisiwe ukuba ngaleyo ndlela ngosuku.
Ukuze unciphise amathuba okubukeka kwesimo sengqondo esibi, qalisa ukuxazulula inkinga ngesikhathi. Umhlangano kufanele ube yiside. Ngokungaqondile, akufanele uphule umbuso ozinzile-okungenani wengane yakho. Izivakashi kulokhu ziyindzima, kodwa umuntu wokuzalwa kufanele abe nomoya omuhle futhi angalali phakathi kokuzijabulisa.
Umoya weholidi
Akunandaba ukuthi unquma ukugubha unyaka owodwa wengane yakho nezingane noma nabantu abadala, ukudala isimo seholidi. Sesivele sisho ngombukiso wesilayidi. Kodwa uma kungesibopho, ngakho-ke zonke ezinye izimfanelo zeholide kufanele zibe noma yikuphi.
Umenzi wemikhosi kumelwe ukuba wayejabule lapho ebona ukuthi zingaki izibhola ezazingena endlini yakhe! Futhi izithombe ze-nastenah nabasakazayo nge-"Happy Birthday!" Izobangela ukumamatheka lonke usuku.
Awufuni ukudweba amaphephandabeni odonga? Hlela ukulungiswa okwenziwe, ngokusho kwesifanekiso, kodwa umntanakho we-snitch. Le nsizakalo itholakala kunoma yiziphi izinsizakalo ezinkulu ze-salon photo.
Qoqa izihlobo kuphela, uzuze umzukulu oneminyaka elilodwa (a), umshana (ka), unkulunkulukazi (ka)? Yebo, uma kunjalo, bheka izithombe zezingane zabo. Kuyoba okuthakazelisayo kuwo wonke umuntu ukuba afune ubuhlobo obuphakathi.
Yenza imibuzo ngesihloko, owazi usuku lokuzalwa olungcono kakhulu.
Lungiselela izipho ezincane kumvakashi ngamunye. Magnetik kubantu abadala, izithelo zezingane. Ngenisa ngokugcwele. Ama-fantasies angamazi angazi imingcele, ngakho-ke unquma ukuthi ukulungisa umhlobiso oyinhloko wetafula wena noma ukubeka ochwepheshe. Kunoma yikuphi, ikhekhe, njengomthetho, yiyona evelele kulolu hlelo futhi iheha bonke abantu, ikakhulu izingane. Ngisho noma bengatholi ucezu, ngenxa yobumnandi obukhulu kakhulu.
Kungenzeka ukuphikisana nendaba yokukhulelwa kweholide yezingane isikhathi eside. Sifuna nje ukukukhombisa ukuthi ngisho noma ungenalo ubudala obufanayo neontanga zengane yakho, usuku lokuzalwa lokuqala kumele lube yingane. Jabulela, ujabule kuwo wonke umomotheka wengane yakho! Mnike ukwelashwa kwangempela!