Kunzima ukucabanga okunye okudabukisayo kunokufa noma ukulimala kwengane ephilile ngokuphelele ngomzuzu odlule. Ukuhlukumezeka namuhla akugcini nje ukuqondwa kahle, hhayi ukuqonda ngokugcwele futhi okunenjongo, kodwa futhi kubalulekile inkinga yomnotho, yezokwelapha nezenhlalakahle. Phakathi kwezimbangela zokufa, ukuhlukunyezwa kuyaqhubeka kancane. Futhi, naphezu kwemisebenzi eminingi, izinhlelo eziphelele zokucwaninga nokuvimbela, akukho zinguquko ezibonakalayo ezilindelekile. Indawo ekhethekile ibhekene nokulimala kwezingane. Indlela yokuvikela ingane ekulimazeni ngengozi? Futhi kungenzeka yini? Mhlawumbe! Uzoqiniseka ngalokhu ngokufunda lesi sihloko.
Izibalo, okwamanje, ziyadabukisa: e-US, isibonelo, izingane ezingaphezu kuka-10 000 ngonyaka zifa ngezingozi. E-Russia ngo-2009, izimbangela ezibaluleke kakhulu zokufa kwezingane ezingaphansi kweminyaka engu-18 zalimala kanye nezingozi. Babengama-34%, futhi phakathi kwezingane kusukela ngonyaka owodwa kuya eminyakeni engu-4 - 47%. Esikhathini sokwakhiwa kwezingane ezisemqoka, izingozi, ukulimala kanye nokushiswa kwesifo sofuba kuthatha indawo yesine (izifo zokuqala zezifo zokuphefumula, izifo ezithathelwanayo nezifo ezithathelwanayo yizifo eziphazamisayo, uhlelo lwesithathu lwesifo sezinzwa). Ngonyaka ngonyaka, ingane ngayinye yesikhombisa yalimala, eyodwa kwezintathu idinga ukwelashwa okude isikhathi eside, eyodwa kokuyishumi - ukulala esibhedlela. Futhi lawa amacala abhalisiwe kuphela!
Ukuziphatha kufanele kufundiswe!
Ezimweni eziningi, ukuhlukunyezwa okutholakele ingane akuyona nje indaba, kepha umphumela, ngokuqondile, isici semfundo. Izazi zengqondo zezingane eziye zafunda indima yomndeni kanye namathuba okulimala, zithole izici eziningana ezithinta imvamisa yokulimala. Phakathi kwabo - ukudakwa emndenini, ukungaboni kahle kwengane, ukungabi nanoma yikuphi ukuphatha phezu kwezingane nokulawula ukuziphatha kwabo.
Izingane zasemadolobheni, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi zineminyaka yobudala kangakanani, zisesimweni esibucayi kakhulu, isikhala sabo siphila ngokuqinile ngokuthuthukiswa okukhulu, inqwaba yezimoto ezitaladini nasemagcekeni. Ngisho nasezikhungweni zengane encane elinde izingozi eziningi: ngengozi eshiywe esikhaleni esivelele, isikhala esilahlekile sokuthunga, isiteji esishayelayo. I-vase enhle yase-oriental, ehambisana kahle ne-interior, iphenduka isikhali esinqabekayo, uma idonswa ngumuntu oneminyaka eyodwa ubudala enezindwangu zetafula ekugcineni kwetafula ...
Izindlela ezivamile zomzali - ukungabi ukukhuphuka, ukungathathi, ukungathinti, ukungasondeli - ukuqonda kwezingane akufinyeleleki, futhi ngezinye izikhathi kudala izenzo eziphikisana ngokuphelele. Ingane ifunda umhlaba, ingumcwaningi: konke okuzungezile kufanele kuhlolwe, kuthinteke, kuhlolwe bese kusetshenziselwa okuthile. Akunakwenzeka, akusizi ngalutho futhi kuyingozi ngisho nokugcina ingane njalo futhi inqabela konke.
Indlu ephephile.
Lapho umntwana eqala ukuhamba, zonke izinto angafinyelela kuzo, kumele zisuswe noma zihlelwe kabusha. Kubalulekile okwesikhashana ukususa ekuboneni izinto ezibalulekile, izinto ezincane, imithi, ingilazi kanye nezitsha ze-ceramic, amathuluzi abukhali, amakhemikhali asekhaya. Amabhuku emashalofini adinga ukuphoqwa ndawonye ngokuqinile kangangokuba ingane ayikwazi ukuyikhipha. Ama-electro-sockets kufanele avaliwe nama-plugs akhethekile. Ngomntwana, noma yikuphi into yasendlini ukutholakala, okuthola ukuthi ngokushesha kuyisitokisi. "Amathoyizi" anjalo angahlukaniswa ngamaqembu amathathu.
1. Empeleni amathoyizi wezingane. Kufanele zifinyeleleke njalo, ukuze zihambisane neminyaka yobudala, zikwazi ukusebenza futhi ziqinile ngokwanele. Imfuneko eyinhloko kubo ukuphepha! Unganikezi amathoyizi abantwana ngezingalo ezibukhali, ngokungafani kalula ezingxenyeni ezincane. Khetha lezo ezingasuswa kalula: kusuka ku-raber, izinkuni, ipulasitiki. Bahlele emashalofini aphansi ukuze uma ufuna ukudlala, ingane ayikhuphukeli ekuphakameni.
2. Izinto zekhaya ezingathathwa phambi kwabazali: zonke izinto ezincane, i-ceramics, amapensela, izikhali zezingane.
3. Izinto ezingeke zithathwe ngezandla: izitshalo, izinaliti, imimese, amafayela e-nails, izinaliti eziboshiwe ezibukhali, ama-awl. Ayikho ingilazi engaba yingozi ingilazi, insimbi, imifino, i-ployka. Uma usebenza nalezi zinto futhi ingane yakho iseduze, qaphela!
Ukusikisela kwabazali.
Kunomqondo omuhle kakhulu wamaKristu: "Kubalulekile ukukhulisa ingane uma ihambisana nendawo ebhentshini." Awunaso isikhathi, ushiye kusasa - umphumela ngeke ugcine ulinde. Kukhona futhi umthetho ongabhalwanga we "isandla esifushane" - ingane kufanele ihlale iseduze, ngaphansi kokulawula: uma ungamboni - kufanele uzwe, uma ungazwa - kufanele ubone!
Okuhlangenwe nakho kubonisa ukuthi indlu enhle nehlanzekile iyisisekelo sokuphepha kwengane. Izinkumanga ezingathandeki, izingozi nokungajabuli kwenzeka kaningi uma izinto 'zingazazi indawo yazo'. Ngakho, susa njalo into yakho ngokushesha, ngokushesha uma ususebenzise. Ukuze ufike nomsebenzi wengane, kungenzeka ukuhambisa zonke izinto eziyingozi emashalofini nasemakhabhinethi phezulu, bese ushiya konke okuphephile, okulula futhi okungafani kahle emashalofini aphansi. Etafuleni lekhofi ekamelweni elivamile ungahlela omagazini abanemibala endala, izincwadi zezingane ezithombeni.
Ukwelashwa okusheshayo komzali kuyadingeka uma ingane ingenziki engamukeleki: iphakamisa uhlaka lwegwayi, iphonswe ngaphandle komuntu, ingcezu yeglasi. Ukuhamba kwengane akufanele kubangele ukukhathazeka noma ukucasuka. Lokhu kuyisisusa esibalulekile sokuthuthukiswa kwayo. Ukudlala ingane ehlala phansi, ivaliwe futhi ngokuthula kufanele kubangele ukwesaba okungaphezu kwesigcino.
Ukulimala nokudala.
Kuvame ukukholelwa ukuthi kuze kube yiminyaka emithathu, ukuvimbela ukulimala ezinganeni kunqunyelwe ukulawulwa okuqinile kokuziphatha kwabo, ukususwa kwezinto ezingase zibe yingozi emkhakheni wombono. Ukusola kwalesi sigameko kule minyaka kulele ngokuphelele nabazali nabafundisi. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ukuxilongwa ngokweqile, ukuhlolwa ngokweqile nokuntuleka kokuzimela akukwenzi kube khona amathuba okulimala aphansi. Kusukela eneminyaka emithathu ubudala, isimo nesimo sokulimala sekushintshile. Ingane idinga ukuzimela okuthile, futhi ukuqapha okuqinile njalo manje akumukeleki. Ngakho-ke, umsebenzi oyinhloko ukuhlanganiswa kwezinkambiso namakhono okuziphatha atholakalayo. Lesi yisiqinisekiso sokubikezela kwezenzo zengane hhayi kuphela emndenini womndeni, kodwa futhi naseqenjini labantwana.
Ingane iya esikoleni. Manje isikhathi esiningi esichitha eqenjini, ukuthola ubuntu obunikazi. Ukulimala okungenani kuka-30% izingane zesikole zithola ezikoleni, kanti 61% - emva kwehora-, ekushintsheni, esikoleni ngesikhathi semidlalo. Ukuhlukunyezwa kwemidlalo yonyaka wesikole kuchazwa ukuthi umdlalo uhlangana ndawonye, akuyona inqubo ngokwayo ebalulekile, kodwa umphumela. Ngakho ukuziphatha ngokomzwelo ngokweqile, ingozi, ukuzithiba okuphansi. Ukushintsha ngokushesha isimo segeyimu nesici sokumangaza (isikhathi sokubalekela, gxuma, ukulwa) kwenze ukulimala kungenakugwema.
Lapho uneminyaka engu-14-15, ukuphila kushaya isihluthulelo! Izingane zisabela ngokuhlukumezayo kuzo zonke izinto ezenzekayo, zihlukaniswa ngezigaba, ziyashukumisa, zihamba kakhulu. Yebo, uma intsha idlala imidlalo, futhi uma kungenjalo-isitolo siba ngumgwaqo ... Kuye inkululeko, ukuzimela, ukuzimela. Ngakho-ke, abafana abasha bayalimala kaningi izikhathi ezintathu - ngokuvamile ngenxa yokuphathwa ngokungenandaba kwezinto ezibukhali, ukutholakala kwamakhemikhali ahlukahlukene kanye nomlilo ovulekile. Okuvamile kule minyaka, ukuqhuma kwesibindi nomngcipheko kungabonakaliswa ngokungalungi nokungahambisani nhlobo. Futhi umphumela ukuwa kwe-projectile yezemidlalo, kusukela esihlahleni, ukushaywa phansi phansi kwamanzi emanzini angajulile.
Kule minyaka yobudala, kunesifiso semvelo sokuzifakazela, ukukhombisa amandla omuntu, ubuhle, ukuthola amathuba akho, okungazibonakalisa ezakhiweni zokuhlukumezeka, ukucekelwa phansi, ubudlova kanye nosizi lomzimba olubangelwa onontanga. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ukukhula okuqhubekayo nokuthuthukiswa komzimba, ukunyuka kwengqondo nengqondo kwengcindezi kuyashesha ukuqeda izingane, futhi ukungabi nesikhathi sokuphumula kokuqala nakho kuthinta. Ngakho-ke, ukwehla kokucabanga, ukunganakwa, ukuxuba, okusho ukuwa, ukulimala, amanxeba, ukushisa. Ingxenye ebalulekile yezinto ezingaqondakali ezinyathelweni zabantu abadala zixhuma kusuka esitezi sesibili, zihamba ngokugabha ebhuloho, zimile emaphethelweni ophahleni wesakhiwo esikhulu, njll. Iyindlela yokuzimela, ukucacisa umkhawulo wokuphepha komuntu siqu. Ngeshwa, intuition ngezinye izikhathi ikhohlisa.
Umndeni ngezindlela eziningi kudala lolo khetho olukhethekile, olulodwa lokuziphatha oluqukethe ulwazi nemikhuba yezizukulwane ezidlule. Futhi uma ngesimo esithile esiyingozi umqondo "awusebenzi", bese uvele uzihlanganise ngokuzenzekelayo leyo ndlela yokuziphatha (ukuhlukumezeka, ukubuyela emuva, ukuhlasela, ukuhlaselwa, ukungabi namuntu), okwakhiwa ngokukhuliswa emndenini. Kusukela ekukhulisweni kwengane, yiziphi izindinganiso ezibalulekile aziphetheyo, hhayi kuphela impilo yakhe engokomoya encike, kodwa futhi nesimo somzimba, kanye nokuphila okulandelayo njengokuphelele.