Njengomthetho, isigqi sokuphila kwabazali ngaso sonke isikhathi sihambisana nokuphazamiseka okuqhubekayo nokuphikisana. Futhi kwenzeka njalo nsuku zonke, kufaka phakathi wonke amaholidi nezinsuku ezibalulekile. Ngenxa yalesi sivalo, abantu bayapholisa ngokuphawulekayo komunye nomunye. Ngakho-ke, izingane zihlale zifuna ukwenza okuthile ngokumelene nesimo sokukhathazeka okuqhubekayo nokukhathazeka kwabazali ukubenza bajabule futhi nganoma iyiphi indlela yokuvuselela imizwa yabo, ukwethula into emisha emndenini wabo, ngenkathi bethola ukuxhumana ngokomzwelo phakathi kukababa nomama. Isibonelo, kungani ungalungiseleli isidlo sokuthanda abazali bakho esizohambisana nesimo somndeni esivuthayo nesimnandi?
Isidlo sokudla kwabazali: isabelo sokulungiselela
Ukuhlela isidlo sakusihlwa esinjalo, izici zokuthandana akulona nzima njengoba kungabonakala ekuqaleni. Futhi konke okuzofika kuwe, ngaphambi kokuthi uhlele isidlo sothando lwabazali bakho, udinga ukuba obala kakhulu ekukhetheni isikhathi, indawo nendawo. Lungiselela isidlo esinjalo kufanele uqale kusengaphambili, unikezwe ngokuphelele yonke imininingwane kanye namazwana angase aphakame ngesikhathi sokulungiselela. Isibonelo, ukuhlanganisa isikhathi sabo bobabili abazali, ukuze bakwazi ukuqedela usuku olusebenzayo ngesikhathi esifanayo, lungiselela imenyu, kufaka phakathi izitsha eziyizintandokazi, ucabange ukuthi uzoshiya yini kulobubusuku ukushiya abenzi bokumbi "lomkhosi" wodwa. Kungcono ukuhlela isidlo salohlelo ngoLwesihlanu kusihlwa, lapho abazali, bekhathele ngemuva kwemisebenzi, bazobuya ekhaya bakwazi ukuphumula. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngosuku olulandelayo ngeke kuvuke ekuseni ukuze basebenze, futhi bazokwazi ukujabulela isikhathi esichithe ngokugcwele. Ungathanda isimanga? Thumela ubaba wakho nomama isimemezelo esisodwa somthetho kusihlwa. Lesi simemo esidlweni sakusasa singenziwa ngesimo somqulu oqinile noma imvilophu ephethe ikhadi leposi elihlanganisiwe lapho: ngobaba, kumama. Amakhadi anjalo angenziwa ukuze ahlele kunoma iyiphi indlu yokuphrinta. Ngobusuku ngokwalo kumele kufaka izimbali kubazali bakho abathandekayo, isidlo esiphundu ngisho nesipho.
Izinkanyezi zokulungiselela
Ngakho-ke, umgomo wakho ukudala isimo sokuphumula nokuthandana, okumele umndeni wakho uzizwe ngokushesha lapho bewela emngceleni wefulethi. Kusukela kuwe, kusukela kumhleli, udinga lokhu okulandelayo: pre-setha ithebula kahle (ukulungiselelwa itafula kungatholakala kwi-intanethi), amakhandlela, izimbali (kufanele zihlobise igumbi lonke), umculo ozithandayo wabazali (isibonelo, ungacela ubaba noma umama wakho ngokuthandayo ingoma, abahlangana ngayo futhi bayisebenzise ngezinhloso zabo zezempi). Ngendlela, ingoma enjalo ingaba isipho sakho. Ukuze ungaphuthelwa noma yikuphi amaphuzu okulungiselela umcimbi, kufanele udale uhlu olukhethekile, lapho ungahlela yonke isimiso sokuqeqeshwa kumaphuzu. Uqondiswa yilolu hlelo, kufanele uhambe ngesinyathelo ukuhlela kusihlwa.
Indima enkulu ekudleni kwalolu hlobo idlalwe imenyu, ngoba abazali ngokuqinisekile bayovela emsebenzini abalambile futhi ngeke bafune ukuhola kuphela kusihlwa, kodwa futhi badle. Uma ungazi kanjani ukupheka, uhlele izitsha ezivela endaweni yokudlela noma unikeze ama-saladi okukhanya, ushizi nenyama enqanyisiwe, izithelo, amaswidi. Makungabi yizici ezinhle kakhulu zokudla, kodwa ukudla okulula, okwenziwe phansi kwenhliziyo ngobaba nomama.
Ukuphuza utshwala kungcono ukuvuselela ibhodlela lobusuku lobusuku lwe-champagne elihle noma iwayini. Ungakwazi ukuhlobisa itafula ngamakhandlela amade abekwe emakhandeni azinzile noma izimbalwa ezincane zezimbali. Ungalokothi uvumelane nezimbali zasendle, ongakwazi ukuzihlanganisa ngokuzimela, ngokwenza izimbali zokuqala. Izimbali ezinkulu ezisetshenziselwa ukuhlobisa itafula akufanelekile, ngoba zizophazamisa ukuhlelwa komunye nomunye.
Kodwa ukuze uhlele ukuqhubeka kobusuku, ungalungisa umbukiso wesilayidi kusuka kuzithombe zomndeni bese uyibhalela ku-disc, ngenothi: "Ukuze ubone okumele!" Kumshiya etafuleni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungakhetha abazali kuba comedy elula yothando.
Futhi ekugcineni, zama kulobu busuku, futhi uma kwenzeka, kungukuhlwa, ukuchitha nomngane, kusengaphambili uvumelana naye ngakho!