Ukwesaba nokwesaba kwabesifazane kuyaqondakala futhi kuyamukeleka, kodwa kuthiwani uma le ndoda ibonisa izimfanelo ezifanayo? Amahloni angamahloni angakwazi ukufihla kokubili ukungcola kwemicabango, izimiso zokuziphatha eziphakeme kanye nokugubha okhethiweyo wakho, nokungabi nolwazi, ukuzwela okukhulu nokuzwela.
Ukwesaba kuyindlela yokwesaba okwehlisela ukuzethemba nokwakheka emehlweni abesifazane, okudala izingqinamba ekukhulumisaneni nasebulili.
Ukuhlola izinhloso zomuntu ohlazekile
Lapho usebenzisana nomuntu onamahloni, kuqala thola ukuthi unesithakazelo kuwe ngokuqhubeka kobudlelwane? Umuntu onamahloni akadingi ukuba abuzwe ngokuqondile ngemizwa noma izinhloso. Hlala yedwa nendoda futhi uma ephendula imibuzo ngokufushane, ecabanga isikhathi eside futhi ehleka ngokukhathazeka, bese ucabanga ngalokhu uphawu oluhle.
Indlela engcono kakhulu yokuhlola isithakazelo somuntu ukucela okuthile noma kumane ameme ukuba ahlangane. Mcele ukuthi alungise ikampompi ephukile, ishalofu noma i-laptop. Futhi ngaphandle kokuhamba, thola ukuqinisekiswa kwezinhloso zomuntu.
Unomuntu onamahloni, emphefumulweni wakhe okungenzeka ukuthi uhlale uhlala ekhulile futhi ufisa ukukhathazeka kweMexico, kodwa akavumeli ukuba asondele emgomweni owusizo? Khona-ke kusele ukucindezela othandekayo ezenzweni ezinqumayo.
Uma lo wesilisa engamahloni - ikheli kuqala emphefumulweni wakhe
Ukuze unqobe amahloni abesilisa, kunoma yikuphi okudingekayo, kubalulekile ukwenza indoda iqiniseke ngamakhono akhe, ukumnika ithuba lokuba yinkosi yalesi simo futhi akholelwe kuye. Zama ngokwengqondo ukubeka isithombe "se-macho" - Bred Pita noma u-Antonio Banderas futhi udlale iskripthi sakho.
Uma usuvele usesekhaya, umemele kuqala ekhishini. Chaza umsebenzi olula wesinkwa somuntu nesinkwa, faka izinkomishi nesitsha soshukela etafuleni. Mnike "ukuthuthuka komusa": udumise ngobuqotho nangokumanga "ngengozi" esihlathini. Uma othandekayo ephikisele ukuhlaselwa kwakho, ungaqhubeka. Phakathi nokukhonza kwetafula kanye neqembu letiye ngokwayo, uvame ukuthinta ingalo noma ihlombe lakhe. Laba oxhumana nabo kufanele bahambise umuntu osencane ngaphambi kwengxoxo ehlanzekile. Bese ugeza izitsha ndawonye. Uhlanganyela ezindebe, futhi umi eduze futhi usula. Ukuqedwa kwalesi sigaba kuyoba udumo: "Ngingakuphatha kanjani ngaphandle kwakho?" Kanye nokubonga okufushane esithamini noma izindebe.
Mnike indoda ukuthi aqonde ukuthi ujabule kule ndlu ngokuphuza itiye elula kanye nengxoxo. Uma kwenzeka isimo esibucayi, ungabuzi: "Ingabe uhlale uthobekile? Ngesikhathi esidlule, futhi, wayenamahloni? Ingabe kubuhlungu noma yini? Awuthandi mina? ". Izinzuzo ezengeziwe zizoletha imibuzo: "Ufuna itiye ngelamula?" Futhi kungakanani ushukela? Uma ngilambele, ngingakunika ukudla okudliwayo. "
Yenza inganekwane emnene
Ukuze indoda ijoyine uhlelo lomlandeli womndeni, owesifazane kufanele abukeke njengowesifazane wesintu nangokwemvelo, hhayi idoli elifashisayo. Ngakho-ke, "ngengozi" ngenkathi ugeza izitsha utshala isambatho, futhi uhlazeke uxolo, uguquke ube yisambatho sokugqoka izingubo ngebhande (hhayi ukucasula, hhayi ukucasula).
Hlala embhedeni naseqabeni ngokusebenzisa i-albhamu yezithombe zezingane. Ukuxubaniswa ngamazwana amahlaya kanye nezindaba, uqhubeka uthinta le ndoda ngokushesha futhi ubanga "ngengozi". Izindaba ezimnandi mayelana "nokuxhaphazwa" nokuhleka kubuthana ndawonye, ngalesi sikhathi, thatha isandla sakhe noma umcindezele ebusweni bakhe, ngaphandle kokukhohlwa ukwenza izincomo ezincane, njengokuthi "Ungummangaliso nje!".
Bese-ukubukeka okwesikhashana nokumanga (okuthobekile noma cha). Indoda ingasabela ekuthinteni othandekayo noma ngokushesha indlu ye-zasobiraetsya. Thatha izandla zakhe ngobuqotho, ngesisa futhi usho ngokufudumele ukuthi uyamangalisa nokuthi uyayithanda kanjani. Ungamamukela "umuntu othobekile", ubambe futhi uthi ngokulungela kwakho ubuhlobo obuseduze. Uma ngemuva kwakho konke lokhu, umnumzane akayeki, bese ulungele ukunyakaza okungamakhulu ama-cinema kanye nomthombo wetiye.
Yilethe ekupheleni
Uma wakwazi ukuletha icala kulobulili, bese ubeka eceleni zonke izinhlamvu ezimbi nezinhlamba namazwi. Futhi amathiphu ambalwa ambalwa:
Amadoda aqinile nabangenalwazi angakhohlwa ngamakhondomu;
I-lingerie engezansi kufanele isuswe kalula;
Khetha ama-aromas nonobtrusive nokwenza-up, ungafaki iphunga likagwayi. Ukuhlukumeza ngokweqile kwalokhu kunganciphisa umfana we-potency;
Ngomdanso womculo ophuthumayo, ungamthandi kakhulu, ukuze anganqikazi ukujabula.
Iningi lamadoda ethu alizange libukeke njengama-pushy macho isikhathi eside. Abaningi banamahloni noma besaba izenzo zocansi nezifiso ezicacile. Ngakho-ke, abesifazane kufanele bafunde umsebenzi ezindabeni ezithandana nabo futhi basize amadoda ukuba aqede izakhiwo ezihlukahlukene.